TTC After a Loss

****september two week wait***

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Re: ****september two week wait***

  • @waitingforblueskies Congratulations on the BFP!!
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  • Woohoo, we finally got someone! Congrats to you @waitingforblueskies!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • congrats @waitingforblueskies!!! happy and healthy 9 months to you
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • When I saw 24 missed messages over here I prayed so hard it meant we finally have a BFP in our group. I will invite you right away @waitingforblueskies
    they are a great group and can help you through any anxiety. 

    Congrats!!
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.16
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: 50mg Trigger 8.24.2016- BFN
    Clomid 75mg + IUI#1 9.25.2016- BFP #4 10/6
    Beta #1 15   Beta #2 38    Beta #3- 71     beta #4 171   Beta # 5- 21  Natural MC 10/21
    HSG- clear
    IVF Jan 2017
    Egg Retrieval 1.22.17: 32 eggs retrieved,29 mature, 24 fertilized, 14 to blastocyst for biopsy
    PGS results: 4 PGS normal 2 XX, 2 XY
    FET: 3.13.2017 for 2 PGS embryos
    Beta#1: 3.24.2017......... 78; Beta # 2 241; Beta #3 4198
    Baby BOY due 11.29.2017






  • Congrats @waitingforblueskies!!!! The grad group can give you great advice for managing anxiety! Fingers crossed this is your rainbow!
  • Congrats @waitingforblueskies! So happy for you.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • 1DPO here, let the obsessing begin...

    Congrats @waitingforblueskies!!

    I have to say, love all of the support form this group <3

    I am so blessed to have the love of my life, my DH, est. November 2008.

    BFP#1 Nov 2014, Missed MC at 11w, D&C on 01/06/2015

    BFP#2 Sept 2015, Missed MC at 6w, Methotrexate injection 3/25/16, released from Doc 5/17/16

    BFP#3 Oct 2016, Chemical

  • Fingers crossed so hard for you @roxgibbons!!!
  • Yay @waitingforblueskies awesome news!!!! Congratulations and best wishes!!!!
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Congrats and love & light @waitingforblueskies ! Breathe deeply! :)<3
  • Y'all are all old pros, so it may be useless or already quite familiar, but someone posted a link to this site on the IF board, and I like its format, so I thought I would share.

    https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/tools/implantation_calculator.php


    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • Congratulations @waitingforblueskies!!! Happy dance!!!!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Hey @fivetimesnoluck that is very helpful!! I am only 2dpo so I have some days to wait ... 
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • @waitingforblueskies Yesssssssss!!!!!!!!!

    This totally made my day, my week, my month. I'm all choked up in a diner with happiness for you. Sending the best of my everything your way.
  • I thought I said it, but I don't see anything besides my love tit, so let me add my congratulations to @waitingforblueskies! You give us all hope! :) Very happy for you!

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • @yolandamunoz I was actually surprised that 9 DPO is most common for implantation. That is later than I had thought. I learn something new all the damn time. :)

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • I am 7dpo and I want to POAS but I know there is no point...it's like flushing $10 down the toilet.  I just had a bad run-in with an old pregnant friend and her kids and now I want to allow myself to feel so angry and frustrated.
  • Yes @fivetimesnoluck it is so crazy, that we are starting our TWW, just hanging around, walking, working, eating... and deep inside, that wonderful thing could be happening!!!
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • @waitingforblueskies Don't hold your breath--you gotta keep that peanut oxygenated! ;)
  • Aera11 said:
    I am 7dpo and I want to POAS but I know there is no point...it's like flushing $10 down the toilet.  I just had a bad run-in with an old pregnant friend and her kids and now I want to allow myself to feel so angry and frustrated.
    Run to Wal-Mart and grab a few $.88 tests. That way you can test as much as you want and not waste as much money!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • Aera11 said:
    I am 7dpo and I want to POAS but I know there is no point...it's like flushing $10 down the toilet.  I just had a bad run-in with an old pregnant friend and her kids and now I want to allow myself to feel so angry and frustrated.
    Run to Wal-Mart and grab a few $.88 tests. That way you can test as much as you want and not waste as much money!
    I did that, and I keep testing and keep getting BFN lol I don't learn and I went to the dollar tree to get more of those ones hahaha!
  • So excited to see a BFP here  <3 Congratulations @waitingforblueskies!
    Me: 28 DH: 26
    Married: November 2015  3 
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17
    DD Born 06/23/17 3
    TFAS: April 2018
    BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP
    BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19


  • 12dpo, temp drop, BFN. The problem with getting so hopeful is that the disappointment is 100x worse. DH always gets upset with me when I'm negative so I've tried to be better but it does hurt a little less when you've been preparing for a BFN the whole time.

    Hoping for better luck for others <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • MimoCaMimoCa member
    edited September 2016
    @SoonToBeMommaHowe awe sorry for the BFN again :(

    Decided to test again and BFN. At this point I expect a BFN going forward. 
  • @soontobemommahowe @mimoca I'm sorry for more BFNs. I had a temp drop today, too so I didn't even test after yesterday's negative. 

    I gave myself yesterday to be sad/angry/upset that this was my last cycle before my EDD in October. Even though I knew that chances weren't in my favor, it hurt more than my past months of BFNs. But today is a new day and hopefully CD 1 of another cycle and I've gotta just keep swimming. Hugs to you guys <3 
  • @szwill86 Awe sorry! :( but here's to hope in the horizon ♡♡♡
  • chloe97chloe97 member
    edited September 2016
    So sorry @szwill86 @mimoca @SoonToBeMommaHowe. I hoping our O-days match up again next cycle because you all were a wonderful support team! Onward to next cycle! No temp drops yet here at 13DPO and I have these long LPs so I'm hoping tomorrow is Cd 1, but FF is telling me it's Friday.
  • Thanks ladies and sorry to you as well that this wasn't our month. Maybe October!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @chloe97 my CD1 is showing Friday as well in FF. when is your typical O day? I'm a 17-19 O girls so I don't usually stay cycle buddies with anyone for very long but you're right this group was great so im hoping we're all in it together next cycle 
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • I'm sitting at the lab next to some 20-something drinking the juice for her glucose test.

    BFN on a wondfo this morning, so this is just a formality. 

    Ugh. 

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe I'm a 17-19 day O girl as well. The cycle before this, I O'd around 14-16, so I'm hoping to O that early again, but not sure that will happen.
  • My CD1 is suppose to be Sat so hopefully it's is so I can start fresh!
  • So sorry @fivetimesnoluck <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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