November 2017 Moms

Why My Pregnant Self is Crying 3/17

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  • The episode of RHOC where Vicki's mom died. Sobbing. 
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  • @Roliepoliecoley4 WTF DH? That isn't very fair. 
  • @colorwheel I think he was just trying to toot his own horn, and didn't realize it was hurtful until I was upset. He walked away muttering to himself lol
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  • Some friends bothered a bride in one of the weddings I'm going to this summer about housing arrangements and it stressed her out and I feel so bad that I started crying...even though I wasn't a part of it. This group of people doesn't know any wedding etiquette
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    @DuchessOfCambridge - That stinks.  :s I'm a violinist and paid for a lot of college and beyond by doing weddings every weekend. I saw and communicated with so many poor stressed-out brides (sometimes for legitimate reasons, sometimes just crazy) that my H and I nearly eloped.  I don't work them anymore unless I'm not the contractor and can just show up on the day of to play. 
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  • *TW abuse* I saw a video of a woman hitting her kids on FB. Luckily she was arrested, but it made me so upset. */TW*
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 34 DH 32.5     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17

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    @NYTino24 - That's awful. I get simultaneously weepy and ragey over those things. 
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    I cried for the last a game of connect four to my husband. Also, I started crying when I couldn't figure out how to open the Google Maps app on my phone.
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  • @NYTino24 that's really upsetting. 
    @kschref I love the birthday decorations!
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  • @kschref adorable!!

    @NYTino24 Ugh why TF was that on Facebook?? 


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    Bc my son year old wanted to watch The Good Dinosaur 


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  • Because I had to wait 1.5 hours to go to the bathroom because we were "short staffed" only to run to the bathroom and see admin chatting it up with corporate and goofing off. ( when they could be doing potty breaks!! ))
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  • @NYTino24 may I ask, was one of the reasons your ob recommended testing because of the family history? I know sometimes insurance will only pay if there are risk factors. I am asking bc I also have a family history, my maternal cousin (also my God daughter) has DS and I don't know if that increases our risk factor. 

    Also, your post made me cry...I love my sweet cousin to death and it hasn't been an easy road for her either. And now I am crying again bc I miss her. 



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  • There was a commercial on Klove radio this morning where a bunch of people were giving testimony blurps and one guys said he was now 6 months sober and I lost it.  Never known anyone to struggle with alcoholism like that but for some reason it just got to me....
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    Me:27 (diagnosed anovulatory May 2016)  DH:29 (normal)
    Met 2008 | Dated 2010 | Married 2012
    TTC#1 since June 2015
    June 2016- 50mg generic clomid CDs 5-9 w/TI | 2 follies (14 & 12), thin (2.45) lining | BFN
    July 2016- 1mg estradiol CDs 1-7, 50mg generic clomid CDs 5-9 w/TI | 2 follies (14 & 10), thin (~4) lining | BFN
    August 2016- 1mg estradiol CDs 1-7, 50mg generic clomid CDs 5-9 w/TI | BFN | Referred to specialist, visited once, was told we have less than a 3% chance even on medication, recommended to IUI for up to a 50% chance, decided not to pursue at this time | Stopped "trying"
    October 2016- We became licensed foster parents
    November 9, 2016- Arrival of DD#1, 4yo
    March 1, 2017- 1 day late, feel like crap (low fever & exhausted) | Mom suggested test before taking meds, I laughed but did it anyway | BFP! *shock*

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  • @jess0211 He recommended testing because of my MC, because I'm 34, and because my nephew's DS is due to a translocation, which I may be a carrier for. It wouldn't hurt to ask your doctor. You don't need a reason if you want to get it done, though. 
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*


    Me: 34 DH 32.5     Married 7/16
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 7/21/17    MC 1/8/16 at 8 weeks
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/20/17

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  • @NYTino24 thanks for the info. Given I am 35 and the family history I will definitely be asking the doctor about it. 



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  • I just took my first medication of the pregnancy...and now I am in tears. I so wanted to make it to 12 weeks without the need for anything other than my vitamins. I have been able to avoid the zofran so far but I had to give in and take a tylenol for a headache and over all discomfort :( I know its safe and I know I set a lofty goal but still :(

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  • I teared up when my DH left for work this morning... I'll see him tonight so it doesn't make much sense.  

    I haven't been crying that much.  I'm normally a very emotional person, but I feel like I have no energy to give to emotions.  I'm not extremely happy either, just EHH all day long.   


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    We're buying a big girl swing set for DD, and I'm over here crying because I'm not ready for her to be a big girl. 
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    BFP: 3/4/2017
    EDD: 11/11/2017
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    FMC: 4/8/2017

    TTC #2: 5/24/2017


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  • Furmommy said:

    I haven't been crying that much.  I'm normally a very emotional person, but I feel like I have no energy to give to emotions.  I'm not extremely happy either, just EHH all day long.   
    Same here. I teared up over a couple of things today but haven't cried. I'm already too tired for an exhausting cry over things. It's been this way for several days now. 

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  • I watched an episode of 'one born every minute' on demand last night and cried through most of it. I can't wait to do this all again!


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  • @heatherdubrow I had never heard of that show but googled it.... guess I know what I'll be doing all night now!  :)
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  • Just a mini mental breakdown, received a letter from my little brother who is currently in jail. Broke my heart a million times over. DH found me sitting in the hallway ugly crying.



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  • @baycamp so glad to hear all is well with your friend!!! 



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  • @heatherdubrow now I need go check that show out!



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  • @jess0211 I'm so sorry about your brother. Has he had his court date yet? Do you know how long he will be in? 


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  • @heatherdubrow no court date yet.  It sounds like he is trying to enter a plea. He says 4 months but my Dad seems to think longer. I am not sure either actually know. The whole thing is so upsetting and it has been years of worry with him, an emotional rollercoaster. 



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  • @jess0211 I'm so sorry about your brother
    @heatherdubrow I need to watch that!
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  • I'm late to this discussion, but on the npr politics podcast they said that the president's budget is required of the president, but does not really go to vote. It's more a statement of values than a real budget. Which is still sad, but slightly less panicky.

    I cried today because my BF messaged me "you'll be a great mommy".
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    DH and I share a car. Generally it's not a problem as I walk to work and if I need it during the week he can usually come and get me or I get a taxi.

    I got called at 10pm last night to sub. Subbed for 2 middle school teachers all day with nothing but a 15 minute lunch break. Ran home, walked the dogs, got them ready for their appointments. DH never showed up. I cried 3 times sitting on the couch with my shoes on, dog's leash on, waiting for him to show up. I couldn't take a taxi because our Sheltie is too big/Koreans don't like dogs. Then I started crying when I called the vet to cancel because they don't have any openings for a while and our Sheltie needs an important heart worm check to see if her treatment worked. Then I laid in bed, sobbed, and crankily texted DH that I wasn't going to make an effort to make dinner if he couldn't make an effort to get his dog to the vets. 

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  • I'm sorry, @slaven. Did he at least have a good reason why he didn't show?
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  • @slaven Ughhhh that is really annoying. I'm so sorry that happened. Did he just forget?
  • cottingham3 The best thing for baby is for you to be healthy. Don't guilt yourself for doing what's best for you!
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    Me:27 (diagnosed anovulatory May 2016)  DH:29 (normal)
    Met 2008 | Dated 2010 | Married 2012
    TTC#1 since June 2015
    June 2016- 50mg generic clomid CDs 5-9 w/TI | 2 follies (14 & 12), thin (2.45) lining | BFN
    July 2016- 1mg estradiol CDs 1-7, 50mg generic clomid CDs 5-9 w/TI | 2 follies (14 & 10), thin (~4) lining | BFN
    August 2016- 1mg estradiol CDs 1-7, 50mg generic clomid CDs 5-9 w/TI | BFN | Referred to specialist, visited once, was told we have less than a 3% chance even on medication, recommended to IUI for up to a 50% chance, decided not to pursue at this time | Stopped "trying"
    October 2016- We became licensed foster parents
    November 9, 2016- Arrival of DD#1, 4yo
    March 1, 2017- 1 day late, feel like crap (low fever & exhausted) | Mom suggested test before taking meds, I laughed but did it anyway | BFP! *shock*

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    @kissthesky32 @jess0211 @bklynchica DH is military so things go on sometimes at work but realistically he just lost track of time/forgot. He told me he went to get a hair cut and finally looked at his phone and saw all my messages. He's been working in a secure area where he can't take his phone or hit fitbit (what he uses as a watch) so I'm not surprised. He came home with Taco Bell and an oreo shake though haha. 


    Me: 24 DH: 28, Married 1/1/2015
    TTC July 2016-February 2017
    BFP 2/27/17, EDD 11/10/17
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