edit: I finally found words. So, like, this is probably not a real question. And on the off chance it is, I think we all agree having sex while pregnant is a non-issue (normally). So is the question "will having an affair hurt my baby?"
Not a certified psychologist, so I guess I'll have to sit this one out.
I mean, assuming that no one has STDs, why would it hurt the baby any more if you have two partners than one? A peen is a peen.
Inappropriate? Probably, unless you're in an open relationship, in which case, rock on. That sounds like a lot more work than just investing in a good toy though.
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healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that’s ok, that’s ok, darling. you are still healing, you are still healing- Ijeoma Umebinyuo, be gentle with yourself
Think they'd be up for some good ol' double penetration? That's the pregnancy dream, right there. Try to find a third guy, and you can blow him while the other two are doing the DP.
I've probably been on The Bump longer than you have.
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My husband knows. He doesn't have a problem with me having sex with my boyfriend as they are close friends also. The baby is my husbands. I thought people might find it inappropriate and was worried about this. I would not have sex with them at the same time. I would not find this enjoyable although I have not tried it yet.
My husband knows. He doesn't have a problem with me having sex with my boyfriend as they are close friends also. The baby is my husbands. I thought people might find it inappropriate and was worried about this. I would not have sex with them at the same time. I would not find this enjoyable although I have not tried it yet.
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I am not an internet troll please stop saying that. I am having an issue with this question and wanted to get advice from other pregnant women. I was thinking most pregnant women would stop having sex with their boyfriend when pregnant.
I am not an internet troll please stop saying that. I am having an issue with this question and wanted to get advice from other pregnant women. I was thinking most pregnant women would stop having sex with their boyfriend when pregnant.
Most pregnant women don't have a husband and a boyfriend. You might want to try a different site for more support on this question.
I am not an internet troll please stop saying that. I am having an issue with this question and wanted to get advice from other pregnant women. I was thinking most pregnant women would stop having sex with their boyfriend when pregnant.
Most pregnant women don't have a husband and a boyfriend. You might want to try a different site for more support on this question.
I am not questioning your sexual escapades in the slightest, however it does seem that you may be the only one in this dilemma as none of the compadres have given you a "suitable" response. I would suggest you try elsewhere for more expertise to your current situation.
Please reserve your judgements on people being mean here. We're all honest. And this being your only contribution to the community in the 4 days you've been signed up means that you don't know what to expect from us.
If you felt we would find it inappropriate why did you ask then? We can't tell you what is or is not okay. This is a decision between yourself and your husband and to be honest, we don't need to hear about your sex life.
I am not trying to be judgemental. Sorry if you felt that. But I don't understand why people are answering with sarcastic pictures.
I don't understand what the question is. You know it's not going to hurt the baby. You ask if it's "inappropriate" but say your husband knows, and everyone involved is happy with the situation. I'm sure a lot of people deem open relationships to be "inappropriate" but you've already crossed that bridge long ago and I'm sure have made peace with that. Why would that change just because you're pregnant?
And if you thought this really wouldn't go down without at least a little bit of sarcasm, I mean
BFP #1 10/30/15 MMC found 11/30/15 D&C 12/11/15 EDD 7/9/16 BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16 BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that’s ok, that’s ok, darling. you are still healing, you are still healing- Ijeoma Umebinyuo, be gentle with yourself
Why do you care what other people think about this particular situation? Do you go around advertising it IRL? Seriously, I don't understand why you're asking. That's obviously a private matter, and if all parties involved are aware and consenting, then you don't really need outside input. Coming to an internet forum to ask this question just screams Attention Whore... or Troll, which is why you're seeing the sarcastic comments and gifs.
If none of that is clear, here's another answer for you... no one cares! Don't advertise.
Oh this is and will always be my favorite post for the entire existence of this BMB (troll or not)! So many comments and eye rolls... I hope we see a birth announcement with both "dads" lol
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Oh my. I don't understand so many comments that are not nice. I don't understand as my husband assured me many women have a boyfriend as well as a husband. He also has a girlfriend. I thought this was a common thing. But even if not I don't see why people are being rude about it. I am sorry if I offend. That was not what I mean to do. I am simply asking a question.
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Re: Inappropriate?
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Why limit yourself to two partners?
Edited because words.
edit: I finally found words. So, like, this is probably not a real question. And on the off chance it is, I think we all agree having sex while pregnant is a non-issue (normally). So is the question "will having an affair hurt my baby?"
Not a certified psychologist, so I guess I'll have to sit this one out.
Inappropriate? Probably, unless you're in an open relationship, in which case, rock on. That sounds like a lot more work than just investing in a good toy though.
BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
These guys give the seal of approval...
Think they'd be up for some good ol' double penetration? That's the pregnancy dream, right there. Try to find a third guy, and you can blow him while the other two are doing the DP.
After 31 cycles, baby boy K (IUI) born 11/03/11
BFP (Femara) - 08/09/13 m/c around 6 weeks. xoxox Baby April
Rainbow baby girl E (Femara) born 11/16/16
As soon as I saw you, I knew an adventure was going to happen - Winnie the Pooh
Married 8/22/09
Pregnancy 1- EDD 11/21/10 NMC @ 6 weeks
Pregnancy 2 - Rainbow DS born 1/15/11
Pregnancy 3 - EDD 5/2/14 NMC @ 6 weeks 9/4/13
Pregnancy 4 - EDD 6/11/14 BO @ 9 weeks D&C 11/8/13
AF arrived 12/18/13
BENCH IS BURNED 2/2014
TTA until May/June
WOW!!! I'm pregnant!!! BFP 6/8/14 Rainbow on the way EDD 2/14/15
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Please reserve your judgements on people being mean here. We're all honest. And this being your only contribution to the community in the 4 days you've been signed up means that you don't know what to expect from us.
We can't tell you what is or is not okay. This is a decision between yourself and your husband and to be honest, we don't need to hear about your sex life.
Just a good rule of thumb.
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And if you thought this really wouldn't go down without at least a little bit of sarcasm, I mean
BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
If none of that is clear, here's another answer for you... no one cares! Don't advertise.
@HotSauceSwagBag... Thanks now I have to go watch anything with Jay and Silent Bob!