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    @MWoodside I'm sure I could just google this, but since you have experience. Are there reasons why you would choose one over the other, regarding orally or vaginally? Which do you prefer? 

    Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula
    DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer 
    Married: October 8, 2011
    DD1: September 24, 2013
    BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
    DD2: April 16, 2017
    BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
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    @twistsandturnsto2, thinking of you!
    @mrsstuessy, I do both ways, but if I had to pick I'd say vaginal to help thin and soften cervix.

    my appt today was ok. to preface, I have anxiety during pregnancy due to 2 prior losses. So that is constant until babe is healthy in my arms. Last night, when I was readying my girls for bed, I was talking about how babies sleep a lot at first. My oldest (6) innocently said 'what if the baby is born sleeping?' I explained that would mean the baby wasn't alive so I sure hope not. She felt awful and apologized and I reassured her I know she didn't know what that meant or mean it that way. But it was SUPER triggering for me and I've been in an internal anxiety spiral after that perseverating about this now. I cannot snap out of it and keep having panic attacks.

    so of course my bp is high today at my appt- 130/100, very high for me. The dr began to talk about taking me off work and I'm like well I think I know why and it's not work related. After the nst it had decreased to 120/86 so that's better-ish but I'm still stuck in this anxiety spiral. Ugh.

    DD1 born 5/24/10.

    Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.

    DD2 born 5/14/13.

    Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.

    Expecting someone new 4/17/17.
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    @MWoodside I'm so sorry. I'm glad bp went down after the nst. Hang in there--baby is doing fine! 
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    @twistsandturnsto2
    Prayers for you and a healthy baby

    @MWoodside
    I'm sorry you're going through so much stress and anxiety.  Just think....one more month!  You can do this!
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    @twistsandturnsto2, T+P for you and your little ones. Please keep us updated if you can so we can follow you on your journey.
    @MWoodside, that would have been a trigger for me too. I hope you were able to talk about it with your Dr. or someone you trust to help you manage your anxiety.

    MMC @ 10w March 2016
    Cautiously expecting April 5, 2017

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