Sad News....

alemarie1

Hello, went for an ultrasound today (12W6D) to follow up on abnormal Paneroma results... The Paneroma suspected tripliody or vanishing twin. 
My ultrasound was perfect, baby measuring above average, beautiful nuctal translucency, no defects, good heartbeat....

Then comes the bad news.... I have abnormal cells in part of my placenta, they think its either the tripliody or a molar pregnancy.... I'm going for a CVS test to confirm the result... This is awful, I keep on holding on hope that everything will work it's self out but the doctors are not hopeful...  It made it worse seeing the baby today and holding on hope for a healthy pregnancy... Docs said the molar can cause cancer and that we have to wait a year to try to conceive. .I'm heartbroken...This is me and DH first baby, and I am 33 years old...

Gingersnap

If it's a molar pregnancy, will your current baby be fine? 
Im sorry you are dealing with this heartache. 

birdiejo

I am so sorry. I'm holding out hope for better news with the CVS. Please keep us posted.

NiceyMeany

So sorry to hear about this.  Best of luck with further testing.

WinchesterGirl

So sorry to see this. Is there any chance of a good outcome for this baby?  Praying for you! 

joyful08

I'm so sorry you are going through this! Keep us updated. We will be praying for you. 

BumpasaurusRex

I'm so sorry.  Keeping you in my thoughts!

blush64

I am sorry you are going through this. 

Xstatic3333

I'm so sorry for your tough news. 

jab3-2

I'm so sorry. Are they absolutely 100 percent sure this isn't going to work out though or is there still hope and they're just not too optimistic about it? I wrote a big long thing about someone I'm very close to going through this, but depending on the outcome of your specific situation you may or may not want to hear about it so I deleted for now. Please let me know what happens though and if you do want to talk. Either way, I'm so sorry that you have to face this right now. I really hope somehow it ends up being okay. When do you go for the CVS test?

PerraSucia

fuck I hope your baby is okay and you don't get cancer

Starfish113

I'm so sorry. I hope there is still a chance for you that it can turn out okay!! Let us know ::creepy internet hugs::

yogadevil

I am so sorry you are in my thoughts, we are all pulling for you!

poofwok

So sorry! Keeping you in my T&P's! 

fourPsinapod

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Hugs and prayers

bdesterhouse

I'm so sorry.

expandcontract

I'm so sorry about all this.  I am sending you my thoughts and prayers.  Big hugs to you.

MrsDramaK

I'm really sorry to hear this.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  Hope it all works out.

kswiger06

I'm sorry that you are going through this. I'm praying for optistimistic results after further testing. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

alemarie1

Thank you everyone! The CVS is tomorrow then 2 days to wait in agony..  Praying for a miracle

annewheeler2

Sending prayers! I'm so sorry 

foxrosy

I'm so sorry you are going through this. You and baby are in my prayers. Sending positive thoughts!

mamajama3

Sending love and light your way and hoping to hear good news after your next appointment mama *hugs*

Partyof6?

I am so sorry.   I am hoping for the best possible outcome for you.   

Vastra

All the hugs and best thoughts.

kerris713

So sorry. I hope everything works out for your family

scifichick09

That is so scary. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Lots of hugs and love.

kirstynikole

I'm so sorry that you are going through this! Please keep us updated and I will continue to pray for you in the meantime. Sending love. 

skiingstark

So sorry I hope everything works out. 

laurenmichael725

I'm so sorry to hear this.  Prayers your way for good news after the CVS.

L Jane

I am so sorry. Unfortunately, I had the EXACT Paneroma test results. It came back "increased risk of vanishing twin or triploidy". There was absolutely no evidence of there ever having been a vanishing twin, so triploidy is the fear. Like you, I had an ultrasound at a fetal medicine specialist. Everything looked okay on ultrasound. I then had a CVS this past Monday. I'm currently waiting for the results. It's devastating because triploidy is fatal and incompatible with life. I have an awful gut feeling about everything but of course am hoping for the best. Feel free to PM me if you need to talk to someone going through a similar situation. 

Partyof6?

L Jane I can't tag you, but sending good thoughts your way too.

Aussie45

I'm sorry you & L Jane are going through this. Sending T&Ps your guy's way that everything works out! :hugs:

kswiger06

@ljane I hadn't realized you were going through it too. Keeping you both in my prayers.

lfrank12

@alemarie1 and @ljane I'm so sorry both of you are going through this. Sending my thoughts and prayers your way

L Jane

Thanks guys. I'm sure @alemarie1 and others in a similar situation will agree that the waiting & unknown is so hard. I'm at the point where I feel I've come to terms with the prospect that this pregnancy may not be able to continue...its the being in limbo and waiting for answers that's so difficult right now. 

The strange thing is, I didn't have these tests with my other 3 children. I pretty much just assumed everything would be ok based on ultrasound and the routine checks. I'm 32 & low risk so I'm technically not someone the test would even be offered to. I asked my OB about the quad screen and she offered this. 

birdiejo

L Jane, I'm sorry you're going through this ,the waiting must be awful. I hope you get your answers soon. 

Starfish113

@ljane I'm so sorry and I hope both of you get positive news soon ❤️

WinchesterGirl

@ljane Praying for you! Waiting sucks - keep us posted when you get your results!

becks13-2

I'm very sorry to hear this for the both of you. Waiting is such a scary thing at times and of course is never easy. I really do hope you both have a plethora of love and support surrounding you, and that you will come through this scary time. Even though the doctors don't hold hope fingers are absolutely crossed over here as well.

Gretchypoo

@ljane and @alemarie1 I'm so sorry you are going through this. my thoughts are with you and your families. *hugs*