Pregnant after a Loss

New employment...

I typically wouldn't consider telling my employer until I am much further along considering my history if a miscarriage and my nerves mostly. 

I was offered a new position for significantly more money and I would like to take it. But I am concerned about how they may handle leave. Part of me wants to have this discussion prior to taking the job but the other part is torn and wants to wait a few months and see what happens with this pregnancy. 


Re: New employment...

  • I'm in a similar position but slightly different position. I have a few weeks until I move to a new city and I had conversations with a possible employer before I got pregnant. We are waiting to see if funding will be available to hire me, and I decided that If I am officially offered a position I am going to disclose my pregnancy - if he acts like a jerk I don't want to work for him anyway. 
    TW: MMC
    BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
    BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
    Diagnoses and Treatments
    PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
    Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
    Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
    BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
    BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏

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