May 2017 Moms

TW - It's my turn to say bye - hope I'm the last one

Baby looked great on u/s on Saturday afternoon, wiggling and swimming around with a great heart rate, and by Monday night he was gone. Not sure what happened, truly, it just makes no sense. I lost my first pregnancy right about this time as well, so it can't be a coincidence. I had a D&C on Tuesday.

I'm not sure if we will try again, but probably not. It took over 4 years to get PG this time (no charting or medical interventions, but still) and if I wait 4 years again I'll be 42, and that is not happening. It's hard to adjust to the idea of having an only child. It's not how I imagined or wanted my life to go.
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Re: TW - It's my turn to say bye - hope I'm the last one

  • I am so sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. 

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    #2 Due May 2,2017 hopeful VBAC

  • This breaks my heart. Take some time to adjust to the news and give yourself some time and space before you make a final decision on a single child. 
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  • I'm so, so sorry. Please be kind to yourself. 
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  • I am so deeply sorry. Take care of yourself.
  • I'm so so sorry. I hope you find comfort in whatever decision is right for you and your family.
  • I am so sorry you are going through this. Praying for comfort.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this! I feel your pain! I have experienced 2 loses this year and my current pregnancy isn't looking great. I have the same feelings about only having one child and how hard this process can be. Hang in there momma, my heart is with you! 



  • @Abby7 I truly hope you are able to make a decision that you are happy with. I ask that you take care of yourself and dedicate some time to this thought.

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  • I am so so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.
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  • I'm am so sorry.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

    11.2011 - DS1

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    10.2015 - loss at 12 wks

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  • Sending thoughts and prayers.  
  • Oh I am so sorry, I will be thinking about you. <3
    Me: 33 / DH: 35
    Married: Nov 2006
    DD: Sept 2010
    DS: June 2013
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
  • I am so sorry for you and your family
  • I'm so, so sorry.
  • So sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself


  • I'm am so sorry :( Big hugs to you at such a tough time
     
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family. Don't make a decision right away on an only child, take some time to grieve and heal. 
  • I'm so sorry. T&Ps to you and your family. 
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
  • Ugh, I"m so so sorry!!!! :(

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  • I am so incredibly sorry for you.

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  • So sorry to hear this. 
  • I'm sorry to hear this and sorry for your loss.
  •  :'(  sending positive vibes your way

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  • @Abby7 : I'm so very sorry for you. My heart sank before I even opened your post. Sending you thoughts, prayers, and positivity.
  • I am so sorry for your loss, thinking of you and your family. 
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  • Big hugs. I'm so sorry, take care of yourself.
  • I am so truly sorry for your loss.  I know how heartbreaking it is.  Please don't give up hope.  Age is just a number and it may not take another 4 years. My sis and I are 7 years apart with 2 late term losses in between us.  However, if you do decide not to try do not feel bad for having an only child.  My husband is an only child and he has such a sweet relationship with his parents.  My inlaws are amazing grandparents.  He is extra lucky that he doesn't have to share them with other cousins. He has definitely reaped the benefit of being the child of an only child.  There are silver linings to everything.  Take care of yourself and good luck!
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  • Sorry for your loss. 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers sent your way
    Me:33/DH: 34
    Married: July 28, 2012
    DD: July 29, 2013
    DS: July 1, 2015
    Current EDD: May 15, 2017
  • I am so very sorry. :( Hugs. 
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    BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
    BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
    BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
    BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
    BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018


  • I'm so sorry for your loss. HUG.
  • I'm so so sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers for you 
  • I'm so sorry. my friend lost hers around 10 11 weeks last year so I'm still nervous as well. I hope that you can get past this heartbreak
  • I am so very sorry for your loss!  
  • I am so sorry for you loss. I have a friend that I work with and she just lost her second baby in one year both at 13 weeks. She is in her upper 30's. Her new speciality doctor said it was because of her age there is a clotting thing. It is easily preventable with taking baby aspirin from before conception. If she would have know that after her first loss, she wouldn't have lost her second. I would encourage you to see a specialist if you still desire more kids. Good luck with everything and your healing. If you have more questions I would be willing to message her. 
  • I'm so sorry. I hope you find peace with whatever decision is best for you and your family.
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