@Stankonia2014 didn't mean for that to sound like I said you were being shitty, you were the only nice one who actually explained to me.
Soooo you lurk our BMB, but not enough to get an inside joke from our BMB (makes sense). You then ask (in an open forum with access for all to see) what it all means. You subsequently get upset when most don't want to outright explain said inside joke which may cause our fun retort to drive-bys to be shutdown by the BGs (doesn't make sense). Do you see where I'm going with this???
@Elyse1384 don't you pick on @daniellelynette she's like the one of the nicest bumpers on here so don't get all butt hurt that she came onto your board and asked a legitimate question and didn't understand when an inside joke was used. The whole point of an inside joke is that only the insiders get it. She's not a J17 member so her bad for not getting the "joke". But she wasn't a speshul snowflake drive by poster so I don't see why you have such a problem with her. Lighten up
@lap018 LOL you think I'm butt hurt for explaining to her (while she is busy complaining about my BMB members) why no one answered her. Hahahahaha. She came to our BMB, jumped into a convo with strangers and asked us to explain an inside joke. If you don't see how strange that is than I have to say you guys pair well together and it works out perfectly you're in the same BMB.
Because I'm supposed to know it's an inside joke? I was literally just curious because there's a lot of weird shit on TB these days. Only one person was nice enough to explain it was an inside joke without being completely rude about it.
@Elyse1384 you didn't come here for the sole purpose of explaining why no one answered her or you would have said it in a different way. You came here to make her feel smaller than you. She did complain about your BMB members but only because as I said she mistakenly took your inside joke as rudeness. And I told you before she didn't realize it was an inside joke going on obviously or she wouldn't have just flat out asked what it meant. You can insult her and me all you want or say we "pair well together" and it's great we are in the same BMB because of this thing that is not even a big deal, but I'm not here to call you names or make you feel small. I just wanted to let you know that doing that on this BMB to a genuine member who contributes and is nice is not ok
@Elyse1384 you didn't come here for the sole purpose of explaining why no one answered her or you would have said it in a different way. You came here to make her feel smaller than you. She did complain about your BMB members but only because as I said she mistakenly took your inside joke as rudeness. And I told you before she didn't realize it was an inside joke going on obviously or she wouldn't have just flat out asked what it meant. You can insult her and me all you want or say we "pair well together" and it's great we are in the same BMB because of this thing that is not even a big deal, but I'm not here to call you names or make you feel small. I just wanted to let you know that doing that on this BMB to a genuine member who contributes and is nice is not ok
What are you her lawyer? So you know what I'm thinking and @daniellelynette are thinking? That would be impressive if you were correct, but you're not. I came to this BMB since she was talking about my BMB. I explained to her why it would be absurd to explain an inside joke used to address trolls. AndPlusAlso, I'm pretty sure she can speak for herself, but riddle me this... If she is so "nice", why after finding out it was an inside joke did she come here and continue to complain about our BMB members? Why not just say to herself "ah well that makes sense" and then move on. Why is she using an animated gif flipping me off? Is that what nice people do around here?
The whoooooole point is that when I asked, I got multiple rude responses to begin with before anyone even had the courtesy of saying it was an inside joke, and then I was told to "run along".
I'm so tired of this whole thing. Just go back home. If you've noticed, I "ran along" and left your board alone. Just do the same.
@daniellelynette ... I had no intentions of coming here until I heard you ran back here to talk negatively about my BMB members. If you don't want another BMB coming to your board, don't complain about said BMB.
The whoooooole point is that when I asked, I got multiple rude responses to begin with before anyone even had the courtesy of saying it was an inside joke, and then I was told to "run along".
I'm so tired of this whole thing. Just go back home. If you've noticed, I "ran along" and left your board alone. Just do the same.
Let's keep facts, facts.
@Stankonia2014 responded first and gave you what you wanted by telling you it was an inside joke before anyone else responded
You proceeded to call one of our regs @itsfine shitty on our BMB
Then you refer to any J17 person coming here to hold you accountable as twats... if that was only aimed at @Elyse1384 or all... doesn't really matter
The whoooooole point is that when I asked, I got multiple rude responses to begin with before anyone even had the courtesy of saying it was an inside joke, and then I was told to "run along".
I'm so tired of this whole thing. Just go back home. If you've noticed, I "ran along" and left your board alone. Just do the same.
@lap018, @Elyse1384 is one of our nicest bumpers, so don't get all defensive when she comes here to defend her BMB.
I'll get defensive any time someone comes and harps on one of my BMB members, just as you ladies have done here. And @michaela0704 let's do keep facts facts, your first statement is false, the first response she got was about 3 people saying "thank you" so don't act like your BMB is all about acceptance and understanding like the first response she got was a rational explanation. I've already said she has said things about yalls BMB, not denying that. But I'm not just going to sit here and let y'all come here to our BMB and jump all over her. Y'all need to just get back to your own board now good grief
@lap018 fair, I'm an honest person, I didn't realize she had posted numerous times trying to figure it out... you're right, she got a few thank yous before being told it was an inside joke. At the same time... if we are all being honest with ourselves, name calling regs on another BMB is just uncalled for... all that was said was 'thank you' nothing to get all worked up over.
@lap018, @Elyse1384 is one of our nicest bumpers, so don't get all defensive when she comes here to defend her BMB.
I'll get defensive any time someone comes and harps on one of my BMB members, just as you ladies have done here. And @michaela0704 let's do keep facts facts, your first statement is false, the first response she got was about 3 people saying "thank you" so don't act like your BMB is all about acceptance and understanding like the first response she got was a rational explanation. I've already said she has said things about yalls BMB, not denying that. But I'm not just going to sit here and let y'all come here to our BMB and jump all over her. Y'all need to just get back to your own board now good grief
So to confirm, you don't like when people come at a member of your BMB and feel it is acceptable to defend said BMB member? Side note... Can I point out the obvious or will it be perceived as my trying to make you feel small????
You are distorting the facts. She was reamed for being rude and speaking ill of another BMB here. We came here since she started talking about our BMB here. As I said, if you don't want us here, don't speak ill about us here. It's pretty simple.
BTW - Your tone is mighty unwelcoming. I thought this was a "nice" place? See the thing is, I don't have to get out of here. It is a PUBLIC forum.
@Stankonia2014 didn't mean for that to sound like I said you were being shitty, you were the only nice one who actually explained to me.
Soooo you lurk our BMB, but not enough to get an inside joke from our BMB (makes sense). You then ask (in an open forum with access for all to see) what it all means. You subsequently get upset when most don't want to outright explain said inside joke which may cause our fun retort to drive-bys to be shutdown by the BGs (doesn't make sense). Do you see where I'm going with this???
@Elyse1384 no I said @daniellelynette was nice not that this was a nice place or that I was nice. I'm definitely a bitch I'll straight up clarify that for ya. Also this was your original post on our BMB to her. It seems to me your problem is with her asking a question (God forbid) that is about yalls precious inside joke and no one explaining it. And getting upset because everyone is being sarcastic and unhelpful (which she wouldn't understand because it was your inside joke) I apologize but it just seemed to me that you were reaming her for asking the question and she shouldn't have because she isn't a part of your inside joke. I've already said there's no excuse for name calling, but I think this has been talked out now.
@lap018 I was being facetious about the "nice" thing. Now regarding her question, I did think it ill placed and odd, but it didn't upset me. I didn't even respond to her on the thread in question because I didn't care (until she was rude to my BMB). To compare though, it would be like me walking down the street and seeing you and a friend giggling and pointing at someone else in your company who didn't see your gestures. Now imagine my shouting out to you, "Hey! What are you guys laughing at/saying about that person?" Now why on earth would you give me the answer in front of that person? Furthermore, you would probably think "who the hell is that?" in regards to me. Now picture me walking away talking shit about you. Absurd, right?
Even still, I was far from reaming her on here. She became rude towards our BMB and I defended my fellow members here by rather bluntly telling her "what do you expect them to say". We've had many trolls come through whose one aim seems to be reporting regs. The trolls can see her question and any answer we give. @Stankonia2014 left the answer vague at "it is an inside joke" to satisfy your friend's curiosity while preserving our board's lighthearted retort for when we are being trolled. Of course we won't say more than that (hence my fight club reference). You got snippy with my defense of my BMB and made incorrect assumptions about my intent.
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I'm all for snark but I just asked a question lol
*lurking from J17, obv.
ETA - can't gif from iPad.
I'm so tired of this whole thing. Just go back home. If you've noticed, I "ran along" and left your board alone. Just do the same.
@Stankonia2014 responded first and gave you what you wanted by telling you it was an inside joke before anyone else responded
You proceeded to call one of our regs @itsfine shitty on our BMB
Then you refer to any J17 person coming here to hold you accountable as twats... if that was only aimed at @Elyse1384 or all... doesn't really matter
eta *lurking from june*
Side note... Can I point out the obvious or will it be perceived as my trying to make you feel small????
BTW - Your tone is mighty unwelcoming. I thought this was a "nice" place? See the thing is, I don't have to get out of here. It is a PUBLIC forum.
@Elyse1384 no I said @daniellelynette was nice not that this was a nice place or that I was nice. I'm definitely a bitch I'll straight up clarify that for ya. Also this was your original post on our BMB to her. It seems to me your problem is with her asking a question (God forbid) that is about yalls precious inside joke and no one explaining it. And getting upset because everyone is being sarcastic and unhelpful (which she wouldn't understand because it was your inside joke) I apologize but it just seemed to me that you were reaming her for asking the question and she shouldn't have because she isn't a part of your inside joke. I've already said there's no excuse for name calling, but I think this has been talked out now.
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Even still, I was far from reaming her on here. She became rude towards our BMB and I defended my fellow members here by rather bluntly telling her "what do you expect them to say". We've had many trolls come through whose one aim seems to be reporting regs. The trolls can see her question and any answer we give. @Stankonia2014 left the answer vague at "it is an inside joke" to satisfy your friend's curiosity while preserving our board's lighthearted retort for when we are being trolled. Of course we won't say more than that (hence my fight club reference). You got snippy with my defense of my BMB and made incorrect assumptions about my intent.
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