FB now or later

Spicyweiner · November 2016

Do you guys want to do this ish now or later?
I'm thinking we go with whatever the majority decides.
Eta: Ok so we are doing a private group here on TB (pumpkin spice and bjs) so request that group and then we will discuss FB deets from there.

Spicyweiner · November 2016

One thing I do want to mention is that if we do it now, you will probably want to join now because it's usually super weird to add people in later.
Of course everything will be discussed and majority rules kind of thing.

poofwok · November 2016

Personally, I voted for after the babies are born. I'm really enjoying this group's vibe on TB right now and I'm 95% certain this board will slow down or even die off not long after the babies are born anyway and so it'll be much easier for us to keep up with each other on FB at that point. I know that not everybody will join Facebook and I think it would be a bit of a bummer to create a little divide at this point.

However if the majority wants to create the group now, this bish is in!

peachesnbean · November 2016

I voted that I give no fvcks. I will happily join a FB group but don't mind the dynamic here. Hopefully there will be some kind of screening process?

Spicyweiner · November 2016

peachesnbean said:

I voted that I give no fvcks. I will happily join a FB group but don't mind the dynamic here. Hopefully there will be some kind of screening process?

Yep. If you aren't a recognizable contributor then no entry.

yogadevil · November 2016

I voted now- mainly so when babies are being born it's easier to deal with the influx of lurkers/HDBD-only posters wanting in because "they feel like they know us so well and don't want to be left out"

imalwaysme79 · November 2016

peachesnbean said:

I voted that I give no fvcks. I will happily join a FB group but don't mind the dynamic here. Hopefully there will be some kind of screening process?

I voted the same and feel the same way.

PerraSucia · November 2016

I thought now was when we made our secret groups of only people we liked then later was a big group.

Spicyweiner · November 2016

PerraSucia said:

I thought now was when we made our secret groups of only people we liked then later was a big group.

I'm good with that too.

Starfish113 · November 2016

concreteangell said:

Personally, I voted for after the babies are born. I'm really enjoying this group's vibe on TB right now and I'm 95% certain this board will slow down or even die off not long after the babies are born anyway and so it'll be much easier for us to keep up with each other on FB at that point. I know that not everybody will join Facebook and I think it would be a bit of a bummer to create a little divide at this point.

However if the majority wants to create the group now, this bish is in!

This is me too

kswiger06 · November 2016

Edit... I had something then had a realization, then my phone went bonkers and made a sad face appear. I got annoyed and deleted the whole dang thing

grapeskittles4lyfe · November 2016

I'm going to go with whatever the majority wants. I voted "gives no f*x". My previous BMB split twice (once to PB and then to FB) and we're still about 100 strong. I do know that I'm on FB a lot more than TB, so that might up my contribution rate, but I feel like I'm slowly getting into posting more on F17 regardless, so....

cantalopes24 · November 2016

I said after the babies are born. Most of the creepy fakes and perfect parents go away after that. My last BMB had too much Facebook drama.

feelingjovani · November 2016

I voted I don't care but I also wonder if I'm one of the randos. I try to get on here on the daily but don't always get to post (I'm also not as witty as many of you ladies so I don't jump in with funny things) so I'm a little paranoid about being one of the creepers.

Gretchypoo · November 2016

CurlyCupcake21 said:

I voted I don't care but I also wonder if I'm one of the randos. I try to get on here on the daily but don't always get to post (I'm also not as witty as many of you ladies so I don't jump in with funny things) so I'm a little paranoid about being one of the creepers.

I recognize you!!

Spicyweiner · November 2016

Gretchypoo said:

CurlyCupcake21 said:

I voted I don't care but I also wonder if I'm one of the randos. I try to get on here on the daily but don't always get to post (I'm also not as witty as many of you ladies so I don't jump in with funny things) so I'm a little paranoid about being one of the creepers.

I recognize you!!

Yeah me too

Spicyweiner · November 2016

I don't feel like it needs to be people who are super active, more like "oh yeah, she goes here" kinda thing

leslie1331 · November 2016

So does the name involve BJ's

please tell me it does

feelingjovani · November 2016

Woo hoo, I go here! I'm glad I'm not the creepy neighbor watching you all through my window.

Spicyweiner · November 2016

leslie1331 said:

So does the name involve BJ's please tell me it does

Of course!

mrsgabus · November 2016

Id say it doesn't matter. Ive been in one after the babies were born (I think) and my Nov 2015 one was formed before. I'm a don't give a F*cks gal

Spicyweiner · November 2016

Ok so we are doing a private group here on TB (pumpkin spice and bjs) so request that group and then we will discuss FB deets from there.

cantalopes24 · November 2016

Spicyweiner said:

Ok so we are doing a private group here on TB (pumpkin spice and bjs) so request that group and then we will discuss FB deets from there.

I don't know how to do that. Unless you haven't made it yet and I'm an idiot?

Spicyweiner · November 2016

I pmed you @cantalopes24

BlondePeanut · November 2016

I am one of the rare people who doesn't have a FB lol....so all the power to you ladies

sunshine2417 · November 2016

@Spicyweiner can you PM me deets for the PS & BJs group on here too... I don't know how to do that either!

tentacular · November 2016

Pumpkin spice BJ's! Our board's legacy. We ought to be proud of that one.

expandcontract · November 2016

Hmm I wasn't accepted in the Pumpkin and BJs group, yet. Does that mean I didn't make the cut?

LivingLaVidaGinger · November 2016

AfKash said:

Hmm I wasn't accepted in the Pumpkin and BJs group, yet. Does that mean I didn't make the cut?

I think the decision was made to hold off on a fb group until later on.

expandcontract · November 2016

LivingLaVidaGinger said:

AfKash said:

Hmm I wasn't accepted in the Pumpkin and BJs group, yet. Does that mean I didn't make the cut?

I think the decision was made to hold off on a fb group until later on.

Thanks @LivingLaVidaGinger , I know about the FB group. I'm asking about TB group, Pumpkin Spice and BJ'S.

Patience7150 · November 2016

My fear of letting a catfish into the Facebook group to see my true identity has convinced me to discourage the Facebook group for now, thereby keeping all my comments public for the world to see.

PerraSucia · November 2016

@AfKash I denied you from TB group because I'm still not 100% sure you're a real person and feel like I need to creep on you before I let you all up on my Facebook.

expandcontract · November 2016

Journal Entry:
Day 205

One of them may be on to me.....

die_frau · November 2016

I spent like 10 minutes looking on fb for a pumpkin spice and bjs group. To, obviously, no avail. Thankfully I wasn't doing this search at work, otherwise I would probably get some questions from IT...

skiingstark · November 2016

I give no fucks. Honestly my facebook has my nickname not my real name to make it harder for my middle school students to find me. So I can move to facebook at any point.

Spicyweiner · November 2016

skiingstark said:

I give no fucks. Honestly my facebook has my nickname not my real name to make it harder for my middle school students to find me. So I can move to facebook at any point.

YGpM

Rachelbd · November 2016

So I haven't been on much the past couple weeks, due to some personal issues, followed by vacation with little to no internet access, and then the holiday. But how do I find the private group here on TB?