I am 43 and my husband is 42. We have been TTC for close to a year with no success. We learned recently that he has a low sperm count and low motility so he is cutting down (then stopping) the nicotine mints that he takes along with us both taking supplements. I never wanted to move to IUI/IVF but it is looking like that will give us our best chances. We have an apt. with the RE next week to ask questions, talk about next steps, etc. This is a difficult journey so I am wondering what people do to not get too obsessed/overly consumed with TTC. Are there other older ladies on here TTC? What has worked?