So me and my husband have an 8 month old son together and are expecting twins In january. I really don't know how to start off with this post. I'll just start off with I'm really tired of DH'S shit. I know he works his but off and comes home and wants to kick off his shoes drink his beer and relax. Which he does right when he comes home. He has probably only changed 3 diapers since my son was born. He doesn't watch him so I can nap or shower and it's very rare when he does. He can watch me in pain and tired or crying and still won't really budge off his ass and if he does, he does it with an attitude and just to shut me up. He doesn't like to buy me things I need. I need new bras and underwear and some maternity clothes but he gets upset and complains everytime he spends money on me. I'm glad he doesn't complain about spending money on our son. I'm very thankful but sometimes I just need a little something. He also never wants to take me and son out to do stuff. We are lucky if we go to target or the swapmeet. I see the things my brother does for his fiancé. He takes her to do stuff, books hotels and does this all on his own. Also my husband can be an asshole to me. Call me names, tells me hates me. Jokes around and calls me a bitch. I'm just so sick of it. I don't want to end my marriage but he's hanging on the last string. If he's of no help with my 2 new sons. I seriously think I should just leave but I'm also scared that he will get so depressed, quit his job and become an addict or alcoholic. He has that personality type. And has turned to this before he was ever with me. I don't want my kids to think their mother never tried. I'm just so stuck and don't know what to do? What would you moms do? Is this normal? Do your husband's help?