Thank you so much @MrsLittleMac, @Xstatic3333, @fourPsinapod, @tentacular, @concreteangell, @janefelicity, @chef'swife, @floatingelephy, @lfrank12, @gretchypoo, @colebug89, @krob, @kswiger06, @skiingstark, @MLRocha, @leslie1331. All your words really comforted me, you're all great as usual. Thank you for taking the time to write something to try and make me feel better because it does. More than you know.@partyof6? Thank you for your kind words as well and I most definitely think I'll be taking you up on the offer of a PM too. I remember you losing your dog just recently a few months back too so thank you for reaching out to me. How are you doing these days anyway? I think it might have been either here or the Monday BF I read you weren't feeling too sure about things lately and second guessing your upcoming arrival's new role in your family. I just want you to know, I've heard literally everyone I know IRL (from all walks of life) who already have a kid or especially multiple kids with a new baby on the way say the same things you did. Perfectly normal and understandable. May sound shocking to some, but so much more common to feel that way than most people realize. You are not alone. I remember feeling like that even as a FTM. Your kids are so lucky to have a mom like you and it will all fall into place even though it may not seem like it for awhile.
So, how is this labor buddy thing supposed to work? We've had several births now but it seems like everyone is just posting about their own...
@kswiger06, that note was hilarious it made me laugh and that's not easy to do these days lol
@Jab3, thank you for thinking of me too! Its just a huge change coming and I am nervous about how it is all going to work. It will, because it has to, and this baby will be so loved by us and the 3 siblings that are completely excited. I am already medicated for anxiety so hopefully that will help me, lol.As far as the dogs go, I remember in the very beginning just thinking how I needed one person I could text, call etc. when I was sad about her, because my husband was already sad, and my parents had just lost there. I am happy to be your person if you need one! I will watch for PM.
@kswiger06 see this is why you're so much nicer than me because I'd be like "yeah your note is cute and everything you manipulative little fuckers but where's my replacement candy?"