Big year for me and my fiance ahead

jlh23love

Sorry

longhairdntcare

jlh23love said:

Wow. I have reported 2 people before over being hateful. No one should ever have to be spoken to like what some of you are doing to this lady.Espically hiding behind a cellphone, or computer screen.

pretty sure being honest isn't against the TOU. This is the internet, people can say whatever they want. Have fun reporting people for nothing. 

caribbeanmama-2

Rolling eyes.

RunRestRepeat

@jlh23love I'm going to choose to believe your apology is authentic, and accept it. Now please let's just all move on (and stop reporting people for honesty)!

longhairdntcare

RunRestRepeat said:

@jlh23love I'm going to choose to believe your apology is authentic, and accept it. Now please let's just all move on (and stop reporting people for honesty)!

This. We don't need tattle tales running around telling the BGs that we are being 'mean'.

cssme13

Airing your grievances against members of this board on a post where OP literally came back and posted that she appreciated people being tough on her is ridiculous and not necessary.

OP I was in your situation when I was pregnant with my daughter. I also nagged DH daily, luckily he had a job working for my grandparents but it was definitely not enough to get us by. I found that during the period where I would nag him daily our marriage seriously struggled. Once my dad gave me a reality check (like most the ladies on here gave you) I backed off a little and only asked genuinely caring about the situation maybe once a week. Our marriage started to get better almost immediately and DH ended up finding a great job. It's definitely a stressful situation but honestly having a hands off approach and letting him handle it himself made it easier on me and him.

ETA my response to OP

caribbeanmama-2

@RunRestRepeat You must be in a good mood!  I see no reason to accept a one word apology.

RunRestRepeat

@caribbeanmama No good comes from continuing to go back and forth. There are much bigger problems in the world than whether or not I'm going to believe the apology is authentic. I'm going to choose to believe it was, one word or not, and move on.

caribbeanmama-2

RunRestRepeat said:

@caribbeanmama No good comes from continuing to go back and forth. There are much bigger problems in the world than whether or not I'm going to believe the apology is authentic. I'm going to choose to believe it was, one word or not, and move on.

Hrmph!  It's Friday and I don't feel like being a grown up. But. You make a good point. 

plumpous

You know what I probably fired too quickly and in the wrong thread. I just saw someone started to say that we are getting too many random people and it got me stirred because lately the group was flaming a lot of people.
I'm sorry I hijacked the post. Hormones? 

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