@kipperoo your whole situation with you family screams no to me too! I'm so sorry. My first thought was why was your family even planning a trip to Paris a week after you were having the baby to begin with? Is it a special occasion? My family is pretty much from about 2 weeks before to 1 month after my due date not planning anything. I guess because they want to be around if something is needed. Your sis sounds a bit off to think its OK to just bring her friend to your house too. Why should you have pay for them to stay in a hotel room? Tell your sis sorry I know you friend is coming but there "no room at the inn" and she's gonna have to stay some place else. If there's an issue with that her friend can take a direct flight from Utah to Paris and meet them there. Sorry you have to deal with that.
@mdlorenz so not cool on the nurses part. Especially in a NICU where momma's are already sensitive enough you don't need to hear something like that. The nurses need to be a little more aware of their surroundings and NEVER assume they are alone. If they wanted to have a convo like that they should have had it outside because you never know is someone is on the other side of the curtain.
Sorry you have to go in @SparkySunDevil but out of curiosity was it something in addition to the toddler body slam that sent you in? My son is 33lbs and routinely flys at me out of nowhere and I never think to go, just wondering if there are additional signs or something your doc told you to look out for?