Hey ladies, I know it's early still but for those who are already starting to research pregnancy-related or baby gear, I thought it would be helpful to hear from STMs about their general experiences.
STMs, when it comes to pregnancy gear (I know there's not a lot, but like belly bands and pillows, etc.) and baby gear/registry items:
What did you love? Pregnancy:
Baby:
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy:
Baby:
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy:
Baby:
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy:
Baby:
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item?
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish?
me . early 30's | h . mid 30's | < 3 . 2013
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016 BFP! . jan 2017 DD . oct 2017
What did you love? I was pregnant with spring babies , but loved the BeBand ( belly band). Being I will be bigger through summer this time I just plan on wearing longer tank tops and maxi skirts etc.
What would you skip this time around? I felt a pillow is unnecessary. Some love it and need it. I did not. Two extra regular pillows ( one betwee. My knees and one under my belly) was fine for me.
What would you save on? Again, pregnancy pillows.
What would you splurge on? Good prenatal vitamins and really good water bottles like a Yeti. Something to keep water ice cold long. Being pregnant will make you hot and dehydrate easier. Being extra pregnant though summer will make you even worse. Stay hydrated well friends!
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? Nothing here for pregnancy. But for baby , a white noise machine! Life saver.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Baby book! The ones I used with my girls had a pregnancy section. Using apps is all fun and everything. But nothing compares to having a hand written book to look back on with your babes.
@virginiaham I'll have to dig theirs out. They had the same book type because when I ordered DD1 they sent two. I will either order the same book this time or find a new one. kailyn Lowry just posted a book shes using ( and endorsing because you know those "teen moms" love getting paid for mentioning products. I may look into that one too.
What did you love? Pregnancy: Body pillow for sleeping. Made the world of a difference later on in pregnancy.
Baby: Swing! It was honestly a lifesaver when making supper and things like that. Also, muslin swaddle blankets and sleepsacks; and my Tula!
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Honestly, pregnancy books. I didn't really read them and enjoyed learning from other moms more.
Baby: Hands down, the change table. I have only ever used it maybe twice.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: MATERNITY CLOTHES. There are so many consignment shops near me that I didn't realise sold maternity clothes. I spent TOO much money on a maternity wardrobe.
Baby: Bassinet. We had the Halo Bassinest. It was great, but if your baby is tall it won't last long. Our DS outgrew it in 2 months and with a 299.99 (plus tax) price tag here, it wasn't worth it.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: If this counts, maternity photos. We didn't do any! Otherwise, there isn't much. I didn't really buy a whole lot during my pregnancy for me. Lots of treats from DavidsTea!
Baby: A Medela breast pump. I was pressured into formula feeding (don't ask, long, bitter story lol). This time around I am committed to breastfeeding and am not going to let anyone pressure me otherwise.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? TULA. DS loved it, and it was a great way to get him to nap/get stuff done around the house.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? We had a blanket made out of clothing from our DS's first year. It is so sweet. We also over-did it with professional photos of my DS. But looking back it's nice to see how he's changed and grown. Plus our friend is the photographer and we get huge discounts. We also did monthly pictures with this super cute chalkboard made by Pearhead.
ETA: another thing to splurge on is a stroller. We loved our Britax B Agile. We started with a Baby Trend and hated it. It was so wobbly and awful. We are also going to make sure to invest in a good double stroller. We will have 2 under 2, so it's important to us!
I'm here to share my wisdom and knowledge! Ha...in all seriousness though, we had a similar thread in my first BMB that was a lifesaver to me as a FTM. So FTMs, definitely take note!
What did you love? Pregnancy: My body pillow! I had horrible hip pain in my last pregnancy. I thought body pillows were big and dumb. DH surprised me with the Snoogle. I was mad at him for spending the $$ at first, but I love that damn thing. It helped with my hip pain immensely.
Baby: So many things! I love the SwaddleMe wraps/swaddles. For the life of me I couldn't get a tight swaddle with those Muslin blankets everyone loves (especially in a sleep deprived fog at 3am), but I'm a champ when it comes to velcro. DD also has a white noise machine/stuffed animal (Gentle Giraffe) that she has slept with from day 1 pretty much. I also love those pacifiers with the stuffed animal attached (Wubanub is one brand but there are several). Those are great for while in the car seat or swing. It the pacifier drops out of their mouth the stuffed animal keeps it there.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Pregnancy books...I never read more than a chapter or two. I also bought a doppler last time but I could live without it.
Baby: Muslin swaddle blankets for reasons mentioned above lol. People love them but I ended up just using them as receiving blankets/burp rags. I also got SO MANY random blankets from people. No one needs that many baby blankets. I also have a Bumbo seat that we only used occasionally. I know there is controversy on using those anyway.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: Can't think of anything right this second.....if I think of something I'll come back and edit.
Baby: Honestly, clothes. I've come to love those big children's consignment sales. Babies and toddlers grow so fast I refuse to pay full price for anything unless it's a special occasion!
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: The only "pregnancy splurge" I had was we hired a cleaning lady to come and DEEP CLEAN our house one day a few weeks before my due date. It was so nice to have a clean house that I didn't have to clean. I mean, she even cleaned the inside of our fridge and oven. I think I've decided this pregnancy we need to splurge on this once a trimester lol.
Baby: The crib. Splurge on the convertible crib. Once DD started climbing out of the crib it was so nice to just switch it into the toddler bed instead of having to go out and buy something else on a whim. It eventually turns into a full bed so I imagine it's something we'll have for a looooong time. I wanted to be cheap (I'm frugal by nature) and get a super simple crib but I'm glad we didn't.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I SWEAR by the "Zip a Dee Zip" slumber sacks. You use them after you can no longer safely swaddle. DD slept in her "Zippy's" from 3 months until she was a year and a half.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Not really any items...I just wish I would have taken more videos of DD as a baby! I love looking back on her videos and wish I had more of just the random moments
What did you love? Pregnancy: PILLOW! Particularly one like this. It was a godsend (though DH complained about how big it was.) I roll side to side a lot when I sleep and I didn't want to have to drag a whole pillow with me when I did. This eliminated that problem and helped with the lower back/SI joint pain I was having.
Baby: Aden & Anais Muslin Swaddle Blankets. We used them SO MUCH. Also, a sound machine. Also, cloth diapers for spit-rags.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: I am pretty much a minimalist when it comes to my own things so I can't think of anything for this category that I didn't use/wouldn't buy again.
Baby: My Grandma got us some PeePee TeePees. We never used them. Ever. Not even once.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: Realized I skipped this one. See above.
Baby: Crib/Toddler bed. We got our crib used from SIL/BIL and we bought a used toddler bed for $20. DS is still in the crib, he has never tried to climb out. We will switch him over this summer so he's settled when #2 comes along.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: Pillow. See Above.
Baby: Car Seat. BUY IT NEW! BUY AN EXTRA BASE! I loved our Chicco Keyfit. It is stupid easy to install and use. I loved Chicco so much we got a Nextfit for his convertible seat.
Bonus Q's: What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I wanted to get a hospital gown last time around and didn't end up doing it. I will definitely get one this time. I hate the ones the hospital provides and didn't change into one until I was almost ready to push. Taking the sweatpants on/off was a pain.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I love the Pottery Barn Christmas Ornament we got for DS. (It's not available on their website currently! Wah!)
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What did you love? Pregnancy: Maternity clothes. Seriously. The comfiest things in the world. Also, maternity photo shoot. I am so glad I have those photos now.
Baby: My nursing pillow! I got the Jolly Jumper one. It's big, and awesome. And it's great to sleep with during the end stages of your pregnancy!
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Honestly, I'm super cheap so I didn't buy a lot during my pregnancy unless I felt I needed it. So I don't really have anything here.
Baby: Phillips Avent Breast Pump - IT WAS HORRIBLE!!!!!!!! I tried it a few times and didn't get a drop out of it. I bought a Medela Pump in Style pump and it worked beautifully! Highly recommend it. Also, I didn't buy this, but I borrowed my sister's Moby wrap and absolutely HATED it. It was so hot!!! I later bought a Beco Gemini and loved it! Planning on getting a ring sling for this baby (for the newborn stage).
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: Again, not a lot because I only bought what I needed.
Baby: Swing/bouncer. My son ended up hating the swing we bought. I wish I had bought one second hand that I could turn around and sell again if he didn't like it. I'm actually hoping to sell his this time around and buy a different one secondhand.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: Maternity photos. I know it's not everyone's thing. But I really appreciated my photos. We will be doing them again this time. HIRING A DOULA!!! This is my #1. I LOVED my doula. Could not recommend having a doula enough. She was well worth the money we paid her. And I even tipped her $100 in the end because she was so incredible.
Baby: A good breast pump, especially if you think you'll be pumping a lot. Crib. We love DS's crib. We did a lot of looking around before settling on it. I found a lot of cribs in store were very wobbly, not sturdy, and just not nice. We really took our time researching and finding something we loved. And it's a convertible crib so he will be using it for a while.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I don't understand this question...
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I took a footprint of DS when he was 1 month old. It's framed and in his room and I love it. I also kept the outfit that we brought him home from in the hospital. After the baby is born, I will get both the hospital take home outfits made into teddy bears (a woman in my city does this and I think it's so cool).
used swing - i bought my DD2 new and she loved it , but she was too big/ started to hate it around 12 weeks. 179 dollar swing for 12 weeks was not worth it. I sold it for 80. I bought the same swing used already this time around for $50. I will go ahead and sell it for the same when we're done.
Maternity photos! Just do it! I take them and have never gotten mine done. I feel like I can't this one either because I didn't with the first two
What did you love? Pregnancy: Body Pillow is obvious, I guess the one thing I got during my first that I loved were my essential oils. Especially in the third trimester. It really helped relieve aches and pains and then when it was go time it really helped relax me. I used the clary sage during induction and had a quick delivery. My doctor and nurses all loved that I diffused the room and it smelt so lovely.
Baby: I was gifted this little divider caddy. We use it to this day. I filled it with diapers wipes and other essentials and could just carry it from room to room instead of having to get up to go to the nursery to change diapers. Also the rock n' play aka RNP was a life saver the first month. It's all DD would sleep in.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: I know this has already been talked about but I didn't like the belly bands to help hold pants up. I never could get it to work right and it would keep rolling up on me. Waste of money.
Baby: Wipe Warmer. Such a waste. I hardly used it and when we did the wipes would be dried out.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: maternity clothes, books
Baby: We purchased our swing. Items were practically brand new and had all the instructions and cords. We just gave it a good wash and saved over half. Same thing with clothes. Especially the little ones.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: Anything to make you comfortable.
Baby: Pictures, monitor, breast pump (get the good one but check with your insurance, I got a free Madela through them.)
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? TULA. I didn't get one last pregnancy because I was gifted another carrier. This time I am getting a Tula.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? no not really
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I don't understand this question...
Think of it as like your magical dynamite item. I used some poetic license picking this phrase because it usually means something that is highly sought after but is hard to find, but I just mean what item is your "highly sought-after."
Loving reading all of your responses, ladies. Thank you!!
me . early 30's | h . mid 30's | < 3 . 2013
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016 BFP! . jan 2017 DD . oct 2017
What did you love? Pregnancy: Snoogle body pillow - all the way. Coconut oil for belly 2x per day (not sure if it was this or something else but no stretch marks - yay)
Baby: Solly Wrap for first 4 months. Boppy nursing pillow - tried 3 different kinds and the Boppy was the best Fisher Price snuggapuppy swing - DD loved it and helped us eat dinner and just be hands free when needed
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Belly bands - skip and just buy maternity jeans/leggings/maxi skirt
Baby: We're pretty simple and only got things we needed, ill come back and edit this if I find one!
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: Maternity clothes - Ross/TJ Maxx and discount stores have awesome deals. Don't spend a ton on a shirt you'll only wear a few months. Also, check with friends and borrow their stash! I have about 5 girlfriends that we've passed around maternity clothes back and forth - so great.
Baby: Clothes - seriously. They grow SO FAST the first 9 months. I mean if you want an outfit or two for pictures or whatever that's fine but don't go crazy in boutiques for something they'll only wear once or twice.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: Any food you want! Go for it. Anything that makes you more comfortable
Baby: Stroller Glider chair - we bought a cheap one and it makes a ton of noises, should have splurged. Used it for nursing and rocking baby to sleep the first year.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? My Solly baby wrap was magical, baby would fall asleep everytime she was in it. I'd put it on before I left the house and get to my destination and wrap her in it (perfect for Target or somewhere you walk around) and she would be out in minutes. Also great to go out and get a beer with friends!
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Videos! Take lots of videos of those early months. We always think to take pictures but this day in age we have the luxury of videos too, and I love looking back and watching her movements and sounds and smiles - heart explosions!
@virginiaham, I guess my unicorn item then was my stroller. I love it! We got the Graco Modes and use it all the time. My only regret is that we bought it before the jogging version came out. I would have preferred that. We did a TON of research about our stroller ahead of time, and this was the winner!
What did you love? Pregnancy: a body pillow, comfy lounge clothes
Baby: Those swaddle me things that wrap baby up like a cocoon. A coffee cup carrier attachment for the stroller if it doesn't come with one.
Also see splurges, below.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: I can't really think of anything here.
Baby: so many things. A bumbo chair. DD used the boppy pillow a couple times to lounge in, but it was not helpful for breastfeeding. A bouncer - I think you only need one of these types of things, whether it be a mamaroo, swing, etc. Jeans (DD had a pair in 0-3 months, which she never wore, and to this day at almost 3 has not worn a pair of real jeans). We also never used our pack n play - both sets of parents had them at their houses, so if you're traveling a lot that would be the exception.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: Maternity clothes. I bought so much expensive stuff that I only wore a few times. Obviously, you need a couple of good staples. I found that with my style - I wear a lot of loose fitting tops and dresses, I was able to wear a lot of regular clothes through my entire pregnancy. Borrow from friends, and if you need to buy a lot of stuff, go cheaper - old navy is awesome for this.
Baby: All the equipment - swings, rock n play, etc. I was such a snob about this with DD, I wanted everything brand new and in the right colors, etc., even though my best friend had her DD about 6 mos earlier and was willing to give us all her stuff. Take everything you can get - you have no idea what baby will like. DD really wasn't in to the swing, so buying new was a waste for us. Also, clothes!
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: these are more for mama after baby, but... good nursing bras, earth mama angel baby nipple butter, a nice diaper bag
Baby: A good wrap for baby wearing (I had a solly wrap with DD which I loved) and Aden and anais muslin swaddle blankets
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I bought so many cute little knit stuffed animals, dolls, etc. which cost outrageous amounts of money. Totally unnecessary, but I loved them, and still do.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? The stuffed animals noted above.
October 2017 June Siggy Challenge -- "You Had One Job!"
This is going to be so different for everyone but here's mine.
What did you love? Pregnancy: Snoogle
Baby: Bamboo A&A muslin blankets (SO soft). Rocknplay. Swaddleme sacks with the velcro.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Books.
Baby: Swing - we got a hand-me-down and it just took up space, used maybe twice. A fancy wrap - my son hated it and the Beco carrier was so much easier. Shoes - just don't bother with shoes on an infant.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the cheaper available)? Pregnancy: Maternity clothes
Baby: Changing table. Packnplay. I got a fancy Euro brand packnplay that cost twice as much as the basic version and that was unnecessary.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: Can't think of anything right now.
Baby: A really comfy rocking chair for nursing -- so worth it. Two nursing pillows, one for the bedroom and one for the downstairs/living room. Diaper bag maybe? I hated mine and ended up not really using it, but maybe if I splurged on one that fit my style better I would have used it longer.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? Wubbanub
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Well, I got the presidential new baby greeting which I pasted in his baby book... won't be doing that this time around. Our real keepsakes are all the handmade blankets and sweaters we got from family.
So I've written this kind of thing up in the past for friends, so I'm just going to copy and paste - hope that's okay. These aren't affiliate links or anything (I'm not getting kickbacks or anything like that). But this is what I wrote up after DD was born, while it was fresh in my mind. Sorry it's so long, but I took a lot of time thinking it through a few years ago! :
GENERAL FP Rock n Play - This thing was a lifesaver. She
would sleep in it when she wouldn't sleep anywhere else. I would bring it into
the bathroom while I was taking a shower so I could keep an eye on her. Same
with the kitchen while cooking. It's light, folds up quick, cheap (the one my coworkers got me was $40 at
BRU) and vibrates (which is good for both sleep AND pooping – the things you
learn!). Some people also use it in place of a bassinet. Necessity. https://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-Newborn-Rock-Sleeper-Yellow/dp/B00C2KW3FG/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406291571&sr=8-2&keywords=rock+n+play Changing Pad Sheets – in theory, this sounded like a great idea.
Who wants to be on a cold plastic thing in the middle of the winter to get
their diaper changed? Until the first 10 times they pee on it. So not only do
you have a baby lying in pee-drenched sheets, you then have to change her AND
sheets. Extra laundry. Not necessary. Butt paste – Really is amazing. J And I’m still on the same tube that you gave
us – so 7 months and still going strong. Necessity! Diapers – It’s all personal preference. People will swear by “their”
brand. All I will say is that the wetness indicator is totally worth it. We use
Pampers (but had been given Luvs and Hugs, which we used also) and being able
to just look at the diaper and see whether or not she needs changing instead of
smelling or opening it up – amazing. Yellow line – all clean! Blue line – needs
changing! HOORAY. I think Luvs had the
line, but I felt like it smelled funny when mixed with urine. But it’s really
your own preference. I just recommend one with the wetness indicator – makes
life so much easier. Sophie the Giraffe – Yes, she’s expensive.
Yes, she’s totally worth it. You don’t even need another teether. DD uses her
pacifiers to chew on. Don’t get the squeaky ones, though, unless you want to
listen to it. We don’t even give our dogs squeaky toys, so sorry, DD. You don’t
get squeak toys either. Nice to have! https://www.target.com/p/sophie-the-giraffe-shapes-book-and-teether/-/A-14580469#prodSlot=medium_1_2&term=sophie+the+giraffe Pacifiers – I can’t speak much for them. DD only
chews on them, she doesn’t suck on them. She’s equal opportunity though – she
loves chewing on all of them. Haha Monitor – this is the one we have, but I
mean…I’m not married to it. The night vision isn’t that great. It’s nice to
watch her during nap times, but honestly, the camera part isn’t totally
necessary. Sometimes I can make out if she’s moving around at night, but
usually I just use it for the audio part. That being said, I still check the
monitor constantly. Probably because my hyper-crazy-self wants to make sure
everything is okay in the room – I check that the door is still shut more (you
know, make sure no boogie-men have come in to steal her from me) than I check
to see HER. Again, nice to have, but not married to this particular one. It
gets the job done. https://www.walmart.com/ip/Motorola-Digital-Video-Baby-Monitor-with-3.5-Color-LCD-Screen-with-Pan-and-Zoom/17048885 Diaper genie – People have mixed reviews about this
thing. I personally love it. It definitely keeps the smell down and saves me a
million trips up and down the stairs. My vote is yes. https://www.amazon.com/Playtex-Diaper-Genie-Complete-Technology/dp/B0169U11QQ/ref=sr_1_2_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1489088974&sr=1-2&keywords=diaper+genie Calendar – *Friend* got us this and I honestly
didn’t think I’d use it (I have an actual baby book for DD) but it’s actually
worked out really well. I hung it in DD’s room so when I’m with her, I
constantly see it and remember to write stuff down. It’s also got stickers to
keep track of milestones. I’ll jot stuff down there and then go into detail
into her baby book later on. Not a necessity, but more helpful than I would
have thought. https://www.amazon.com/Carters-First-Year-Calendar-Wonder/dp/B004LE8TAE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1406302657&sr=8-1&keywords=baby+calendar Swing – The babysitter has one, but we don’t.
It was a lifesaver for her because it was the only place she would nap for
awhile. But I purposefully didn’t buy one because I wanted there to be things
about the sitter’s house that she liked that we didn’t have…so she could look
forward to going there. We survived just fine without a swing. DINNERTIME Bibs – you
will get so many you will think “this is absurd, I will never use all of
these.” You will think “oh man, I definitely don’t need any more bibs.” Don’t listen to that voice. That voice is
wrong, so wrong. There are big bibs, little bibs, bibs that fasten in the back
and bibs that fasten on the side. There’s different neck sizes of bibs. There’s
waterproof, stainproof…you need all of these bibs, as many as you can get. I do
laundry 2-3 times a week of just bibs. This kid is a drooling machine. We go through
6-10 bibs a day, EASY when she’s in the height of teething. We just got these
in hopes of finding a bib that doesn’t become completely drenched in 30
seconds. They’re worth it. We also got a set of waterproof/stainproof ones that
are working well for feeding times. Waterproof are a dime a dozen – make sure
it says stain proof or you’ll be getting a new one soon. Trust me. https://www.amazon.com/green-sprouts-Waterproof-Absorbent-Terry/dp/B000COY136/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406293156&sr=8-2&keywords=waterproof+bib Drying Rack – Not necessary, but helpful because
it stands the bottles and nipples up in a way that helps them dry faster than
just laying them on a towel. Not a necessity, but really nice to have. I can
get about 4-5 bottles (and all their various parts) at a time, which is plenty. https://www.target.com/p/boon-grass-countertop-bottle-drying-rack/-/A-12190250#prodSlot=medium_1_1&term=bottle+drying+rack Bumbo
– Comes in SO handy. I mean, it’s nice to have a place to put her in that phase
where she can’t fully sit by herself but still wants to be upright. But we use
it for restaurants more than anything. She’s still not ready for most
restaurant high chairs, but this lets her sit and play while we eat. And we can
feed her while we eat. We’ve had so many people tell us they wish they’d have
thought of bringing the bumbo out to eat (obviously do this with care, we
always had her pushed up against a wall in between SO and I so she was going
nowhere). They come in different sizes so be careful. I registered for the bigger
kid one, so make sure it’s the smallest one first. I’m not sure we need the
larger one. Not a necessity, but highly recommend! https://www.amazon.com/Bumbo-B10056-Floor-Seat-Blue/dp/B0092NNQ98/ref=sr_1_1_m?s=baby-products&srs=2586519011&ie=UTF8&qid=1406296091&sr=1-1&keywords=bumbo Boppy – I like my boppy. It has a vibrator that I’ve never used, but I
still feed her a bottle using it at night. It’s worth it. Very nice to have! Bottles - Total preference (both you and the baby). These are the ones I
like, but whichever one you pick, I have two pieces of advice. A) Make sure you
understand the nipple system. There are different nipples for different stages
in life (nobody told me this). As they get older, they will need nipples that
have faster flows. Only get one set ready/opened. Sometimes babies don’t
like the bottles we want them to. I have friends who went through nearly every
type of bottle/nipple on the market before they found one their baby would
take. https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Classic-Polypropylene-Bottle-Opaque/dp/B00433OQO6/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1406301039&sr=8-1&keywords=avent+bottles Bottle
Brush – Have never used it. Totally unnecessary. To clean the bottles on a
daily basis, I put dishwashing liquid in the bottle with some hot water, close
it back up, shake (through the nipples) and let dry. I boil the bottles once a
week to really clean. Don’t get. https://www.target.com/p/oxo-tot-bottle-brush-with-stand/-/A-14723125 TRAVEL Diaper Genie Travel Changer - A must have for traveling. Yes, gas
stations and restaurants have changing stations (most of the time). But the
pads that come in diaper bags aren't big enough and this thing holds diapers
and wipes plus has a little pillow - so you don't have to lug the entire bag
in. Just stick your wrist in the loop and you are free to hold baby. It's also
just great for anywhere - outside, back of the car, etc. Necessity! https://www.amazon.com/Diaper-Genie-On---Go-Changing/dp/B00FZGLMFQ/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406291689&sr=8-2&keywords=diaper+genie+travel Cart Cover – we registered for one, but didn’t
get it and if you had asked me before this weekend, I would’ve told you it
wasn’t a big deal. Here’s the thing
though – grocery shopping has this really complicated period. When they’re
really little, your only real option is to put the entire car seat in the
basket of the buggy. I mean, INSIDE. Not on top anywhere, because that’s really
dangerous. So then you have no room for groceries but you make it work. When
they get a little older, they start sitting up but they’re not very sturdy. So
sitting in the seat part doesn’t really work. This is the stage DD is in right
now. I was having to try and find people to watch her just so I could go to the
grocery. Using this was the most pleasant trip I’ve had to the grocery in a
long time. DD loved looking around and playing with a toy – this thing
basically makes the seat part a play pen. She was great and I recommend. (My
best friend had 4 so she sent me one, that’s why we have it. For the price, I
say it’s worth it though, especially if you’re like me and will have to do a
lot of shopping with the baby and no help). https://www.amazon.com/Bright-Starts-Shopping-Cover-Pretty/dp/B00II96PMW/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1406569531&sr=8-3&keywords=shopping+cart+cover Car seat - you want an infant one that comes
out of the car. Car seats confuse me (and still do - I'm not looking forward to
having to research for the next step up). But I'll explain how ours works and
hopefully that will give you a benchmark. I originally wanted a
convertible that I could keep through the infant months and into the toddler
(save money). But I was talked out of it and they were right. For babies, it’s
just so much easier to have the car seat you can take out. AND we only had to
buy one car seat and then just get an extra base for the other car. I leave the
car seat at the sitter’s and Brad picks it up when he gets her. Our jogging stroller: https://www.amazon.com/Graco-FastAction-Connect-Stroller-Tangerine/dp/B00AHVR4KG/ref=sr_1_11?ie=UTF8&qid=1406291937&sr=8-11&keywords=graco+snugride+click+connect+35 Our car seat: https://www.amazon.com/Graco-SnugRide-Click-Connect-Tangerine/dp/B00AHVR1QI/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406291937&sr=8-2&keywords=graco+snugride+click+connect+35 We bought two bases for the car seat, one for SO’s car and one for mine.
The car seat also clicked into that jogging stroller for the early months, but
now she can sit in the stroller by herself. So we didn’t have to get a newborn
stroller and then another one. But the car seat clicks in and out of the base –
so when I went to the store I didn’t have to get her out of her car seat if she
was sleeping. I just took the entire car seat in with me so she could keep
sleeping. Mirror – I
would consider this a necessity, especially as a newborn. There were times I’d
be driving down the road and notice that her hat had come down over her face
and was covering her nose. And when you’re traveling it’s nice a) because you
can turn the light on at night to check on them and b) I check constantly in
the mornings after I drop her off at the sitter’s – JUST to make sure she’s not
still back there. It’s my biggest fear that I’ll leave her in the car. Since
I’m always looking in my rearview mirror anyway, I feel like it’s an extra
precaution for knowing where she is (and that she’s NOT back there when I get
to work) https://www.target.com/p/brica-day-night-light-musical-auto-mirror-for-in-car-safety-gray/-/A-13929428#prodSlot=medium_1_2&term=car+seat+mirror Pack and
Play – We’ve used ours once. Haha. But I’d still get one. My parents have
one at their house so we don’t take it there, but we’ll have to take it
anywhere else we go, like the beach. I think it’s a nice thing to have in your
back pocket, but I don’t think you need one with all the bells and whistles. BED Sleep
Sacks/Swaddlers –
Don’t OPEN more than one of these until you know for sure if your baby will USE
them. We got a bunch because I heard nothing except how amazing they are. Sure,
unless your child is a complete free spirit like DD. She hated it and would
have nothing to do with it. Here’s to hoping that the next kid like being
bundled up. Register for a couple, but
only wash one until you know for sure how they are. Bedding – We literally have nothing in or around the bed except the
fitted sheet. No bumpers, nothing. She’s fine. Fitted sheets – we have two sets. We’ve been fine. At the
most, get 3. But I do laundry once a week for sheets and just throw hers in
with ours. Sound machine – Love, love, love this. It has songs or
sounds (DD likes ocean). It’s also got a projector with different scenes (so it
kind of can take the place of a mobile, which we don’t have). When we’ve traveled, the projector also acts
as a nightlight for when DD is staying in the same room as us. It gives us some
light to move around (and nurse her), but keeps her asleep or something to
watch if she wakes up. It’s ALSO got a timer on it. I’ll turn it on as I’m
getting DD ready for bed, give her a bottle, put her in bed and put the timer
on for 30 minutes. So 30 minutes later, it goes off without me even having to
go into the room to do it. For the price, I think it’s great. https://www.target.com/p/mybaby-by-homedics-soundspa-lullaby-relaxation-machine/-/A-10707864#prodSlot=medium_1_1&term=sound+machine BATH Tub – I was
told this was a waste, but if you have the space for it, it’s been so
convenient. It has the mesh thing you can lay them in until they can sit up on
their own, now she can sit up and play but it’s not the gigantic tub. We have a
fairly large shower, so we put it in there. I’m going to start using the shower
head thing for her soon. But it’s the perfect size until I’m ready to move her
to the tub. Most people buy a mesh thing for the babies anyway. For the price,
this one is fine. Just wash and dry the mesh thing often, or it starts to
smell. I personally like it, but we have the room for it, so it’s really nice. https://www.amazon.com/Summer-Infant-Newborn---Toddler-Shower/dp/B00A0ID91Y/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406295395&sr=8-2&keywords=summer+infant+bath Aveeno wash & lotion – You’re cleared to use it after 6 months. I
love it. Smells good and if it does make her fall asleep easier, even better.
But definitely not a necessity. Just
something I like J https://www.amazon.com/Aveeno-Baby-Calming-Comfort-Lotion/dp/B00BZAHR7S/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406295683&sr=8-2&keywords=aveeno+calming+baby NURSING/AFTER BIRTH STUFF Nursing Tanks – You want at least a couple of these. I got
a nursing bra, but I seriously never used it. I wasn’t that girl who did a lot
of nursing in public. Okay, I didn’t really do any in public. (I’m not opposed
to it, but I wasn’t comfortable with it). If I had to do it somewhere
semi-public (like our car), I would put up a blanket instead. But the nursing
tank was usually plenty enough convenience for me. The nursing tanks were great
for the house though. I slept in them so when I had nighttime feedings, I just
went in, unbuckled and was ready to go. They were plenty comfy. Nipple cream – Lifesaver. It took a few days for my pain
to kick in, but I think this still helped the severity. It’s safe for baby,
too. Necessity. https://www.amazon.com/Tender-Care-Lanolin-Nursing-Moms/dp/B0011EB814/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1406294602&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=medela+cream Nipple pads – You’re going to leak. Some people use washable ones. I wish I
would have tried them, but I had disposable ones. Whatever kind you choose, you will need. I
just wasn’t sure I was going to be up for any more laundry than I was already
doing. (in hindsight, I could’ve totally handled it). If we go through this
process again, I’ll get the washable ones. One of them is necessary, but you
can make the call which one you want to try. https://www.amazon.com/Lansinoh-20265-Disposable-Nursing-60-Count/dp/B0000BYAG0/ref=sr_1_5?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1406294579&sr=1-5&keywords=medela+lanolin Witch Hazel –
Steal as many as you can from the hospital, but have some waiting at home too.
This is not optional. This is not a “nice to have”. This is required. Your
hoo-hah will thank you for it, trust me. https://www.amazon.com/Hazelet-Witch-Hazel-Pads-Wipes/dp/B00142DT2O/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1406295822&sr=8-4&keywords=witch+hazel+pads Breast
milk alcohol test – I thought I would use the crap out of these,
but I really didn’t. Don’t waste the money on them. You probably won’t drink at
first anyway and then when you start, you’ll figure out that if you wait so
many hours, you’ll be fine. Baby will be fine. Not necessary. PLAYTIME We are NOT big toy people. DD really doesn’t have many toys
because we made it a point to tell people we didn’t want a house full of toys.
She’ll be fine. That being said, these are some ones that we like. Playgym – DD loved this thing. It scared her
when she was a newborn, but it was great for her learning to roll back and
forth and keep her head up. Not a necessity, but fun. https://www.target.com/p/infantino-go-gaga-deluxe-twist-fold-gym/-/A-14300791#prodSlot=medium_1_17&term=baby+gym Gripper toys – My
SIL gave us a football at Christmas and then I got this one at Target the other
day. She loves it because it helps her figure out her fingers. They’re cheap,
too J https://www.amazon.com/Ball-Toys-Football-Colors-vary/dp/B005P5D8FE/ref=sr_1_fkmr2_4?s=toys-and-games&ie=UTF8&qid=1489089111&sr=1-4-fkmr2&keywords=baby+gripper+football These things.
They look dumb and you’re going to wonder wtf is my child going to do with
these? They’re going to attach small toys to her car seat, entertain her in the
high chair, give her something to chew on in restaurants, etc, etc, etc.
They’re the best toy ever. https://www.amazon.com/Bright-Starts-Links--Solid-Colors/dp/B001ABZGU2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1406302135&sr=8-1&keywords=baby+rings Laugh and Learn.
Warning, the songs are highly addictive. My coworker’s son is almost 3 and she
still can sing along with me. BUT the legs come off so she can play on it on
the floor and now that she’s learning to stand, she can stand up with
them. But she loves it, my nephew loves
it, my coworker’s son STILL loves it…I’m all about toys with longevity. The longer
she’ll use it, the better. https://www.amazon.com/Laugh-Learn-Puppy-Friends-Learning/dp/B00BM2V522/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406302207&sr=8-2&keywords=fisher+price+music+table Exersaucer – Ours
is on loan from a friend in exchange for a toddler bike seat we randomly had. DD
does love it, but I’m not sure we would have bought one. If you do get one,
make sure it’s one that grows with her. My friend’s adjusts so as she grows, it
grows with her. I can’t find the exact one, but this one says it grows up to 24
months. As soon as they are able to start holding their head up well, they can
start using it. Really nice to have, but try to borrow one or something. https://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-K6070-Rainforest-Jumperoo/dp/B000LXQVA4/ref=sr_1_3_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1489089147&sr=1-3&keywords=exersaucer+baby
BFP#1: 12/3/13 EDD 8/15/13. Heartbeat found on 12/26/13, HB gone on 1/4/13. D&C 1/7/13
BFP#2: 4/19/13 EDD 12/28/13. Team Green for pregnancy and Baby Girl arrived 12/21/13. BFP#3: 2/9/13 EDD 10/18/17. Team Green for Round 2!
What did you love? Pregnancy: Yoga pants lol. But apparently I shouldn't have skipped the pregnancy pillow the first time around. Definitely thinking I'll be ordering one ASAP.
Baby: Boppy, Nose Frida, Coconut oil
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Too many maternity clothes. I'll just get a few staple pieces this time around. I think a lot of my LuLaRoe is going to work through pregnancy (yay)
Baby: Wipe warmer (I returned the one I was given with DD), changing table (we didn't have one with DD either),
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: Maternity clothes for sure. Old Navy ALWAYS has a sale lol.
Baby: Swings, bouncers, you can usually find them basically brand new on resale pages. Please don't buy a used carseat though!
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: I'm guessing a pregnancy pillow, which I didn't last time. By the time I NEEDED it, I was too far along to justify it in my mind lol.
Baby: Carseat, Comfy nursing chair (we started out with a glider and ended up buying a nice recliner when DD was about a week old, it is the most comfortable chair ever lol), a nice baby carrier (loved our lillebaby with my daughter, but I have a feeling this baby will be worn way more!)
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? A nice camera! I didn't get mine until DD was 2, but I so wish I would have had it sooner.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Photos are what I cherish the most, thus the nice camera.
What did you love? Pregnancy: maternity jeans, not the full panel type, the ones with elastic waistband. And a body pillow, or at least a second king sized pillow to put under the belly and in between the knees (thankfully dont need it yet)
Baby: BOPPYYYY, and swing, and rock and play
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: I'm drawing a blank on this one at the moment...
Baby: Bumbo seat, the zillion blankets you'll inevitably get as gifts,
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: maternity clothes. I've learned to buy non maternity items that work w and wthout the bump (except maternity jeans and leggings, SO comfy and worth it)
Baby: any gadget or contraption. A gently used swing, bouncer, rock and play, pack and play, etc is welcome in my book. They use it for such a short period of time anyways!
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: belly cream? FOOD!!!! yes. FOOD
Baby: monitor, car seat, stroller, carrier, and diaper bag (AKA anything you will use on the regular and for an extended period of time)
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? My current stroller. Still love it 4+ yrs later
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? The monthaversary pictures I took of each of my girls. They can be a pain to keep up with, but looking back, it's totally worth it
ETA: for vaginal delivery mammas: a peri bottle for rinsing and these amazing, comfortable, super absorbent pads
Loved Pregnancy: body pillow! Wearing all my summer dresses with a pregnant belly:) Yoga pants
What would I skip? Most of these items I did skip with my first pregnancy at the suggestion from other moms I knew and the others were gifts that I didn't think were necessary.
Change table: I attached the change pad to the top of the dresser, saving room in the bedroom and money in the bank I use the top drawer of the dresser to store all of the diapers and wipes etc.
Baby bath: I had one but really it's not necessary. They are so wobbly and slippery in the bathtub anyway you're supporting their knock most of the time in the bath isn't that long so you could likely do this in small bin. My son is almost a year and a half and he sits in a laundry basket simply to contain him and his bath toys clothes by him.
Baby shoes Too many newborn outfits: they really just need sleepers for a long time Highchair: use the Bumbo seat until he was enough to set up better and then we put him in a booster seat that attached to one of our kitchen chairs which essentially is the same thing as sitting up high chair. Saved us a lot of space in our small kitchen
Whatbwould you save money on? I buy all used clothes for my son. There are so many used clothing stores and thrift shops that have large children's actions. In addition, in my city there are three different Facebook pages typically designed for swapping and trading baby clothes . They were everything for such a short amount of time that it's totally not worth it to pay full price.
Actually the only items that I paid full price for where his car seat and his stroller. For safety purposes obviously and also I walk for an hour or two every single day so I knew that I needed a really good quality stroller. Otherwise are used many of the same type of sources I mentioned above to get playpen, babybath, booster seat, swing, Bumbo chair, babybtoys etc.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I love the Pottery Barn Christmas Ornament we got for DS. (It's not available on their website currently! Wah!)
Love this, MH and I love ornaments! Could you share maybe a stock photo from PB of the one you got?
@natleilynn that is a great list! Would you mind spoiler-boxing your post for those who are scrolling through posts just since it ended up being so (impressively) thorough and long?
me . early 30's | h . mid 30's | < 3 . 2013
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016 BFP! . jan 2017 DD . oct 2017
@virginiaham We got the natural wood one. You can still find it on their website if you google Pottery Barn Kids Block Ornament, it just says it's "No Longer Available". It has all of their birth information on it.
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@virginiaham Sure! Can you direct me to the instructions on how to do that? I swear I searched and couldn't find it...I'm sure it's probably staring at me in the face...
BFP#1: 12/3/13 EDD 8/15/13. Heartbeat found on 12/26/13, HB gone on 1/4/13. D&C 1/7/13
BFP#2: 4/19/13 EDD 12/28/13. Team Green for pregnancy and Baby Girl arrived 12/21/13. BFP#3: 2/9/13 EDD 10/18/17. Team Green for Round 2!
@natleilynn When you're in the edit screen, click on the paragraph drop-down, and with it still open, Select-All your text. It should keep the drop-down open, then just click Spoiler. It's tricky and not really intuitive on mobile if that's what you're using!
me . early 30's | h . mid 30's | < 3 . 2013
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016 BFP! . jan 2017 DD . oct 2017
Baby: Moby wrap for baby wearing. Saved my life because LO was a velcro baby for a good 10months
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Body maternity pillow - ridiculously huge. I found it better to use a couple normal pillows and tucked it where needed.
Baby: Cot sized doona covers. I never used a doona for LO1 until he was older and by that stage we used a single bed.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: You can find lots of maternity friendly clothing at cheaper stores. Avoid the online stores that are purely maternity. They are expensive.
Baby: Baby monitor, the cot (but get a new mattress if you are unsure), dresser
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: Good quality maternity bras. Get 100% cotton, and treat yourself to a pretty looking one as well.
Baby: Good quality pram that's easy to pack and unpack. Highly recommend the Citi Mini GT.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? Moby wrap, and woven wrap
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I bought a keepsake item off ebay to make little hand and feet moulds and it's my favourite keepsake. Oh and don't let your DH throw out LO's tiny little hopsital bands. My heart still twinges that he threw them away.
What did you love? Pregnancy: Bath seat. The last month I got winded standing in the shower so this time around I will be using a bath seat early and often.
Baby: SwaddleMe Pods. Basically a swaddle that zips closed. It has no arm or leg holes and looks like a cocoon. I can't even believe I tried other things. This time around I'm just going to buy a bunch of these for sleeping.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Knitted baby blankets. I never used a single one. Other ones I had were much softer.
Baby: Bumbo. I didn't use it. There is no point and you can't put it up high because its dangerous. I just used the swing, the bouncer, or even the high chair.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: I'd definitely buy used maternity clothes.
Baby: I would never buy another bedding set. I was too terrified to use the bumper and never used the big bulky comforter that came with it. All you need are sheets and mattress protectors and I learned to layer the bed for quick changes in the night. Mattress protector, then sheet, then protector then sheet, etc for as many as I had clean and would fit. Then when he puked, peed, pooped or spit up on the sheets in the night I could just pull the top sheet and mattress pad off and keep it moving. I'd also buy used kids clothes. They grow so fast.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: It doesn't have to be expensive but I'd go on lots of dates before baby.
Baby: A good stroller. I'd recommend actually trying them out. We had a Britax B Agile which I loved.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I really wanted an Ergo and I also bought the infant insert. I used the heck out of it.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Pictures and videos.
Siggy Warning: Loss, Living Child, Pregnancy mentioned
TTC Since August 2009
IUI #1, D/C December 2012
IUI #2, Natural MC March 2013
IUI #3 BFN
IUI #4 BFP Due April 2014
Rainbow Baby DS1 born April 2014 via emergency C-Section
IUI #5 February 1, 2017.....BFP due 10/25/17 with TWINS! --9w5d vanishing twin.
What did you love? Pregnancy: I am joining the others who recommended the Snoogle. It's awesome. I even traveled with it!
Baby: The Boppy pillow was a life saver. We had 2 covers in case one was smelly or if baby spit up all over it. (Btw the waterproof cover doesn't really work. Pillow still smells like milk.)
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: Any scented belly creams. I can only do unscented (Cetaphil cream in the tub is my fave.)
Baby: any sort of fancy outfits, shoes with any purpose other than warmth
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: clothes
Baby: If we get any more big equipment (like a swing), we'll look at used first for sure. Or maybe borrow something to try before you buy.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: nothing
Baby: A high quality rocker. We actually splurged and got a pillowy Lazyboy recliner for the nursery. It was the best decision we made in preparing for first baby's arrival.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I have several: Two books (Healthy sleep habits happy child & Solve your child's sleep problems), swaddles, the Magic Merlin suit to transition out of the swaddles, white noise machine
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? A real, handwritten baby book
What did you love? Pregnancy: maternity skinny jeans and leggings
Baby: those long nightgowns with the bands on the bottom. For a newborn, they were a lifesaver for middle of the night diaper changes. Plus, it almost acted as a double swaddle since it holds them in tight.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: nothing.
Baby: bumbo seat and swing. She hated both and we never used them. Space taker! I would suggest keeping the tags on the swing, so it can be returned if need be. Not all babies like the same thing.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: nothing.
Baby: possibly, pack n play? I don't think getting a brand new one was necessary for us. We used the changing station on it more so than the actual play area. It was only useful a handful of times.
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: prenatal massages. Those were heaven as I got bigger.
Baby: a&d ointment! I used it every diaper change and she never once had diaper rash. Also, baby carrier. Loved it! So did she. Lots of white snap shirts! So much easier than bottom snaps! Especially when spit up is happening a lot in the beginning. Diaper Jeannie!!!!!!!
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item?
a regular pillow for nursing! I used it so much! I didn't like the boppy for nursing. Ice pack trays for making baby food. It was so much better tasting and so easy to do!
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish?
baby record book
Me: 30 | DH:34 Married: 08/04/12 DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13 DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
What did you love? Pregnancy: - Body pillow was a must for me to get any sleep in the last trimester
Baby: - Halo Sleep Sacks were a must for us...we couldn't get a regular swaddle, DS would just squirm too much, but he couldn't sleep without being swaddled, so our first night home was miserable. I signed up for Amazon Prime the next morning, ordered 2 and then sent my mom to pick up one at BBR to hold us over until the order arrived. - - Sound machine: DS still sleeps with this every night and its a lifesaver when we travel too (make sure you get one that doesn't have an auto-shutoff and that plugs in and has batteries - My Breast Friend nursing pillow: I lived in this thing the first 3 months - Rock N Play: DS would take naps in it plus he would just hang out in it while I got things done -Wubanub: we only used this for a pacifier since its easier for baby to put back in/doesn't fall
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Baby: - swing: each baby is so different. we only ended up using our used mamaroo a couple of times, DS just didn't like it, but I know moms that swear by it...and other moms that swear by others...don't spend much, so that if you need to switch to something different it wasn't a huge investment - clothes: DS lived in Carter's onsies and footed pjs his first 3 months, I just bought the packs of different colored ones and rotated them - shoes: so not necessary until they start to walk
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: - One pair of premium maternity jeans, they are sooooo much comfier than the cheap ones Baby: - An easy to use, safe car seat plus an extra base - Either a stroller or a carrier, whichever you prefer. Do your research!
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? - definitely the Halo Sleepsacks
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? - newborn photosession
What did I love: Pregnancy - maxi dresses. So much more comfy than pants! I live in Texas and was in my third trimester during the heart of the summer....comfy is way more important than cute but when you can get both - bonus!!
Baby: I loved my baby wrap. Buy two different ones and see what you like best. But it was so nice to have my arms free and it really calmed baby! Also loved our Rock n Play. Our baby slept in it for 6 months and it was so easy and portable and made nighttime breastfeeding a breeze.
SAVE ON:
I was not a big nursing pillow fan. I could not get comfortable with it and found using a regular pillow to be much more effectice.
buying a lot of items they don't know ba b y will like. Our baby hated being swaddled and hated pacifiers and we have so many still in the original packaging. This is the same with bottles...you don't know what baby will like so instead of buying 30 bottles of the same brand, buy one of a couple different brands and when you find what baby likes then go stock up.
Lastly, pass on buying to many elaborate newborn outfits. I am going shipping with a friend who is expecting her first in July and she kept showing me all these newborn outfits with pants and jumpers....onesies and sleep gowns are all you need! When you are changing 10+diapers a day you will find out pants are the enemy...at least until they have more muscle tone!
Splurge on a prenatal massage...especially in the third trimester. A good stroller ! And definitely splurge on car seat...no cutting corners there!
Most everything has been said, but a book/app that really saved me was "the wonder weeks". This was one of the most sanity saver things I purchased for the babies. It didn't make their transitions any easier, but for me to have a small idea of what happened to the sweet smiley baby that was replaced with a crying no sleep monster and the reassurance that this too will pass and they are just learning some big things, was really comforting to me.
My only advice is do not buy any snap up jammies. When you're changing a million diapers a day including middle of the night you do NOT want to be messing with those damn snaps....I got rid of all of our snap up ones we had after the first time she wore one. Zippers or sleep sacks all the way...you'll thank me
Most everything has been said, but a book/app that really saved me was "the wonder weeks". This was one of the most sanity saver things I purchased for the babies. It didn't make their transitions any easier, but for me to have a small idea of what happened to the sweet smiley baby that was replaced with a crying no sleep monster and the reassurance that this too will pass and they are just learning some big things, was really comforting to me.
Completely agree. The Wonder Weeks app definitely helped me mentally prepare for the harder days/weeks.
I added a "labor" category for a few of mine. What did you love? Pregnancy: birth ball totally helped me be more comfy sitting, sounds ridiculous, but squatty potty (google it if you've never seen one) I didn't actually buy one, but used 2 stepstools for under my feet. Really helped relieve hemorrhoids and constipation.
Labor: I bought a spray fan that ended up being a lifesaver since i had major hot flashes with contractions, i also made a birth skirt from a pair of yoga pants + material from an ugly turtleneck that i wore for both my labors with a thrift store tank top and was so much more comfy than a hospital gown
Baby: velcro swaddles, extra sheets (both mine were super poopers, lol), some type of hands free baby carrier
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around? Pregnancy: bigger bras for maternity boobs...just get nursing bras/nursing camis
Baby: shoes, more than 1 or 2 fancy outfits for the first few months
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)? Pregnancy: maternity clothes
Baby: pretty much everything except what I put in splurge
What would you splurge on? Pregnancy: good nutrition and vitamins, at least 1 super cute outfit for when you feel blah and need a confidence boost.
Baby: 1 nice baby carrier, quality diaper bag that won't fall apart, breast pump (if your insurance provides one, get one even if you don't think you'll need it. You can't sell a pump your insurance gives you, but you CAN donate it to a mom in need. My first would have starved or ended up with a feeding tube if I hadn't had a good pump, so this is important to me
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? Moby wrap, double stroller for the 2nd (didn't think I'd need it...then my older dd broke her leg and i was stuck with 2 non-walkers)
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I crochet a hat/bootie/blanket set for each of mine and also a set for their dedication. Also, they have both come home in the same sleeper (white with duckies) so thats a tradition now...
Re: FTMs to STMs: love, skip, save, splurge
What did you love? I was pregnant with spring babies , but loved the BeBand ( belly band). Being I will be bigger through summer this time I just plan on wearing longer tank tops and maxi skirts etc.
What would you skip this time around? I felt a pillow is unnecessary. Some love it and need it. I did not. Two extra regular pillows ( one betwee. My knees and one under my belly) was fine for me.
What would you save on? Again, pregnancy pillows.
What would you splurge on? Good prenatal vitamins and really good water bottles like a Yeti. Something to keep water ice cold long. Being pregnant will make you hot and dehydrate easier. Being extra pregnant though summer will make you even worse. Stay hydrated well friends!
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? Nothing here for pregnancy. But for baby , a white noise machine! Life saver.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Baby book! The ones I used with my girls had a pregnancy section. Using apps is all fun and everything. But nothing compares to having a hand written book to look back on with your babes.
Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"
@canonmom413 thanks!! Would you mind sharing which baby book you used?
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP! . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"
Pregnancy: Body pillow for sleeping. Made the world of a difference later on in pregnancy.
Baby: Swing! It was honestly a lifesaver when making supper and things like that. Also, muslin swaddle blankets and sleepsacks; and my Tula!
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: Honestly, pregnancy books. I didn't really read them and enjoyed learning from other moms more.
Baby: Hands down, the change table. I have only ever used it maybe twice.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: MATERNITY CLOTHES. There are so many consignment shops near me that I didn't realise sold maternity clothes. I spent TOO much money on a maternity wardrobe.
Baby: Bassinet. We had the Halo Bassinest. It was great, but if your baby is tall it won't last long. Our DS outgrew it in 2 months and with a 299.99 (plus tax) price tag here, it wasn't worth it.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: If this counts, maternity photos. We didn't do any! Otherwise, there isn't much. I didn't really buy a whole lot during my pregnancy for me. Lots of treats from DavidsTea!
Baby: A Medela breast pump. I was pressured into formula feeding (don't ask, long, bitter story lol). This time around I am committed to breastfeeding and am not going to let anyone pressure me otherwise.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? TULA. DS loved it, and it was a great way to get him to nap/get stuff done around the house.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? We had a blanket made out of clothing from our DS's first year. It is so sweet. We also over-did it with professional photos of my DS. But looking back it's nice to see how he's changed and grown. Plus our friend is the photographer and we get huge discounts. We also did monthly pictures with this super cute chalkboard made by Pearhead.
ETA: another thing to splurge on is a stroller. We loved our Britax B Agile. We started with a Baby Trend and hated it. It was so wobbly and awful. We are also going to make sure to invest in a good double stroller. We will have 2 under 2, so it's important to us!
What did you love?
Pregnancy: My body pillow! I had horrible hip pain in my last pregnancy. I thought body pillows were big and dumb. DH surprised me with the Snoogle. I was mad at him for spending the $$ at first, but I love that damn thing. It helped with my hip pain immensely.
Baby: So many things! I love the SwaddleMe wraps/swaddles. For the life of me I couldn't get a tight swaddle with those Muslin blankets everyone loves (especially in a sleep deprived fog at 3am), but I'm a champ when it comes to velcro. DD also has a white noise machine/stuffed animal (Gentle Giraffe) that she has slept with from day 1 pretty much. I also love those pacifiers with the stuffed animal attached (Wubanub is one brand but there are several). Those are great for while in the car seat or swing. It the pacifier drops out of their mouth the stuffed animal keeps it there.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: Pregnancy books...I never read more than a chapter or two. I also bought a doppler last time but I could live without it.
Baby: Muslin swaddle blankets for reasons mentioned above lol. People love them but I ended up just using them as receiving blankets/burp rags. I also got SO MANY random blankets from people. No one needs that many baby blankets. I also have a Bumbo seat that we only used occasionally. I know there is controversy on using those anyway.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: Can't think of anything right this second.....if I think of something I'll come back and edit.
Baby: Honestly, clothes. I've come to love those big children's consignment sales. Babies and toddlers grow so fast I refuse to pay full price for anything unless it's a special occasion!
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: The only "pregnancy splurge" I had was we hired a cleaning lady to come and DEEP CLEAN our house one day a few weeks before my due date. It was so nice to have a clean house that I didn't have to clean. I mean, she even cleaned the inside of our fridge and oven. I think I've decided this pregnancy we need to splurge on this once a trimester lol.
Baby: The crib. Splurge on the convertible crib. Once DD started climbing out of the crib it was so nice to just switch it into the toddler bed instead of having to go out and buy something else on a whim. It eventually turns into a full bed so I imagine it's something we'll have for a looooong time. I wanted to be cheap (I'm frugal by nature) and get a super simple crib but I'm glad we didn't.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I SWEAR by the "Zip a Dee Zip" slumber sacks. You use them after you can no longer safely swaddle. DD slept in her "Zippy's" from 3 months until she was a year and a half.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Not really any items...I just wish I would have taken more videos of DD as a baby! I love looking back on her videos and wish I had more of just the random moments
*O17 June Siggy Challenge - You had 1 job!*
Pregnancy: PILLOW! Particularly one like this. It was a godsend (though DH complained about how big it was.) I roll side to side a lot when I sleep and I didn't want to have to drag a whole pillow with me when I did. This eliminated that problem and helped with the lower back/SI joint pain I was having.
Baby: Aden & Anais Muslin Swaddle Blankets. We used them SO MUCH. Also, a sound machine. Also, cloth diapers for spit-rags.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: I am pretty much a minimalist when it comes to my own things so I can't think of anything for this category that I didn't use/wouldn't buy again.
Baby: My Grandma got us some PeePee TeePees. We never used them. Ever. Not even once.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: Realized I skipped this one. See above.
Baby: Crib/Toddler bed. We got our crib used from SIL/BIL and we bought a used toddler bed for $20. DS is still in the crib, he has never tried to climb out. We will switch him over this summer so he's settled when #2 comes along.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: Pillow. See Above.
Baby: Car Seat. BUY IT NEW! BUY AN EXTRA BASE! I loved our Chicco Keyfit. It is stupid easy to install and use. I loved Chicco so much we got a Nextfit for his convertible seat.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I wanted to get a hospital gown last time around and didn't end up doing it. I will definitely get one this time. I hate the ones the hospital provides and didn't change into one until I was almost ready to push. Taking the sweatpants on/off was a pain.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I love the Pottery Barn Christmas Ornament we got for DS. (It's not available on their website currently! Wah!)
I heart YNAB
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“Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times,
if one only remembers to turn on the light."
- Albus Dumbledore
Pregnancy: Maternity clothes. Seriously. The comfiest things in the world. Also, maternity photo shoot. I am so glad I have those photos now.
Baby: My nursing pillow! I got the Jolly Jumper one. It's big, and awesome. And it's great to sleep with during the end stages of your pregnancy!
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: Honestly, I'm super cheap so I didn't buy a lot during my pregnancy unless I felt I needed it. So I don't really have anything here.
Baby: Phillips Avent Breast Pump - IT WAS HORRIBLE!!!!!!!! I tried it a few times and didn't get a drop out of it. I bought a Medela Pump in Style pump and it worked beautifully! Highly recommend it. Also, I didn't buy this, but I borrowed my sister's Moby wrap and absolutely HATED it. It was so hot!!! I later bought a Beco Gemini and loved it! Planning on getting a ring sling for this baby (for the newborn stage).
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: Again, not a lot because I only bought what I needed.
Baby: Swing/bouncer. My son ended up hating the swing we bought. I wish I had bought one second hand that I could turn around and sell again if he didn't like it. I'm actually hoping to sell his this time around and buy a different one secondhand.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: Maternity photos. I know it's not everyone's thing. But I really appreciated my photos. We will be doing them again this time. HIRING A DOULA!!! This is my #1. I LOVED my doula. Could not recommend having a doula enough. She was well worth the money we paid her. And I even tipped her $100 in the end because she was so incredible.
Baby: A good breast pump, especially if you think you'll be pumping a lot. Crib. We love DS's crib. We did a lot of looking around before settling on it. I found a lot of cribs in store were very wobbly, not sturdy, and just not nice. We really took our time researching and finding something we loved. And it's a convertible crib so he will be using it for a while.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I don't understand this question...
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I took a footprint of DS when he was 1 month old. It's framed and in his room and I love it. I also kept the outfit that we brought him home from in the hospital. After the baby is born, I will get both the hospital take home outfits made into teddy bears (a woman in my city does this and I think it's so cool).
used swing - i bought my DD2 new and she loved it , but she was too big/ started to hate it around 12 weeks. 179 dollar swing for 12 weeks was not worth it. I sold it for 80. I bought the same swing used already this time around for $50. I will go ahead and sell it for the same when we're done.
Maternity photos! Just do it! I take them and have never gotten mine done. I feel like I can't this one either because I didn't with the first two
Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"
I feel like this could get lengthy...
What did you love?
Pregnancy: Body Pillow is obvious, I guess the one thing I got during my first that I loved were my essential oils. Especially in the third trimester. It really helped relieve aches and pains and then when it was go time it really helped relax me. I used the clary sage during induction and had a quick delivery. My doctor and nurses all loved that I diffused the room and it smelt so lovely.
Baby: I was gifted this little divider caddy. We use it to this day. I filled it with diapers wipes and other essentials and could just carry it from room to room instead of having to get up to go to the nursery to change diapers. Also the rock n' play aka RNP was a life saver the first month. It's all DD would sleep in.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: I know this has already been talked about but I didn't like the belly bands to help hold pants up. I never could get it to work right and it would keep rolling up on me. Waste of money.
Baby: Wipe Warmer. Such a waste. I hardly used it and when we did the wipes would be dried out.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: maternity clothes, books
Baby: We purchased our swing. Items were practically brand new and had all the instructions and cords. We just gave it a good wash and saved over half. Same thing with clothes. Especially the little ones.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: Anything to make you comfortable.
Baby: Pictures, monitor, breast pump (get the good one but check with your insurance, I got a free Madela through them.)
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? TULA. I didn't get one last pregnancy because I was gifted another carrier. This time I am getting a Tula.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? no not really
Loving reading all of your responses, ladies. Thank you!!
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP! . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
Pregnancy:
Snoogle body pillow - all the way.
Coconut oil for belly 2x per day (not sure if it was this or something else but no stretch marks - yay)
Baby:
Solly Wrap for first 4 months.
Boppy nursing pillow - tried 3 different kinds and the Boppy was the best
Fisher Price snuggapuppy swing - DD loved it and helped us eat dinner and just be hands free when needed
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy:
Belly bands - skip and just buy maternity jeans/leggings/maxi skirt
Baby: We're pretty simple and only got things we needed, ill come back and edit this if I find one!
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy:
Maternity clothes - Ross/TJ Maxx and discount stores have awesome deals. Don't spend a ton on a shirt you'll only wear a few months. Also, check with friends and borrow their stash! I have about 5 girlfriends that we've passed around maternity clothes back and forth - so great.
Baby:
Clothes - seriously. They grow SO FAST the first 9 months. I mean if you want an outfit or two for pictures or whatever that's fine but don't go crazy in boutiques for something they'll only wear once or twice.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy:
Any food you want! Go for it.
Anything that makes you more comfortable
Baby:
Stroller
Glider chair - we bought a cheap one and it makes a ton of noises, should have splurged. Used it for nursing and rocking baby to sleep the first year.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item?
My Solly baby wrap was magical, baby would fall asleep everytime she was in it. I'd put it on before I left the house and get to my destination and wrap her in it (perfect for Target or somewhere you walk around) and she would be out in minutes. Also great to go out and get a beer with friends!
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish?
Videos! Take lots of videos of those early months. We always think to take pictures but this day in age we have the luxury of videos too, and I love looking back and watching her movements and sounds and smiles - heart explosions!
Pregnancy: a body pillow, comfy lounge clothes
Baby: Those swaddle me things that wrap baby up like a cocoon. A coffee cup carrier attachment for the stroller if it doesn't come with one.
Also see splurges, below.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: I can't really think of anything here.
Baby: so many things. A bumbo chair. DD used the boppy pillow a couple times to lounge in, but it was not helpful for breastfeeding. A bouncer - I think you only need one of these types of things, whether it be a mamaroo, swing, etc. Jeans (DD had a pair in 0-3 months, which she never wore, and to this day at almost 3 has not worn a pair of real jeans). We also never used our pack n play - both sets of parents had them at their houses, so if you're traveling a lot that would be the exception.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: Maternity clothes. I bought so much expensive stuff that I only wore a few times. Obviously, you need a couple of good staples. I found that with my style - I wear a lot of loose fitting tops and dresses, I was able to wear a lot of regular clothes through my entire pregnancy. Borrow from friends, and if you need to buy a lot of stuff, go cheaper - old navy is awesome for this.
Baby: All the equipment - swings, rock n play, etc. I was such a snob about this with DD, I wanted everything brand new and in the right colors, etc., even though my best friend had her DD about 6 mos earlier and was willing to give us all her stuff. Take everything you can get - you have no idea what baby will like. DD really wasn't in to the swing, so buying new was a waste for us. Also, clothes!
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: these are more for mama after baby, but... good nursing bras, earth mama angel baby nipple butter, a nice diaper bag
Baby: A good wrap for baby wearing (I had a solly wrap with DD which I loved) and Aden and anais muslin swaddle blankets
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I bought so many cute little knit stuffed animals, dolls, etc. which cost outrageous amounts of money. Totally unnecessary, but I loved them, and still do.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? The stuffed animals noted above.
What did you love?
Pregnancy: Snoogle
Baby: Bamboo A&A muslin blankets (SO soft). Rocknplay. Swaddleme sacks with the velcro.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: Books.
Baby: Swing - we got a hand-me-down and it just took up space, used maybe twice. A fancy wrap - my son hated it and the Beco carrier was so much easier. Shoes - just don't bother with shoes on an infant.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or the cheaper available)?
Pregnancy: Maternity clothes
Baby: Changing table. Packnplay. I got a fancy Euro brand packnplay that cost twice as much as the basic version and that was unnecessary.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: Can't think of anything right now.
Baby: A really comfy rocking chair for nursing -- so worth it. Two nursing pillows, one for the bedroom and one for the downstairs/living room. Diaper bag maybe? I hated mine and ended up not really using it, but maybe if I splurged on one that fit my style better I would have used it longer.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? Wubbanub
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Well, I got the presidential new baby greeting which I pasted in his baby book... won't be doing that this time around. Our real keepsakes are all the handmade blankets and sweaters we got from family.
FP Rock n Play - This thing was a lifesaver. She would sleep in it when she wouldn't sleep anywhere else. I would bring it into the bathroom while I was taking a shower so I could keep an eye on her. Same with the kitchen while cooking. It's light, folds up quick, cheap (the one my coworkers got me was $40 at BRU) and vibrates (which is good for both sleep AND pooping – the things you learn!). Some people also use it in place of a bassinet. Necessity.
https://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-Newborn-Rock-Sleeper-Yellow/dp/B00C2KW3FG/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406291571&sr=8-2&keywords=rock+n+play
Changing Pad Sheets – in theory, this sounded like a great idea. Who wants to be on a cold plastic thing in the middle of the winter to get their diaper changed? Until the first 10 times they pee on it. So not only do you have a baby lying in pee-drenched sheets, you then have to change her AND sheets. Extra laundry. Not necessary.
Butt paste – Really is amazing. J And I’m still on the same tube that you gave us – so 7 months and still going strong. Necessity!
Diapers – It’s all personal preference. People will swear by “their” brand. All I will say is that the wetness indicator is totally worth it. We use Pampers (but had been given Luvs and Hugs, which we used also) and being able to just look at the diaper and see whether or not she needs changing instead of smelling or opening it up – amazing. Yellow line – all clean! Blue line – needs changing! HOORAY. I think Luvs had the line, but I felt like it smelled funny when mixed with urine. But it’s really your own preference. I just recommend one with the wetness indicator – makes life so much easier.
Sophie the Giraffe – Yes, she’s expensive. Yes, she’s totally worth it. You don’t even need another teether. DD uses her pacifiers to chew on. Don’t get the squeaky ones, though, unless you want to listen to it. We don’t even give our dogs squeaky toys, so sorry, DD. You don’t get squeak toys either. Nice to have!
https://www.target.com/p/sophie-the-giraffe-shapes-book-and-teether/-/A-14580469#prodSlot=medium_1_2&term=sophie+the+giraffe
Pacifiers – I can’t speak much for them. DD only chews on them, she doesn’t suck on them. She’s equal opportunity though – she loves chewing on all of them. Haha
Monitor – this is the one we have, but I mean…I’m not married to it. The night vision isn’t that great. It’s nice to watch her during nap times, but honestly, the camera part isn’t totally necessary. Sometimes I can make out if she’s moving around at night, but usually I just use it for the audio part. That being said, I still check the monitor constantly. Probably because my hyper-crazy-self wants to make sure everything is okay in the room – I check that the door is still shut more (you know, make sure no boogie-men have come in to steal her from me) than I check to see HER. Again, nice to have, but not married to this particular one. It gets the job done.
https://www.walmart.com/ip/Motorola-Digital-Video-Baby-Monitor-with-3.5-Color-LCD-Screen-with-Pan-and-Zoom/17048885
Diaper genie – People have mixed reviews about this thing. I personally love it. It definitely keeps the smell down and saves me a million trips up and down the stairs. My vote is yes.
https://www.amazon.com/Playtex-Diaper-Genie-Complete-Technology/dp/B0169U11QQ/ref=sr_1_2_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1489088974&sr=1-2&keywords=diaper+genie
Calendar – *Friend* got us this and I honestly didn’t think I’d use it (I have an actual baby book for DD) but it’s actually worked out really well. I hung it in DD’s room so when I’m with her, I constantly see it and remember to write stuff down. It’s also got stickers to keep track of milestones. I’ll jot stuff down there and then go into detail into her baby book later on. Not a necessity, but more helpful than I would have thought.
https://www.amazon.com/Carters-First-Year-Calendar-Wonder/dp/B004LE8TAE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1406302657&sr=8-1&keywords=baby+calendar
Swing – The babysitter has one, but we don’t. It was a lifesaver for her because it was the only place she would nap for awhile. But I purposefully didn’t buy one because I wanted there to be things about the sitter’s house that she liked that we didn’t have…so she could look forward to going there. We survived just fine without a swing.
DINNERTIME
Bibs – you will get so many you will think “this is absurd, I will never use all of these.” You will think “oh man, I definitely don’t need any more bibs.” Don’t listen to that voice. That voice is wrong, so wrong. There are big bibs, little bibs, bibs that fasten in the back and bibs that fasten on the side. There’s different neck sizes of bibs. There’s waterproof, stainproof…you need all of these bibs, as many as you can get. I do laundry 2-3 times a week of just bibs. This kid is a drooling machine. We go through 6-10 bibs a day, EASY when she’s in the height of teething. We just got these in hopes of finding a bib that doesn’t become completely drenched in 30 seconds. They’re worth it. We also got a set of waterproof/stainproof ones that are working well for feeding times. Waterproof are a dime a dozen – make sure it says stain proof or you’ll be getting a new one soon. Trust me.
https://www.amazon.com/green-sprouts-Waterproof-Absorbent-Terry/dp/B000COY136/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406293156&sr=8-2&keywords=waterproof+bib
Drying Rack – Not necessary, but helpful because it stands the bottles and nipples up in a way that helps them dry faster than just laying them on a towel. Not a necessity, but really nice to have. I can get about 4-5 bottles (and all their various parts) at a time, which is plenty.
https://www.target.com/p/boon-grass-countertop-bottle-drying-rack/-/A-12190250#prodSlot=medium_1_1&term=bottle+drying+rack
Bumbo – Comes in SO handy. I mean, it’s nice to have a place to put her in that phase where she can’t fully sit by herself but still wants to be upright. But we use it for restaurants more than anything. She’s still not ready for most restaurant high chairs, but this lets her sit and play while we eat. And we can feed her while we eat. We’ve had so many people tell us they wish they’d have thought of bringing the bumbo out to eat (obviously do this with care, we always had her pushed up against a wall in between SO and I so she was going nowhere). They come in different sizes so be careful. I registered for the bigger kid one, so make sure it’s the smallest one first. I’m not sure we need the larger one. Not a necessity, but highly recommend!
https://www.amazon.com/Bumbo-B10056-Floor-Seat-Blue/dp/B0092NNQ98/ref=sr_1_1_m?s=baby-products&srs=2586519011&ie=UTF8&qid=1406296091&sr=1-1&keywords=bumbo
Boppy – I like my boppy. It has a vibrator that I’ve never used, but I still feed her a bottle using it at night. It’s worth it. Very nice to have!
Bottles - Total preference (both you and the baby). These are the ones I like, but whichever one you pick, I have two pieces of advice. A) Make sure you understand the nipple system. There are different nipples for different stages in life (nobody told me this). As they get older, they will need nipples that have faster flows. Only get one set ready/opened. Sometimes babies don’t like the bottles we want them to. I have friends who went through nearly every type of bottle/nipple on the market before they found one their baby would take.
https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Classic-Polypropylene-Bottle-Opaque/dp/B00433OQO6/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1406301039&sr=8-1&keywords=avent+bottles
Bottle Brush – Have never used it. Totally unnecessary. To clean the bottles on a daily basis, I put dishwashing liquid in the bottle with some hot water, close it back up, shake (through the nipples) and let dry. I boil the bottles once a week to really clean. Don’t get.
https://www.target.com/p/oxo-tot-bottle-brush-with-stand/-/A-14723125
TRAVEL
Diaper Genie Travel Changer - A must have for traveling. Yes, gas stations and restaurants have changing stations (most of the time). But the pads that come in diaper bags aren't big enough and this thing holds diapers and wipes plus has a little pillow - so you don't have to lug the entire bag in. Just stick your wrist in the loop and you are free to hold baby. It's also just great for anywhere - outside, back of the car, etc. Necessity!
https://www.amazon.com/Diaper-Genie-On---Go-Changing/dp/B00FZGLMFQ/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406291689&sr=8-2&keywords=diaper+genie+travel
Cart Cover – we registered for one, but didn’t get it and if you had asked me before this weekend, I would’ve told you it wasn’t a big deal. Here’s the thing though – grocery shopping has this really complicated period. When they’re really little, your only real option is to put the entire car seat in the basket of the buggy. I mean, INSIDE. Not on top anywhere, because that’s really dangerous. So then you have no room for groceries but you make it work. When they get a little older, they start sitting up but they’re not very sturdy. So sitting in the seat part doesn’t really work. This is the stage DD is in right now. I was having to try and find people to watch her just so I could go to the grocery. Using this was the most pleasant trip I’ve had to the grocery in a long time. DD loved looking around and playing with a toy – this thing basically makes the seat part a play pen. She was great and I recommend. (My best friend had 4 so she sent me one, that’s why we have it. For the price, I say it’s worth it though, especially if you’re like me and will have to do a lot of shopping with the baby and no help).
https://www.amazon.com/Bright-Starts-Shopping-Cover-Pretty/dp/B00II96PMW/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1406569531&sr=8-3&keywords=shopping+cart+cover
Car seat - you want an infant one that comes out of the car. Car seats confuse me (and still do - I'm not looking forward to having to research for the next step up). But I'll explain how ours works and hopefully that will give you a benchmark. I originally wanted a convertible that I could keep through the infant months and into the toddler (save money). But I was talked out of it and they were right. For babies, it’s just so much easier to have the car seat you can take out. AND we only had to buy one car seat and then just get an extra base for the other car. I leave the car seat at the sitter’s and Brad picks it up when he gets her.
Our jogging stroller:
https://www.amazon.com/Graco-FastAction-Connect-Stroller-Tangerine/dp/B00AHVR4KG/ref=sr_1_11?ie=UTF8&qid=1406291937&sr=8-11&keywords=graco+snugride+click+connect+35
Our car seat:
https://www.amazon.com/Graco-SnugRide-Click-Connect-Tangerine/dp/B00AHVR1QI/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406291937&sr=8-2&keywords=graco+snugride+click+connect+35
We bought two bases for the car seat, one for SO’s car and one for mine. The car seat also clicked into that jogging stroller for the early months, but now she can sit in the stroller by herself. So we didn’t have to get a newborn stroller and then another one. But the car seat clicks in and out of the base – so when I went to the store I didn’t have to get her out of her car seat if she was sleeping. I just took the entire car seat in with me so she could keep sleeping.
Mirror – I would consider this a necessity, especially as a newborn. There were times I’d be driving down the road and notice that her hat had come down over her face and was covering her nose. And when you’re traveling it’s nice a) because you can turn the light on at night to check on them and b) I check constantly in the mornings after I drop her off at the sitter’s – JUST to make sure she’s not still back there. It’s my biggest fear that I’ll leave her in the car. Since I’m always looking in my rearview mirror anyway, I feel like it’s an extra precaution for knowing where she is (and that she’s NOT back there when I get to work)
https://www.target.com/p/brica-day-night-light-musical-auto-mirror-for-in-car-safety-gray/-/A-13929428#prodSlot=medium_1_2&term=car+seat+mirror
Pack and Play – We’ve used ours once. Haha. But I’d still get one. My parents have one at their house so we don’t take it there, but we’ll have to take it anywhere else we go, like the beach. I think it’s a nice thing to have in your back pocket, but I don’t think you need one with all the bells and whistles.
BED
Sleep Sacks/Swaddlers – Don’t OPEN more than one of these until you know for sure if your baby will USE them. We got a bunch because I heard nothing except how amazing they are. Sure, unless your child is a complete free spirit like DD. She hated it and would have nothing to do with it. Here’s to hoping that the next kid like being bundled up. Register for a couple, but only wash one until you know for sure how they are.
Bedding – We literally have nothing in or around the bed except the fitted sheet. No bumpers, nothing. She’s fine.
Fitted sheets – we have two sets. We’ve been fine. At the most, get 3. But I do laundry once a week for sheets and just throw hers in with ours.
Sound machine – Love, love, love this. It has songs or sounds (DD likes ocean). It’s also got a projector with different scenes (so it kind of can take the place of a mobile, which we don’t have). When we’ve traveled, the projector also acts as a nightlight for when DD is staying in the same room as us. It gives us some light to move around (and nurse her), but keeps her asleep or something to watch if she wakes up. It’s ALSO got a timer on it. I’ll turn it on as I’m getting DD ready for bed, give her a bottle, put her in bed and put the timer on for 30 minutes. So 30 minutes later, it goes off without me even having to go into the room to do it. For the price, I think it’s great.
https://www.target.com/p/mybaby-by-homedics-soundspa-lullaby-relaxation-machine/-/A-10707864#prodSlot=medium_1_1&term=sound+machine
BATH
Tub – I was told this was a waste, but if you have the space for it, it’s been so convenient. It has the mesh thing you can lay them in until they can sit up on their own, now she can sit up and play but it’s not the gigantic tub. We have a fairly large shower, so we put it in there. I’m going to start using the shower head thing for her soon. But it’s the perfect size until I’m ready to move her to the tub. Most people buy a mesh thing for the babies anyway. For the price, this one is fine. Just wash and dry the mesh thing often, or it starts to smell. I personally like it, but we have the room for it, so it’s really nice.
https://www.amazon.com/Summer-Infant-Newborn---Toddler-Shower/dp/B00A0ID91Y/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406295395&sr=8-2&keywords=summer+infant+bath
Aveeno wash & lotion – You’re cleared to use it after 6 months. I love it. Smells good and if it does make her fall asleep easier, even better. But definitely not a necessity. Just something I like J
https://www.amazon.com/Aveeno-Baby-Calming-Comfort-Lotion/dp/B00BZAHR7S/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406295683&sr=8-2&keywords=aveeno+calming+baby
NURSING/AFTER BIRTH STUFF
Nursing Tanks – You want at least a couple of these. I got a nursing bra, but I seriously never used it. I wasn’t that girl who did a lot of nursing in public. Okay, I didn’t really do any in public. (I’m not opposed to it, but I wasn’t comfortable with it). If I had to do it somewhere semi-public (like our car), I would put up a blanket instead. But the nursing tank was usually plenty enough convenience for me. The nursing tanks were great for the house though. I slept in them so when I had nighttime feedings, I just went in, unbuckled and was ready to go. They were plenty comfy.
Nipple cream – Lifesaver. It took a few days for my pain to kick in, but I think this still helped the severity. It’s safe for baby, too. Necessity.
https://www.amazon.com/Tender-Care-Lanolin-Nursing-Moms/dp/B0011EB814/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1406294602&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=medela+cream
Nipple pads – You’re going to leak. Some people use washable ones. I wish I would have tried them, but I had disposable ones. Whatever kind you choose, you will need. I just wasn’t sure I was going to be up for any more laundry than I was already doing. (in hindsight, I could’ve totally handled it). If we go through this process again, I’ll get the washable ones. One of them is necessary, but you can make the call which one you want to try.
https://www.amazon.com/Lansinoh-20265-Disposable-Nursing-60-Count/dp/B0000BYAG0/ref=sr_1_5?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1406294579&sr=1-5&keywords=medela+lanolin
Witch Hazel – Steal as many as you can from the hospital, but have some waiting at home too. This is not optional. This is not a “nice to have”. This is required. Your hoo-hah will thank you for it, trust me.
https://www.amazon.com/Hazelet-Witch-Hazel-Pads-Wipes/dp/B00142DT2O/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1406295822&sr=8-4&keywords=witch+hazel+pads
Breast milk alcohol test – I thought I would use the crap out of these, but I really didn’t. Don’t waste the money on them. You probably won’t drink at first anyway and then when you start, you’ll figure out that if you wait so many hours, you’ll be fine. Baby will be fine. Not necessary.
PLAYTIME
We are NOT big toy people. DD really doesn’t have many toys because we made it a point to tell people we didn’t want a house full of toys. She’ll be fine. That being said, these are some ones that we like.
Playgym – DD loved this thing. It scared her when she was a newborn, but it was great for her learning to roll back and forth and keep her head up. Not a necessity, but fun.
https://www.target.com/p/infantino-go-gaga-deluxe-twist-fold-gym/-/A-14300791#prodSlot=medium_1_17&term=baby+gym
Gripper toys – My SIL gave us a football at Christmas and then I got this one at Target the other day. She loves it because it helps her figure out her fingers. They’re cheap, too J
https://www.amazon.com/Ball-Toys-Football-Colors-vary/dp/B005P5D8FE/ref=sr_1_fkmr2_4?s=toys-and-games&ie=UTF8&qid=1489089111&sr=1-4-fkmr2&keywords=baby+gripper+football
These things. They look dumb and you’re going to wonder wtf is my child going to do with these? They’re going to attach small toys to her car seat, entertain her in the high chair, give her something to chew on in restaurants, etc, etc, etc. They’re the best toy ever.
https://www.amazon.com/Bright-Starts-Links--Solid-Colors/dp/B001ABZGU2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1406302135&sr=8-1&keywords=baby+rings
Laugh and Learn. Warning, the songs are highly addictive. My coworker’s son is almost 3 and she still can sing along with me. BUT the legs come off so she can play on it on the floor and now that she’s learning to stand, she can stand up with them. But she loves it, my nephew loves it, my coworker’s son STILL loves it…I’m all about toys with longevity. The longer she’ll use it, the better.
https://www.amazon.com/Laugh-Learn-Puppy-Friends-Learning/dp/B00BM2V522/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1406302207&sr=8-2&keywords=fisher+price+music+table
Exersaucer – Ours is on loan from a friend in exchange for a toddler bike seat we randomly had. DD does love it, but I’m not sure we would have bought one. If you do get one, make sure it’s one that grows with her. My friend’s adjusts so as she grows, it grows with her. I can’t find the exact one, but this one says it grows up to 24 months. As soon as they are able to start holding their head up well, they can start using it. Really nice to have, but try to borrow one or something.
https://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-K6070-Rainforest-Jumperoo/dp/B000LXQVA4/ref=sr_1_3_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1489089147&sr=1-3&keywords=exersaucer+baby
BFP#3: 2/9/13 EDD 10/18/17. Team Green for Round 2!
Pregnancy: Yoga pants lol. But apparently I shouldn't have skipped the pregnancy pillow the first time around. Definitely thinking I'll be ordering one ASAP.
Baby: Boppy, Nose Frida, Coconut oil
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: Too many maternity clothes. I'll just get a few staple pieces this time around. I think a lot of my LuLaRoe is going to work through pregnancy (yay)
Baby: Wipe warmer (I returned the one I was given with DD), changing table (we didn't have one with DD either),
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: Maternity clothes for sure. Old Navy ALWAYS has a sale lol.
Baby: Swings, bouncers, you can usually find them basically brand new on resale pages. Please don't buy a used carseat though!
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: I'm guessing a pregnancy pillow, which I didn't last time. By the time I NEEDED it, I was too far along to justify it in my mind lol.
Baby: Carseat, Comfy nursing chair (we started out with a glider and ended up buying a nice recliner when DD was about a week old, it is the most comfortable chair ever lol), a nice baby carrier (loved our lillebaby with my daughter, but I have a feeling this baby will be worn way more!)
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? A nice camera! I didn't get mine until DD was 2, but I so wish I would have had it sooner.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Photos are what I cherish the most, thus the nice camera.
Pregnancy: maternity jeans, not the full panel type, the ones with elastic waistband. And a body pillow, or at least a second king sized pillow to put under the belly and in between the knees (thankfully dont need it yet)
Baby: BOPPYYYY, and swing, and rock and play
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: I'm drawing a blank on this one at the moment...
Baby: Bumbo seat, the zillion blankets you'll inevitably get as gifts,
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: maternity clothes. I've learned to buy non maternity items that work w and wthout the bump (except maternity jeans and leggings, SO comfy and worth it)
Baby: any gadget or contraption. A gently used swing, bouncer, rock and play, pack and play, etc is welcome in my book. They use it for such a short period of time anyways!
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: belly cream? FOOD!!!! yes. FOOD
Baby: monitor, car seat, stroller, carrier, and diaper bag (AKA anything you will use on the regular and for an extended period of time)
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? My current stroller. Still love it 4+ yrs later
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? The monthaversary pictures I took of each of my girls. They can be a pain to keep up with, but looking back, it's totally worth it
ETA: for vaginal delivery mammas: a peri bottle for rinsing and these amazing, comfortable, super absorbent pads
Pregnancy: body pillow! Wearing all my summer dresses with a pregnant belly:) Yoga pants
What would I skip?
Most of these items I did skip with my first pregnancy at the suggestion from other moms I knew and the others were gifts that I didn't think were necessary.
Change table: I attached the change pad to the top of the dresser, saving room in the bedroom and money in the bank I use the top drawer of the dresser to store all of the diapers and wipes etc.
Baby bath: I had one but really it's not necessary. They are so wobbly and slippery in the bathtub anyway you're supporting their knock most of the time in the bath isn't that long so you could likely do this in small bin. My son is almost a year and a half and he sits in a laundry basket simply to contain him and his bath toys clothes by him.
Baby shoes
Too many newborn outfits: they really just need sleepers for a long time
Highchair: use the Bumbo seat until he was enough to set up better and then we put him in a booster seat that attached to one of our kitchen chairs which essentially is the same thing as sitting up high chair. Saved us a lot of space in our small kitchen
Whatbwould you save money on?
I buy all used clothes for my son. There are so many used clothing stores and thrift shops that have large children's actions. In addition, in my city there are three different Facebook pages typically designed for swapping and trading baby clothes . They were everything for such a short amount of time that it's totally not worth it to pay full price.
Actually the only items that I paid full price for where his car seat and his stroller. For safety purposes obviously and also I walk for an hour or two every single day so I knew that I needed a really good quality stroller. Otherwise are used many of the same type of sources I mentioned above to get playpen, babybath, booster seat, swing, Bumbo chair, babybtoys etc.
@natleilynn that is a great list! Would you mind spoiler-boxing your post for those who are scrolling through posts just since it ended up being so (impressively) thorough and long?
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP! . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
I heart YNAB
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“Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times,
if one only remembers to turn on the light."
- Albus Dumbledore
BFP#3: 2/9/13 EDD 10/18/17. Team Green for Round 2!
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP! . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
BFP#3: 2/9/13 EDD 10/18/17. Team Green for Round 2!
I haven't read responses yet but I want to play
What did you love?
Pregnancy: Food Hahahaha
Baby: Moby wrap for baby wearing. Saved my life because LO was a velcro baby for a good 10months
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: Body maternity pillow - ridiculously huge. I found it better to use a couple normal pillows and tucked it where needed.
Baby: Cot sized doona covers. I never used a doona for LO1 until he was older and by that stage we used a single bed.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: You can find lots of maternity friendly clothing at cheaper stores. Avoid the online stores that are purely maternity. They are expensive.
Baby: Baby monitor, the cot (but get a new mattress if you are unsure), dresser
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: Good quality maternity bras. Get 100% cotton, and treat yourself to a pretty looking one as well.
Baby: Good quality pram that's easy to pack and unpack. Highly recommend the Citi Mini GT.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? Moby wrap, and woven wrap
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I bought a keepsake item off ebay to make little hand and feet moulds and it's my favourite keepsake. Oh and don't let your DH throw out LO's tiny little hopsital bands. My heart still twinges that he threw them away.
**June Siggy Challenge: You Had ONE Job!**
LO#2 EDD October 18th
Pregnancy: Bath seat. The last month I got winded standing in the shower so this time around I will be using a bath seat early and often.
Baby: SwaddleMe Pods. Basically a swaddle that zips closed. It has no arm or leg holes and looks like a cocoon. I can't even believe I tried other things. This time around I'm just going to buy a bunch of these for sleeping.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: Knitted baby blankets. I never used a single one. Other ones I had were much softer.
Baby: Bumbo. I didn't use it. There is no point and you can't put it up high because its dangerous. I just used the swing, the bouncer, or even the high chair.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: I'd definitely buy used maternity clothes.
Baby: I would never buy another bedding set. I was too terrified to use the bumper and never used the big bulky comforter that came with it. All you need are sheets and mattress protectors and I learned to layer the bed for quick changes in the night. Mattress protector, then sheet, then protector then sheet, etc for as many as I had clean and would fit. Then when he puked, peed, pooped or spit up on the sheets in the night I could just pull the top sheet and mattress pad off and keep it moving.
I'd also buy used kids clothes. They grow so fast.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: It doesn't have to be expensive but I'd go on lots of dates before baby.
Baby: A good stroller. I'd recommend actually trying them out. We had a Britax B Agile which I loved.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? I really wanted an Ergo and I also bought the infant insert. I used the heck out of it.
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? Pictures and videos.
Pregnancy: I am joining the others who recommended the Snoogle. It's awesome. I even traveled with it!
Baby: The Boppy pillow was a life saver. We had 2 covers in case one was smelly or if baby spit up all over it. (Btw the waterproof cover doesn't really work. Pillow still smells like milk.)
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: Any scented belly creams. I can only do unscented (Cetaphil cream in the tub is my fave.)
Baby: any sort of fancy outfits, shoes with any purpose other than warmth
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: clothes
Baby: If we get any more big equipment (like a swing), we'll look at used first for sure. Or maybe borrow something to try before you buy.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: nothing
Baby: A high quality rocker. We actually splurged and got a pillowy Lazyboy recliner for the nursery. It was the best decision we made in preparing for first baby's arrival.
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item?
I have several: Two books (Healthy sleep habits happy child & Solve your child's sleep problems), swaddles, the Magic Merlin suit to transition out of the swaddles, white noise machine
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? A real, handwritten baby book
Pregnancy: maternity skinny jeans and leggings
Baby: those long nightgowns with the bands on the bottom. For a newborn, they were a lifesaver for middle of the night diaper changes. Plus, it almost acted as a double swaddle since it holds them in tight.
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: nothing.
Baby: bumbo seat and swing. She hated both and we never used them. Space taker! I would suggest keeping the tags on the swing, so it can be returned if need be. Not all babies like the same thing.
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: nothing.
Baby: possibly, pack n play? I don't think getting a brand new one was necessary for us. We used the changing station on it more so than the actual play area. It was only useful a handful of times.
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: prenatal massages. Those were heaven as I got bigger.
Baby: a&d ointment! I used it every diaper change and she never once had diaper rash. Also, baby carrier. Loved it! So did she. Lots of white snap shirts! So much easier than bottom snaps! Especially when spit up is happening a lot in the beginning. Diaper Jeannie!!!!!!!
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item?
a regular pillow for nursing! I used it so much! I didn't like the boppy for nursing. Ice pack trays for making baby food. It was so much better tasting and so easy to do!
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish?
baby record book
Married: 08/04/12
DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13
DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
Pregnancy:
- Body pillow was a must for me to get any sleep in the last trimester
Baby:
- Halo Sleep Sacks were a must for us...we couldn't get a regular swaddle, DS would just squirm too much, but he couldn't sleep without being swaddled, so our first night home was miserable. I signed up for Amazon Prime the next morning, ordered 2 and then sent my mom to pick up one at BBR to hold us over until the order arrived. - - Sound machine: DS still sleeps with this every night and its a lifesaver when we travel too (make sure you get one that doesn't have an auto-shutoff and that plugs in and has batteries
- My Breast Friend nursing pillow: I lived in this thing the first 3 months
- Rock N Play: DS would take naps in it plus he would just hang out in it while I got things done
-Wubanub: we only used this for a pacifier since its easier for baby to put back in/doesn't fall
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)?
Baby:
- swing: each baby is so different. we only ended up using our used mamaroo a couple of times, DS just didn't like it, but I know moms that swear by it...and other moms that swear by others...don't spend much, so that if you need to switch to something different it wasn't a huge investment
- clothes: DS lived in Carter's onsies and footed pjs his first 3 months, I just bought the packs of different colored ones and rotated them
- shoes: so not necessary until they start to walk
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy:
- One pair of premium maternity jeans, they are sooooo much comfier than the cheap ones
Baby:
- An easy to use, safe car seat plus an extra base
- Either a stroller or a carrier, whichever you prefer. Do your research!
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item?
- definitely the Halo Sleepsacks
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish?
- newborn photosession
What did I love:
Pregnancy - maxi dresses. So much more comfy than pants! I live in Texas and was in my third trimester during the heart of the summer....comfy is way more important than cute but when you can get both - bonus!!
Baby: I loved my baby wrap. Buy two different ones and see what you like best. But it was so nice to have my arms free and it really calmed baby! Also loved our Rock n Play. Our baby slept in it for 6 months and it was so easy and portable and made nighttime breastfeeding a breeze.
SAVE ON:
I was not a big nursing pillow fan. I could not get comfortable with it and found using a regular pillow to be much more effectice.
buying a lot of items they don't know ba b y will like. Our baby hated being swaddled and hated pacifiers and we have so many still in the original packaging. This is the same with bottles...you don't know what baby will like so instead of buying 30 bottles of the same brand, buy one of a couple different brands and when you find what baby likes then go stock up.
Lastly, pass on buying to many elaborate newborn outfits. I am going shipping with a friend who is expecting her first in July and she kept showing me all these newborn outfits with pants and jumpers....onesies and sleep gowns are all you need! When you are changing 10+diapers a day you will find out pants are the enemy...at least until they have more muscle tone!
Splurge on a prenatal massage...especially in the third trimester. A good stroller ! And definitely splurge on car seat...no cutting corners there!
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ntnp #2 . summer 2018
*siggy warning*
ttc#1 . jul 2015
mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP! . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
BFP#3: 2/9/13 EDD 10/18/17. Team Green for Round 2!
Completely agree. The Wonder Weeks app definitely helped me mentally prepare for the harder days/weeks.
What did you love?
Pregnancy: birth ball totally helped me be more comfy sitting, sounds ridiculous, but squatty potty (google it if you've never seen one) I didn't actually buy one, but used 2 stepstools for under my feet. Really helped relieve hemorrhoids and constipation.
Labor: I bought a spray fan that ended up being a lifesaver since i had major hot flashes with contractions, i also made a birth skirt from a pair of yoga pants + material from an ugly turtleneck that i wore for both my labors with a thrift store tank top and was so much more comfy than a hospital gown
Baby: velcro swaddles, extra sheets (both mine were super poopers, lol), some type of hands free baby carrier
What did you buy/receive that you would you skip this time around?
Pregnancy: bigger bras for maternity boobs...just get nursing bras/nursing camis
Baby: shoes, more than 1 or 2 fancy outfits for the first few months
What would you save on (e.g. buy used or choose the cheaper available option)?
Pregnancy: maternity clothes
Baby: pretty much everything except what I put in splurge
What would you splurge on?
Pregnancy: good nutrition and vitamins, at least 1 super cute outfit for when you feel blah and need a confidence boost.
Baby: 1 nice baby carrier, quality diaper bag that won't fall apart, breast pump (if your insurance provides one, get one even if you don't think you'll need it. You can't sell a pump your insurance gives you, but you CAN donate it to a mom in need. My first would have starved or ended up with a feeding tube if I hadn't had a good pump, so this is important to me
Bonus Q's:
What was your "unicorn" pregnancy/baby item? Moby wrap, double stroller for the 2nd (didn't think I'd need it...then my older dd broke her leg and i was stuck with 2 non-walkers)
Were there any specific keepsake items you have come to cherish? I crochet a hat/bootie/blanket set for each of mine and also a set for their dedication. Also, they have both come home in the same sleeper (white with duckies) so thats a tradition now...
Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"