Oh my. I don't understand so many comments that are not nice. I don't understand as my husband assured me many women have a boyfriend as well as a husband. He also has a girlfriend. I thought this was a common thing. But even if not I don't see why people are being rude about it. I am sorry if I offend. That was not what I mean to do. I am simply asking a question.
Well if you're lucky MAYBE your husband will knock up his girlfriend too and you can ask her about the "pregnant and philandering" protocol? She might know better than us?
Awesome Kid #1: Born September 2013! Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!
Oh my. I don't understand so many comments that are not nice. I don't understand as my husband assured me many women have a boyfriend as well as a husband. He also has a girlfriend. I thought this was a common thing. But even if not I don't see why people are being rude about it. I am sorry if I offend. That was not what I mean to do. I am simply asking a question.
@Ymfbol It's also slightly odd that you created your account a week ago and before introducing yourself in the specific thread or anything you just toss out this grenade of a topic. You didn't build up any relationships in here or any kind of legitimacy. This is a community, not just a place to pop in once and drop that metaphorical bomb on us (regardless of how entertaining it is). Maybe introduce yourself in the proper thread and give us something more realistic (not saying you are or aren't lying) to grasp on to. Just a thought.
Oh my. I don't understand so many comments that are not nice. I don't understand as my husband assured me many women have a boyfriend as well as a husband. He also has a girlfriend. I thought this was a common thing. But even if not I don't see why people are being rude about it. I am sorry if I offend. That was not what I mean to do. I am simply asking a question.
You just answered your own question. If you can easily defend your actions, that's "appropriate" enough.
@ymfbol Didn't you say that the reason you had a boyfriend was because your husband couldn't fulfill your needs as much as you'd like? Why then would he also have a girlfriend....?
@ymfbol Didn't you say that the reason you had a boyfriend was because your husband couldn't fulfill your needs as much as you'd like? Why then would he also have a girlfriend....?
This^^ OP your story doesn't add up which further leads to the conclusion that you're a troll. If you have a boyfriend because your husband can't keep up with you then how is he keeping up with a girlfriend too? Sounds to me like you're here to stir up drama. You really should work on a better story of you want anyone to believe you.
Very interesting. Well, I don't want to judge your lifestyle nor anyone else that chooses to have a husband and a boyfriend while being pregnant. All I can say is, do you, but this is not the place to ask these types of questions. Is it inappropriate? You may have some women who are going to cheer you on and some women who are going to think that you are disgusting. I could care less what you do, but thank you for the entertainment. I just feel bad for your little one. Will it effect your baby? Please be smart enough to talk to your doctor. We dont know your husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, or family member that you are having sex with so they can have an std and that can effect your baby.
BFP #1 10/30/15 MMC found 11/30/15 D&C 12/11/15 EDD 7/9/16 BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16 BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that’s ok, that’s ok, darling. you are still healing, you are still healing- Ijeoma Umebinyuo, be gentle with yourself
I feel that you all are perhaps interested in my question otherwise you would not keep making comments. If you really do not like my comments then you can just ignore. Anyway I am breaking up with my husband. He is more interested in his girlfriend and I feel perhaps I can make do with just my boyfriend.
I feel that you all are perhaps interested in my question otherwise you would not keep making comments. If you really do not like my comments then you can just ignore. Anyway I am breaking up with my husband. He is more interested in his girlfriend and I feel perhaps I can make do with just my boyfriend.
I feel that you all are perhaps interested in my question otherwise you would not keep making comments. If you really do not like my comments then you can just ignore. Anyway I am breaking up with my husband. He is more interested in his girlfriend and I feel perhaps I can make do with just my boyfriend.
I am sorry so many of you are so offended and judgement of my lifestyle. Perhaps if you also had a boyfriend you would not all be so mean and ready to harass other pregnant women for their choices.
I am sorry so many of you are so offended and judgement of my lifestyle. Perhaps if you also had a boyfriend you would not all be so mean and ready to harass other pregnant women for their choices.
I am sorry so many of you are so offended and judgement of my lifestyle. Perhaps if you also had a boyfriend you would not all be so mean and ready to harass other pregnant women for their choices.
Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016 TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
So, Cliff's Notes version: Is this inappropriate? IDK, maybe. Ask your husband/boyfriend. They both know, I want your opinion. Opinion. OMG - why did you give me your opinion?
BTW - I think everyone knows/assumes this is just MUD, so...
Is anyone else grossed out/concerned about the amount of STDs being passed around in this imaginary love quadrangle? And said STDs harming hypothetical fetus? No? Just me?
It is obviously fake, but I kinda hope that OP is not really a pregnant woman. Who would enjoy spending time and energy on such non-sense, maybe a teenager ?
If this is real my question to you is, is your boyfriend also seeing other women? If so, and not that he would necessarily tell you since you can't demand someone be monogamous with you when you don't extend the same courtesy. There is a risk to your baby if he's sleeping with other women that may have stds. So not only is it inappropriate in my eyes but if you contract certain stds it can absolutely be detrimental to your baby's health. So is getting extra sex really worth it to you?
Re: Inappropriate?
Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!
Will it effect your baby? Please be smart enough to talk to your doctor. We dont know your husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, or family member that you are having sex with so they can have an std and that can effect your baby.
BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019
Solid 7.5 / 10 trolling.
Is this inappropriate?
IDK, maybe. Ask your husband/boyfriend.
They both know, I want your opinion.
Opinion.
OMG - why did you give me your opinion?
BTW - I think everyone knows/assumes this is just MUD, so...
Low progesterone
Baby boy born 01/2016
Currently: NTNP
If so, and not that he would necessarily tell you since you can't demand someone be monogamous with you when you don't extend the same courtesy.
There is a risk to your baby if he's sleeping with other women that may have stds.
So not only is it inappropriate in my eyes but if you contract certain stds it can absolutely be detrimental to your baby's health.
So is getting extra sex really worth it to you?