As of now I am delivering at a hospital that is good 45 minutes drive from my house without traffic. This is my second kid and with DD I had to be induced due to pre-e so I have no idea about "fast or slow labor" times to compare.
How far are you away from your hospital? I remember talking about this about my last BMB and some people were about a hour from their preferred hospital. Are you concerned you won't make it to the hospital in time?
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Mine is pretty close by , 2 miles. First kid I labored at home for a few hours and then went in, luckily I was already 5cm and ready for my epidural. This time around I'm more nervous about going to labor in the middle of the night and waiting for someone to come over to watch my son.
#1 DD Aug 2014 @39weeks via CS
#2 Due May 2,2017 hopeful VBAC
Sweet Baby H 12.21.11
Sassy Baby P 03.26.14
Little Brother Due 05.22.17
I will be about 15 minutes away again this time. I'm more panicked about our game plan this time. What if DH is busy at work when labor starts (his work is 15 mins away)? Will we find someone fast enough to come watch DD? Will it be much faster this time around like it was for my mom? Will I end up delivering alone because DH might end up having to watch DD? As you can see, distance is not my concern, its everything else!
I was planning on working until I went into labor with my first, but got too nervous about it happening at work. Turns out, I had to be induced and was in labor for 36 hours, so no need to worry there...haha. According to my doc, second babies are "slip n' slide babies," so this one should come out easier *fingers crossed.*
Human sons: 11/2015 & 05/2017
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1/7/2015 Twins born @ 34 weeks
May '17 labor memes
@beachmommy2b that hospital does sound great! My mom is a NICU nurse and keeps trying to talk me out of delivering at my current hospital choice because there is not a NICU.
The hospital I am delivering at is known as a "5 star hotel" in our community. They used to have these plush bath robes and soft blankets on each bed... that is until everyone stole them... ( I used to work there also)... several hundred people per week from the community come there just to eat. They don't have any business in the hospital they just come to eat! lol.
DS2 5/17
#3 Due 9/20
I wouldn't deliver at a hospital without a NICU. DD had meconium in her fluid so the NICU team was present for her birth and evaluated her immediately after. She also had the cord around her neck, which caused her heart rate to drop whenever I laid on my left side and almost led to a c-section. I don't know where those things fall in the scheme of "needing NICU" presence, but for peace of mind I wouldn't go somewhere without one.
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Me:31 DH:32 Married 11/06/10
DD: Born 8/23/13 (clomid+ovidrel+IUI)
BFP 9/9/16 EDD 5/19/17
We moved right before I got pregnant with DD so the hospital where I'd delivered DS was about 40 min away by then so I ended up switching to a different hospital which was about a mile away from where we lived. It was so nice to get there in 5 minutes! I was GBS positive and as soon as I got to the hospital I told them this so they put me on antibiotics and I barely had time to get the second antibiotic dose before I started pushing so it was good to be that close.
We bought our house after that and the hospital where I delivered DD is 30 minutes away now so we are going to one that is 15 minutes away where the ob practice that delivered her also works out of. So we are moving hospitals but not practices this time. I loved them so much though that I would drive the 30 minutes if they didn't also deliver at the closer hospital.
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
Still time to figure it out...
My hometown is pretty remote so a quite a few friends and family I know are driving an hour and a half to the bigger hospital. My cousin is due the beginning of February and is driving down. Hope there isn't A snow storm as she's in michigan.
1st Baby 5/12/17, Henry
BFP #1 10/8/13, EDD 6/4/14, DS #1 6/9/14
BFP #2 5/1/16, EDD 12/16/16, MMC 5/27/16
BFP #3 8/29/16, EDD 5/5/17, DS #2 5/11/17
BFP #4 2/28/21, EDD 11/9/21
I'm a bit concerned about the distance, especially since the women in my family have quick births. My sister said her first lasted 4 hours from first pain to baby and last was 1 hour. Not that that means it will happen to me, but it is in the back of my mind. Also, DH works an hour away from home (same city as hospital). Now that I am thinking about this, I'm not sure what I will do if he is at work when I need to go to the hospital.
When I was first pregnant I was really scared I wouldn't make it and my son would pop out in the bathroom! But in reality I went thru so many contractions so much pain before I was like...ok time to go to the hospital. Even then u was only dilated to 2 but jumped to 5 in no time since contractions were constant.
My point....Every labor is different u never know when ur body will be like..."I'm gonna slowly dilate then be like BAM I'm gonna jump to 9! Lol
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