FB now or later

Spicyweiner

Do you guys want to do this ish now or later? 
I'm thinking we go with whatever the majority decides. 
Eta: Ok so we are doing a private group here on TB (pumpkin spice and bjs) so request that group and then we will discuss FB deets from there. 

Spicyweiner

One thing I do want to mention is that if we do it now, you will probably want to join now because it's usually super weird to add people in later. 
Of course everything will be discussed and majority rules kind of thing. 

poofwok

Personally, I voted for after the babies are born. I'm really enjoying this group's vibe on TB right now and I'm 95% certain this board will slow down or even die off not long after the babies are born anyway and so it'll be much easier for us to keep up with each other on FB at that point. I know that not everybody will join Facebook and I think it would be a bit of a bummer to create a little divide at this point. 

However if the majority wants to create the group now, this bish is in!

peachesnbean

I voted that I give no fvcks. I will happily join a FB group but don't mind the dynamic here. Hopefully there will be some kind of screening process?

Spicyweiner

peachesnbean said:

I voted that I give no fvcks. I will happily join a FB group but don't mind the dynamic here. Hopefully there will be some kind of screening process?

Yep. If you aren't a recognizable contributor then no entry. 

yogadevil

I voted now- mainly so when babies are being born it's easier to deal with the influx of lurkers/HDBD-only posters wanting in because "they feel like they know us so well and don't want to be left out"

imalwaysme79

peachesnbean said:

I voted that I give no fvcks. I will happily join a FB group but don't mind the dynamic here. Hopefully there will be some kind of screening process?

I voted the same and feel the same way. 

PerraSucia

I thought now was when we made our secret groups of only people we liked then later was a big group.

Spicyweiner

PerraSucia said:

I thought now was when we made our secret groups of only people we liked then later was a big group.

I'm good with that too. 

Starfish113

concreteangell said:

Personally, I voted for after the babies are born. I'm really enjoying this group's vibe on TB right now and I'm 95% certain this board will slow down or even die off not long after the babies are born anyway and so it'll be much easier for us to keep up with each other on FB at that point. I know that not everybody will join Facebook and I think it would be a bit of a bummer to create a little divide at this point. 

However if the majority wants to create the group now, this bish is in!

This is me too 

kswiger06

Edit... I had something then had a realization, then my phone went bonkers and made a sad face appear. I got annoyed and deleted the whole dang thing

grapeskittles4lyfe

I'm going to go with whatever the majority wants. I voted "gives no f*x". My previous BMB split twice (once to PB and then to FB) and we're still about 100 strong. I do know that I'm on FB a lot more than TB, so that might up my contribution rate, but I feel like I'm slowly getting into posting more on F17 regardless, so....

cantalopes24

I said after the babies are born. Most of the creepy fakes and perfect parents go away after that. My last BMB had too much Facebook drama.

feelingjovani

I voted I don't care but I also wonder if I'm one of the randos.  I try to get on here on the daily but don't always get to post (I'm also not as witty as many of you ladies so I don't jump in with funny things) so I'm a little paranoid about being one of the creepers. 

Gretchypoo

CurlyCupcake21 said:

I voted I don't care but I also wonder if I'm one of the randos.  I try to get on here on the daily but don't always get to post (I'm also not as witty as many of you ladies so I don't jump in with funny things) so I'm a little paranoid about being one of the creepers. 

I recognize you!!

Spicyweiner

Gretchypoo said:

CurlyCupcake21 said:

I voted I don't care but I also wonder if I'm one of the randos.  I try to get on here on the daily but don't always get to post (I'm also not as witty as many of you ladies so I don't jump in with funny things) so I'm a little paranoid about being one of the creepers. 

I recognize you!!

Yeah me too

Spicyweiner

I don't feel like it needs to be people who are super active, more like "oh yeah, she goes here" kinda thing 

leslie1331

So does the name involve BJ's please tell me it does

feelingjovani

Woo hoo, I go here!  I'm glad I'm not the creepy neighbor watching you all through my window.

Spicyweiner

leslie1331 said:

So does the name involve BJ's please tell me it does

Of course! 

mrsgabus

Id say it doesn't matter. Ive been in one after the babies were born (I think) and my Nov 2015 one was formed before. I'm a don't give a F*cks gal

Spicyweiner

Ok so we are doing a private group here on TB (pumpkin spice and bjs) so request that group and then we will discuss FB deets from there. 

cantalopes24

Spicyweiner said:

Ok so we are doing a private group here on TB (pumpkin spice and bjs) so request that group and then we will discuss FB deets from there. 

I don't know how to do that. Unless you haven't made it yet and I'm an idiot?

Spicyweiner

I pmed you @cantalopes24

BlondePeanut

I am one of the rare people who doesn't have a FB lol....so all the power to you ladies

sunshine2417

@Spicyweiner can you PM me deets for the PS & BJs group on here too... I don't know how to do that either! 

tentacular

Pumpkin spice BJ's! Our board's legacy. We ought to be proud of that one. 

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Hmm I wasn't accepted in the Pumpkin and BJs group,  yet.  Does that mean I didn't make the cut? 

LivingLaVidaGinger

AfKash said:

Hmm I wasn't accepted in the Pumpkin and BJs group,  yet.  Does that mean I didn't make the cut? 

I think the decision was made to hold off on a fb group until later on.

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LivingLaVidaGinger said:

AfKash said:

Hmm I wasn't accepted in the Pumpkin and BJs group,  yet.  Does that mean I didn't make the cut? 

I think the decision was made to hold off on a fb group until later on.

Thanks @LivingLaVidaGinger , I know about the FB group.  I'm asking about TB group,  Pumpkin Spice and BJ'S. 

Patience7150

My fear of letting a catfish into the Facebook group to see my true identity has convinced me to discourage the Facebook group for now, thereby keeping all my comments public for the world to see. 

PerraSucia

@AfKash I denied you from TB group because I'm still not 100% sure you're a real person and feel like I need to creep on you before I let you all up on my Facebook. 

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Journal Entry: 
Day 205

One of them may be on to me.....

die_frau

I spent like 10 minutes looking on fb for a pumpkin spice and bjs group. To, obviously, no avail. Thankfully I wasn't doing this search at work, otherwise I would probably get some questions from IT... 

skiingstark

I give no fucks. Honestly my facebook has my nickname not my real name to make it harder for my middle school students to find me. So I can move to facebook at any point. 

Spicyweiner

skiingstark said:

I give no fucks. Honestly my facebook has my nickname not my real name to make it harder for my middle school students to find me. So I can move to facebook at any point. 

YGpM

Rachelbd

So I haven't been on much the past couple weeks, due to some personal issues, followed by vacation with little to no internet access, and then the holiday. But how do I find the private group here on TB?

cinderin

I sent in my request. 

Rachelbd

found and sent the request

jbuck909

I know I have fallen off the board, but I'm on FB a lot more and think that might be good now. 

newbelchermommy

Im on several fb feb private groups. Can i join?