TP Thursday

dragonfly87-2

I want to TP my co-worker. 

**Potential TW** She is pregnant and is due next week. I am happy for her, but I had told her a few months ago about my CP because she kept making comments about my insomnia situation like, "wait until you are pregnant, then you will have real trouble sleeping." So I got fed up with it and asked her nicely to stop making those comments given my situation. She understood and stopped.

Well, today we were in a meeting and she said to me, "everyone keeps commenting on how pregnant I look and when I am going to stop working, but I don't understand why. I feel fine and baby is just fine too. If you were pregnant, wouldn't you just keep working until you delivered? What do you think?"

I told her nicely, "I am not sure. I am not pregnant, so I cannot answer that question. I am not sure what I would do." I know it wasn't intentional, but it hurt because it was reminder that I am in fact no longer pregnant. **TW**

ETA: grammar

heatherdubrow

@dragonfly87 what is it with selfish pregnant women and making insensitive and thoughtless comments?? She deserves a TP for sure.

Everycol0r

So sorry @dragonfly87. Definite TP for sure. 

jess0211

@NYTino24 YAAAS! DH has the SAME argument with me weekly it seems (as of late). We are often not in agreement on policy or politics. It causes many, many, many disagreements in our house.

eggplantface

dragonfly87 said:

I want to TP my co-worker. 

**Potential TW** She is pregnant and is due next week. I am happy for her, but I had told her a few months ago about my CP because she kept making comments about my insomnia situation like, "wait until you are pregnant, then you will have real trouble sleeping." So I got fed up with it and asked her nicely to stop making those comments given my situation. She understood and stopped.

Well, today we were in a meeting and she said to me, "everyone keeps commenting on how pregnant I look and when I am going to stop working, but I don't understand why. I feel fine and baby is just fine too. If you were pregnant, wouldn't you just keep working until you delivered? What do you think?"

I told her nicely, "I am not sure. I am not pregnant, so I cannot answer that question. I am not sure what I would do." I know it wasn't intentional, but it hurt because it was reminder that I am in fact no longer pregnant. **TW**

ETA: grammar

Or when people ask she could just tell them she feels fine and to mind their business instead of AW'ng her pregnancy in a meeting, which is clearly what she wants to do. "Guise, talk about meeeeeee!!!"

And I'm totally down for a GoT thread. I'm avoiding all spoilers until the season starts. "Missing GoT actor returns to the set!" NOOOO don't tell me!!!

Everycol0r

eggplantface said:

dragonfly87 said:

I want to TP my co-worker. 

**Potential TW** She is pregnant and is due next week. I am happy for her, but I had told her a few months ago about my CP because she kept making comments about my insomnia situation like, "wait until you are pregnant, then you will have real trouble sleeping." So I got fed up with it and asked her nicely to stop making those comments given my situation. She understood and stopped.

Well, today we were in a meeting and she said to me, "everyone keeps commenting on how pregnant I look and when I am going to stop working, but I don't understand why. I feel fine and baby is just fine too. If you were pregnant, wouldn't you just keep working until you delivered? What do you think?"

I told her nicely, "I am not sure. I am not pregnant, so I cannot answer that question. I am not sure what I would do." I know it wasn't intentional, but it hurt because it was reminder that I am in fact no longer pregnant. **TW**

ETA: grammar

Or when people ask she could just tell them she feels fine and to mind their business instead of AW'ng her pregnancy in a meeting, which is clearly what she wants to do. "Guise, talk about meeeeeee!!!"

And I'm totally down for a GoT thread. I'm avoiding all spoilers until the season starts. "Missing GoT actor returns to the set!" NOOOO don't tell me!!!

Oh AGREED but I can get down on some fan conspiracy theories. 

eggplantface

Everycol0r said:

eggplantface said:

dragonfly87 said:

I want to TP my co-worker. 

**Potential TW** She is pregnant and is due next week. I am happy for her, but I had told her a few months ago about my CP because she kept making comments about my insomnia situation like, "wait until you are pregnant, then you will have real trouble sleeping." So I got fed up with it and asked her nicely to stop making those comments given my situation. She understood and stopped.

Well, today we were in a meeting and she said to me, "everyone keeps commenting on how pregnant I look and when I am going to stop working, but I don't understand why. I feel fine and baby is just fine too. If you were pregnant, wouldn't you just keep working until you delivered? What do you think?"

I told her nicely, "I am not sure. I am not pregnant, so I cannot answer that question. I am not sure what I would do." I know it wasn't intentional, but it hurt because it was reminder that I am in fact no longer pregnant. **TW**

ETA: grammar

Or when people ask she could just tell them she feels fine and to mind their business instead of AW'ng her pregnancy in a meeting, which is clearly what she wants to do. "Guise, talk about meeeeeee!!!"

And I'm totally down for a GoT thread. I'm avoiding all spoilers until the season starts. "Missing GoT actor returns to the set!" NOOOO don't tell me!!!

Oh AGREED but I can get down on some fan conspiracy theories. 

I do read the theories! Those blow my mind.

MJDsquared

@LoveInDC I'm really sorry about all your TPs (that are definitely worthy) but I'm newish here and I hadn't heard spelunking yet and I thought that was hilarious.

@mschanandlerbong1214 Best username ever!

DeeVeeZee

@dragonfly87 wow she definitely deserves a TP especially as you have already explained to her. .she is just plain insensitive! !!!