@jesselayne8 oh I'm right there with you. DD will only be 19 months when baby is born. I have to lift her constantly. She still flat out refuses to walk on the daily. I think regardless of help you'll still end up having to lift some. I just thought some help would be better than none. Do you mind if I ask if you had any indication your incision was in danger of opening prior to it doing so?im stuck in the box!!there was a hard lump on that end that was tender so it really needed to open up to prevent a full blown infection. It was super annoying. Took about 3 weeks to close back up. I showered 3x a day and kept it as dry as possible and was able to prevent any need for antibiotics.