I always wanted two, but the first few months were so hard, I thought maybe one and done. Now I'm back to wanting two. DH has only ever wanted one though and I'm not getting any younger, so we'll see.
When my baby is being sweet he's got me wanting ten of him, I need to keep reminding myself the next baby won't be him lol
This made me chuckle. My son was so great. He refused to sleep, literally up from 7 am to 11 pm every day without a nap. But he was a happy baby. My 7 month old little girl? Not the case. Major digestion issues, reflux to the max, sassy, and needy! Definitely not the same baby.
@Caressa1 Wow, congratulations! Were you on the mini pill? Did you take it at the same time every day? You must have been shocked! But what a happy surprise
@mamadcb yes, I was on the mini pill. I was taking it between 7:30-8 every night so it wasn't always at the EXACT same time but I thought it was close enough! We are very happy though! I wanted my children close in age, I just didn't think they would be this close
I'm a risk taker...I am ebf and pump 3 times a day while at work and not on birth control. We have sex like twice a day. My son will be 8 months on the 27th and I still have not gotten my period. I can't be surprised when I end up pregnant again.lol I have 7 years between my 2 now. So good luck to those who are actively trying.
@mrsgetz4000 and @nackie sometimes I ask myself the same question. Lol To be honest I definitely don't always want to. I am so damn tired! But he has needs and I just try and make him happy. He has been neglected since the new baby so I do what I can. But we have an agreement it's supposed to be every morning and every night. Sometimes that doesn't happen so it might be in the middle of the night or when the baby is occupied with his sister or whenever.
@mrsgetz4000 and @nackie sometimes I ask myself the same question. Lol To be honest I definitely don't always want to. I am so damn tired! But he has needs and I just try and make him happy. He has been neglected since the new baby so I do what I can. But we have an agreement it's supposed to be every morning and every night. Sometimes that doesn't happen so it might be in the middle of the night or when the baby is occupied with his sister or whenever.
I would definitely say your husband is far from being 'neglected' if he is getting laid twice a day and even in the middle of the night! If my hubs even remotely suggested MOTN sex I would probably die laughing!
But we have an agreement it's supposed to be every morning and every night.
Holy cow, your husband is a lucky man! We have an agreement right now that it's 1-2 times a WEEK. (Though, I am still having issues with pain/discomfort, so that's part of it, but the other part is time/exhaustion/I just don't feel like it right now. Lol.)
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@mamadcb yes, I was on the mini pill. I was taking it between 7:30-8 every night so it wasn't always at the EXACT same time but I thought it was close enough! We are very happy though! I wanted my children close in age, I just didn't think they would be this close
To be honest I definitely don't always want to. I am so damn tired! But he has needs and I just try and make him happy. He has been neglected since the new baby so I do what I can. But we have an agreement it's supposed to be every morning and every night. Sometimes that doesn't happen so it might be in the middle of the night or when the baby is occupied with his sister or whenever.