Out of sheer curiosity is there anyone else NOT INTERESTED in sex. My hubby is super annoyed about it. This is baby number two for me and weve been intimate regularly....I'd say like twice a week.... But I am just not into it. I feel huge. I ache. Our DS in very busy in there and Im just like UGGGHHHHH
Re: SEX
Well my DH decided to google it and now says that I'm the only one who doesn't seem to be experiencing this crazy new sex drive
There is nothing about me that feels sexy right now and I do not want my boobs touched
EP: 2.17.2016
DS: 3.4.2017
DD: due 7.16.2019
ngcsugirl1112
I am totally with you. I just don't feel sexy. I feel like I have to pee. ALL THE TIME. Every time I change positions. IE sitting to standing....or rolling from one side to the other.
Im over it. I just feel gross.
And don't get me wrong....I appreciate that DH is interested and finds me SUPER DUPER IRRESISTABLE now that I'm as big as a house.....
But its me. I do not feel sexy
Baby Boy: coming March 2017
married to M since 6.13.09
T - 3.3.14
A - 2.24.17
Thank you Thank you Thank you for the validation
I told him earlier "Listen its not that I don't find you attractive.... But I'm just not feeling it. And I'm like....to be honest I think you're doing WORLDS better than most men with pregnant wives. You're still getting a little something 2x a week w/o fail. So....honestly I don't feel a big need to up the amount of sex"
He's like "why bc other men don't find their women attractive when they're pregnant? or bc suddenly their wives aren't so into the men?"
Like almost picking a fight and sends me some damn link about ONE woman who says her sex drive is off the charts in the 3rd tri.
I'm like 1 woman is not EVERY woman.
So I told him.....when your son moves....I toot. It aint cute.
Edited to change "we are" to "I am". DH still interested, me not so much.
Me: 39 DH: 40
Married: 12/6/2014
BFP#2: 10/28/15 MC: 11/24/15
BFP#3: 3/20/16 MC: 4/26/16
BFP#4: 7/15/16 DD: 3/18/17
BFP#5: 5/1/18 EDD: 1/12/19
Him: 31, totes fine.
IUI #1: 5 follicles, cycle cancelled :-/
IUI #2: 1 follicle, BFP, chemical
IVF #1: 12 follicles, 9 eggs, 1 fresh 5dt and 4 on ice. BFP, beta #1: 326, beta #2: 841
Married: 04/14/12
DS: 10/15/13
BFP #2: 7/22/16 EDD 3/25/17
DH: 33
Furbaby: Walther, 4 year old Rottweiler/Coonhound mix
EDD: 3/7/17<img
Me: 26 Hubs: 28
Married: 6/6/15
Baby Girl: 3/22/2017
Now I'm sore, I'm tired, and my fiance makes whale noises at me every time I try to roll out of bed (yes, every time. For some reason he needs to laugh at me for feeling like a beached whale) . I don't really have much interest at the present time, but I do take mercy on the poor man. Besides that, whoever said that sex feels better during pregnancy was completely wrong. Its quite the opposite for me.
Ummmm no DH, I need assistance to get this baby out and then you are staying farrr farr farrrr away from me for the foreseeable future. That's how we got into this in the first place ya remembah?
Keeps us both happy while also avoiding all the crappy parts of sex while its oh so awkward and uncomfortable. As i said before-when we hit after 39wks we're gonna bite the bullet and have super sexy "hey baby soften my cervix" sex
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Samantha - 4/5/2017
Mine pouts when he doesn't get his way
Its super annoying
Like I ache, I feel sick, I have NO INTEREST....like less than 0 in sex and I don't feel sexy. My lady parts feel like Ive been kicked between the legs repeatedly and my son is in the most uncomfortable position
His response is "you always say that. you never feel good."
@kjd291 Agreed! Anything more than about 10 minutes and he can go finish himself!
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
mcdonald-bailey Girl I WISH it would stop at 10 mins
Not because of him but bc I am huge and this kid makes everything SOOOO uncomfortable
As a side note.....any STM who previously had stitches due to their first kid.....find the place where the stitches once were sore during love making sessions now that theyre pregnant? That one spot that I tore actually bothers me during sex
I'm a fan of first thing in the morning sessions: because I'm already in bed, totally relaxed and I don't have the "is this going to be annoying to clean up/discomfort/etc" thoughts that I have later on in the day.
Since I'm so uncomfortable, the longer I'm awake, I need muuuuuch more mental preparation to have any sort of sex.
vprod
lol girl I am so glad you said that about the annoyance of clean up. And trying to guesstimate your level of annoyance