Update: An attorney from Legal Aid called FI and is going to take his case for custody!!! Perfect timing too, we've been having a rough day today. Monday he does a phone interview, and then sets up a meeting!
I'm not 100% sure why I'm crying maybe it's just hormones but here's whats going on my husband is always complaining we never do things as a family now that was because I was really sick for the first 12 weeks and before that I had a ruptured achillies i was in physio and it was hard to walk. So fast foward to the last 3 weeks every night my husband is either at his friends or has people here most nights I'm asleep before he even gets in other nights I end up watching Netflix alone. I feel neglected and left out like he would rather spend time with anyone but me. Yesterday I found a free event for kids so I asked him if he would like to come with me and 2 of our kids that we have this week. He said no and yes it upset me. So my son and I went and installed Pokemon Go and played it after the even till my phone died I didn't want to go home and sit alone. Like I said I may be hormonal but I've been crying over this a lot the last few days. Sorry so long.
@Mintz1982 I am feeling the same way right now. My husband has hung out every weekend Til late at night with his friends pretty much, and I go to bed and watch a movie. Tonight I had planned a dinner out and we were going to hang out, but he ended up being really drunk and fell asleep during the movie. I'm going to talk to him about it tomorrow, but feeling pretty crappy and lonely at the moment.
Me:33 DH: 34 Married: May 2011 TTC #1: May 2015 DS: 10/20/2016 TTC #2: June 2019 #2 EDD: 2/20/2020
Just heard from one of my best friends who has been really distant from me since I've become pregnant. Long story short, she's in her 40's, TTC on her own and it's been a rough journey for her. I knew when I became pregnant it wasn't going to be easy to tell her and I knew this would affect our friendship. It shouldn't have and I would have never done this to her. But I'm not that type of person. But I know she's been struggling so I backed off. Especially after all the snark I was getting from her. Which she did apologize for, but after that we really didn't talk much. It hurt and I was sad that she wasn't apart of this with me. She's been apart of all my big moments. So this morning she wrote me and told me she loved and misses me and it's been too long and we need to talk. She's looking forward to my shower. I just lost it. I didn't realize how much I missed her till I read that. I'm hoping that we can find our way back to where we once were, but I just don't know...
Married 11-11-11 TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year. BFP 02-15-16 with our first IT'S A BOY!!!
@Mintz1982 & @ibabyloveb87 so sorry to hear your stories. I would be so upset too. Hope your DH's come around and realize how much they are needed right now and how much we as pregnant MTB are feeling.
Married 11-11-11 TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year. BFP 02-15-16 with our first IT'S A BOY!!!
@sportiegrl1213 Yeah, I totally get this. My colleague and good friend was due July 20, and had literally every complication ever. In the beginning she was talking to all of us all the time. When I found out I was pregnant she was so happy and we really bonded over it. But as her symptoms got worse and worse (she was put on bed rest at 12 weeks) and I didn't develop any, she started pulling away and only talking to the other girls. She ended up going into labor at 27 weeks and delivered at 28 and has not responded to one thing I've sent since then. I completely understand why it is painful for her to hear about my easy pregnancy, but I want to be there for her. Also I am now at exactly the point she was when she went into labor and a short note would mean a lot to me. Her baby is alive but will have lifelong complications and I really hope we can be close again and our kiddos can be friends!
Thinking about that just made me cry. Also, I watched my first birth documentary today. It wasn't even good but when those babies were born I had ALL THE TEARS.
@ibabyloveb87 it just totally sucks! We don't deserve this kind of treatment from these friends. Ugh. I'm so annoyed, sad, pissed off and every emotion. It's not our fault and we shouldn't be punished for being happily pregnant. And I STUGGLED to get here myself. It wasn't easy for me and DH to have a baby. Which she knew. So I just don't get it. I guess some people handle things differently. I just would have handled this in a totally different way.
Married 11-11-11 TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year. BFP 02-15-16 with our first IT'S A BOY!!!
@ibabyloveb87 mine has just not been around I tried talking to him it works for about 24 hours then he does it again so I give up he can figure out on his own at this point.
Because DH drank the entire grapefruit shandy before I realized and I wanted a sip before he was done. Thanks hormones for making me look like an idiot lol
Oh... And bc it happened while I was cleaning up our disaster of a house.... Which was stressing me out. DH was kind of amazing and actually offered to go buy more so I could have a sip. I declined bc I realized I was being ridiculous
Because DD has orientation for her first year of school, big girl school, on the 21st and LO is turning One on the 29th and he just sprouted 3 new teeth out of nowhere... my babies are growing too fast!
DH took DS out to my favorite restaurant for lunch while I was at work very near to when I'd be getting off. I text him and ask him what he got me because I always get him stuff when I go, and he said nothing and that he had already left. Damnit. I had cold, leftover chicken for lunch and cried while eating it.
My 2014 BMB FB group imploded after 2 years. Theres still a handful of us in a smaller group, but the crazy came out and made our message boards look tame. Someone hold me.
Married to DH for 6 years (together for 16) DS born 12.13.14 DD born 10.15.16 BFP 1.24.18, MC 3.13.18 BFP 4.25.19, EDD 12.31.19
My 2014 BMB FB group imploded after 2 years. Theres still a handful of us in a smaller group, but the crazy came out and made our message boards look tame. Someone hold me.
WHAT HAPPENED? lol I was D14 but never joined the FB group (obvi).
I caught the auditions of America's Got Talent... I don't even watch the show lol
I cried when people got in! I still can't figure it out haha
*edited to add
This EXACT scenario happened to me last week! Lol... DH caught me getting teary eyed and asked. I lied and said it was bc of the hard day I had at work. I did have a hard day, but definitely wasn't tearing up bc of that. I just didn't want him to make fun of me for crying over something so ridiculous lol
My 2014 BMB FB group imploded after 2 years. Theres still a handful of us in a smaller group, but the crazy came out and made our message boards look tame. Someone hold me.
WHAT HAPPENED? lol I was D14 but never joined the FB group (obvi).
It was a really amazing group, that after ~2 years formed some amazing bonds. But the crazy came out and some just wouldn't stop over the course of the last 2 weeks. Some of the crap made our boards look SOOOOOO freaking boring. We have a smaller group now formed, but the FB page is being deleted tomorrow. I'm ridiculously sad about this lol. A few of us are pregnant again and all the sad pregnant lady hormones are making it worse.
Married to DH for 6 years (together for 16) DS born 12.13.14 DD born 10.15.16 BFP 1.24.18, MC 3.13.18 BFP 4.25.19, EDD 12.31.19
I'm waiting at labcorp as usual and, in addition to being really hungry since I woke up this morning, they have the news on talking all about the Trump campaign, and I'm just so horrified by his whole campaign and the people who seriously think it's a good idea to support him that I actually am tearing up. That feeling that nothing's right in the world...
My 2014 BMB FB group imploded after 2 years. Theres still a handful of us in a smaller group, but the crazy came out and made our message boards look tame. Someone hold me.
WHAT HAPPENED? lol I was D14 but never joined the FB group (obvi).
It was a really amazing group, that after ~2 years formed some amazing bonds. But the crazy came out and some just wouldn't stop over the course of the last 2 weeks. Some of the crap made our boards look SOOOOOO freaking boring. We have a smaller group now formed, but the FB page is being deleted tomorrow. I'm ridiculously sad about this lol. A few of us are pregnant again and all the sad pregnant lady hormones are making it worse.
was this the FB group that formed after the babycenter invasion?
I was reorganizing my necklaces and they got tangles. Almost tears. My DH has been keeping me up with his snoring after I wake up in the middle of the night to pee. I had to move into the guest room after poking him a bunch of times. Guilt and tears.
I failed my GD test so now I have to take the three hour test next week with fasting before, and the thought of not eating for 15 hours makes me want to cry. im also anemic, which they forgot to call and tell me about, so I was surprised by the prescription notification from my pharmacy. Seriously?
@ashleyp625 sorry girl. I'm sure you'll pass the 3 hr and be good to go!
Married 11-11-11 TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year. BFP 02-15-16 with our first IT'S A BOY!!!
I cried last night so hard bc SO goes to AA every night. I know it is good for him and good for us in the long run, but I was being very selfish and having a temper tantrum about needing more time with him. WAH
@ashleyp625 sorry girl. I'm sure you'll pass the 3 hr and be good to go!
I sure hope so! My dad has adult onset diabetes, and I'm hoping that doesn't have something to do with this. I was too rattled to ask how badly I failed.
Aw, @ashleyp625 I'm sorry. I'm currently waiting anxiously on my results - and almost expecting them to say I failed. (I always think the worst). I'm sure you'll pass the 3 hour one!!
Re: #Whymypregnantselfiscrying - July 2016
Sorry so long.
DH: 34
Married: May 2011
TTC #1: May 2015
DS: 10/20/2016
TTC #2: June 2019
#2 EDD: 2/20/2020
TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year.
BFP 02-15-16 with our first
IT'S A BOY!!!
TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year.
BFP 02-15-16 with our first
IT'S A BOY!!!
Thinking about that just made me cry. Also, I watched my first birth documentary today. It wasn't even good but when those babies were born I had ALL THE TEARS.
DS#2 due 25 April 2019
TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year.
BFP 02-15-16 with our first
IT'S A BOY!!!
We talked it out this morning. I cried again. We made up. It's all good now I think! He didn't seem to realize how I had been feeling at all.
DH: 34
Married: May 2011
TTC #1: May 2015
DS: 10/20/2016
TTC #2: June 2019
#2 EDD: 2/20/2020
Oh... And bc it happened while I was cleaning up our disaster of a house.... Which was stressing me out. DH was kind of amazing and actually offered to go buy more so I could have a sip. I declined bc I realized I was being ridiculous
Married to DH for 6 years (together for 16)
DS born 12.13.14
DD born 10.15.16
BFP 1.24.18, MC 3.13.18
I cried when people got in! I still can't figure it out haha
*edited to add
Married to DH for 6 years (together for 16)
DS born 12.13.14
DD born 10.15.16
BFP 1.24.18, MC 3.13.18
My DH has been keeping me up with his snoring after I wake up in the middle of the night to pee. I had to move into the guest room after poking him a bunch of times. Guilt and tears.
BFP: 8/20/2018 - EDD 5/4/2019
TTC only since Dec 2015. I had some weight to get off. Been working hard in the gym for over a year.
BFP 02-15-16 with our first
IT'S A BOY!!!
DH: 34
Married: May 2011
TTC #1: May 2015
DS: 10/20/2016
TTC #2: June 2019
#2 EDD: 2/20/2020