Thoughts on Frances Jane? DH just brought it up tonight and it seems to be our front runner now. I love it, but would also love to hear your opinions! DD #1 is Charlotte.
I don't agree. Not only is this as much a boy's name as a girls (or more so), it's way too old lady-ish. I have an old lady middle name, and I despised it growing up. Of course your opinion trumps mine, so if you love it go for it, but my opinion is to keep searching.
The McC 3 - DH, (38) Me, (34) and DS (3) A.J.M. - Born 6/11/13 after 17 BFNs including 1 failed IUI. Maybe Baby #2 - Started TTC Feb 2015. Called it quits after 29 cycles.
The more I think about it, the more it grows on me, even though it does at first remind me of an old lady name. Agree with PP that Frances is the feminine version of Francis, and IMO the sound of it is much more feminine than masculine to me. I also like the NN potential and love Jane as a MN.
I don't agree. Not only is this as much a boy's name as a girls (or more so), it's way too old lady-ish. I have an old lady middle name, and I despised it growing up. Of course your opinion trumps mine, so if you love it go for it, but my opinion is to keep searching.
I don't agree. Not only is this as much a boy's name as a girls (or more so), it's way too old lady-ish. I have an old lady middle name, and I despised it growing up. Of course your opinion trumps mine, so if you love it go for it, but my opinion is to keep searching.
You are thinking of Francis.
Are they not pronounced the same?
The McC 3 - DH, (38) Me, (34) and DS (3) A.J.M. - Born 6/11/13 after 17 BFNs including 1 failed IUI. Maybe Baby #2 - Started TTC Feb 2015. Called it quits after 29 cycles.
I lived in Italy and the name Francesca is so popular there. They pronounce it "Frahnchesca" and a common nickname is Franci ("Frahnchi"). I wished we could do it but people would butcher the pronunciation here : (
This is one of my top guilty pleasure names! I never saw Dirty Dancing, my reference is Francie Nolan from A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, one of my favorite books growing up. I could never get DH to agree with it, but I would love a baby Frances/Francie.
Thanks so much everyone! I was a bit hesitant on using it because I'm scared that people think it's too "old ladyish" or that it doesn't match up to Charlotte- I'm happy to see a majority of the responses are positive! I think Franny on a little girl would be adorable too- haven't heard of Francie as a nickname but I'm loving it!
I lived in Italy and the name Francesca is so popular there. They pronounce it "Frahnchesca" and a common nickname is Franci ("Frahnchi"). I wished we could do it but people would butcher the pronunciation here : (
My sister is Francesca (pronounced the Italian way), and it is very rarely mispronounced. It's gained popularity in the US in the last decade or so. Though people do misspell it all the time (though between me and my three sisters, ALL of our names are misspelled constantly, but we're used to that).
I like Frances, though I like Francesca better. We call my sister Franny, so maybe I'm biased but I love the NN.
Re: Frances
DD2: 9/12/13
Baby #3: Due January 2018
A.J.M. - Born 6/11/13 after 17 BFNs including 1 failed IUI.
Maybe Baby #2 - Started TTC Feb 2015. Called it quits after 29 cycles.
baby #4 due March '17!
Also, incidentally, Frances is 100% a girls name. Francis is a boys name.
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A.J.M. - Born 6/11/13 after 17 BFNs including 1 failed IUI.
Maybe Baby #2 - Started TTC Feb 2015. Called it quits after 29 cycles.
Married: 06-2024
TTC #1: Since November 2015
Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
due to previous issues.
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BFP: 11/4/2016
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I would also love telling a tantruming toddler/crazy teenager to, "Lighten up, Frances!" That would never get old for me.
TTC since September 2012
I like Frances, though I like Francesca better. We call my sister Franny, so maybe I'm biased but I love the NN.