Man didn't know how good it had it the first time around, able to nap or relax anytime I wanted, no little person to deal with when I was feeling sick. Now chasing around an 18 month old when you feel like you've been hit by a truck is exhausting!! So FTMs...enjoy haha
Re: FTM enjoy, 2nd time is much harder!!
BFP in September 2014, DS born June 2015.
TTC x2 months.
BFP January 2017.
Married: 08/04/12
DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13
DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
And I agree. I don't remember being this tired with him! Thank goodness he goes to bed early because I'm in bed by 8:30 most nights!!!
Formerly ChoicesMom
"Squishy" 2007
"Lyric" EDD Nov/4/11 - c/p Feb/11
"Fishy" 2012
"Bean" 2014
"Lux" EDD Apr/21/17 - c/p Aug/16
"Kokonah" EDD May/24/17 - m/c Oct/16
1 surprise - 1 Noonie - 1 preemie - 3 gone but not forgotten - One more on the way!!
Grab bag of mental health disorders
Pancolitis
that's my situation too...DS is 16 mo and never stops, I wish he would just sit and watch a movie or even a 30 minute TV show so that I can catch my breath
Luckily for me, my DH has been so good and understanding and picks up my slack.
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if one only remembers to turn on the light."
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**June Siggy Challenge: You Had ONE Job!**
LO#2 EDD October 18th
Appreciate it as much as you can, you never know what the future holds. For awhile I thought my first pregnancy might be my last and I regretted that I didn't savor it more. I know some parts are hard and annoying and gross or whatever, but you won't get this time back.
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“Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times,
if one only remembers to turn on the light."
- Albus Dumbledore
Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"
All I can think is, *if* this baby is truly my rainbow baby and *if* I am fortunate enough to be able to get pregnant with a sibling.
Your "Just you wait," is our (for some of us) "How seriously amazing you have it."
Just wanted to offer that perspective
*siggy warning*
mmc . mar 2016
dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
BFP . jan 2017
DD . oct 2017
ntnp #2 . summer 2018
mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
surprise BFP . aug 2019
DS . may 2020
dx Hashimoto's 2023
ttc #3 . feb 2023
mmc . apr 2023
mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
dx elevated nk cells
tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
BFP . mar 2025
Im gonna address this to FTMs - Don't let people tell you, "You just wait". In this moment, you are as tired as you've ever been. You are doing something more amazing than your body has ever done. I HATED constantly having my feelings and emotions invalidated by the "you just wait."
Its ok to say you're uncomfortable. You are.
Its ok to say you're tired. You are.
Its ok to say you're feeling scatterbrained. You are.
Likely moreso than you've ever been before, it's ok to express that.
Dont let people tell you those emotions/feeling aren't "real" just because they *might* be worse later.
ROCK ON FTMs!
"FTM Enjoy!" is antagonizing in and of itself, especially for a FTM who's having a particularly difficult pregnancy. It says exactly the same thing as "You think it's hard now?! You just wait!"
I'm just following what the previous poster said, by offering a different perspective. We have a bunch of STM threads to discuss stuff like this, but this one seems to particularly call out FTMs, which might not be cool in their book.
Just my two pennies.
Being at work away from DD is actually the only time I get to rest a little, but I work as a hca on a labour ward so
Not my finest moment.
BFP#3: 2/9/13 EDD 10/18/17. Team Green for Round 2!
**June Siggy Challenge: You Had ONE Job!**
LO#2 EDD October 18th
BFP#3: 2/9/13 EDD 10/18/17. Team Green for Round 2!