Suggestions

Autumnale

The only boy name DH and I can agree on is Rhett. Middle name will be Alfred. It is a family name. 
Girl names are harder. I like Georgia, Eve, Ivy. DH likes Abigail. Middle name will most likely be Patricia. 

bbiutmcph

We used Alfred as a mn too. Rhett is nms but nice I also like it as a nn for Everett. 

With your girl names and your DHs it seems pretty similar in style suggesting

Amelia
Audrey or Audra
Evelyn
Estella or Estelle
Annabelle
Corrine
CorA
Felicity
Daphne
Dahlia

ashleyandely

I like Rhett. 

For girls, suggesting Vivian, Veda, Isla, Iris, Mila, Lillian, Leila, Caroline, Charlotte, Gabriella, Julia.

I love Ivy Patricia. 

ETA: I just thought of Sylvia, too! 

Latina211508

Rhett is ok. 
Suggestions for girl names; Iris, Camilla(e), Mia, Valentina, Cora, Corinna.  

fghmama6701

I love rhett!