I know that naturally I will make less milk in the evening b/c LO STTN, but what I am making is not keeping up with her demand. In the morning and early afternoon, we're good but after 4ish, she's not getting enough to be full and by the end of the night, she's having meltdowns at my breast, screaming, trying to pull my nipple off, kicking, etc. I can't nurse her to sleep like that, obviously. I have been for a couple of weeks just toughing it out and letting her nurse at will, hoping it would increase my supply but it's not. It's getting worse. I gave her a bottle of expressed BM (I'm pumping right now to make up for it) and she was soooo happy.
how do I build up my evening supply w/o being super engorged in the morning? Is there a way?
Re: low supply in the evening
This honestly sounds a lot like what my dd did. I didn't have a low supply ( I actually have an ample supply). You're right, you do make less in the evening. This, coupled with a baby that is naturally more fussy in the evening equaled at least one melt down every night.
She was getting plenty of milk, she was just fussy and tired and it wasn't coming out fast enough for her.
I"m not saying this is definitely your problem too. It just sounds an awful lot like what we went through.
Just in case I'd up fluid intake during the day, make sure you're eating plenty of calories, and always pump if you giver her a bottle of expressed milk.
Oh, also, if you give her a bottle, that's easier for her to get the milk out of. If you do this on a nightly basis she'll learn that if she fights enough she'll get the bottle and she won't need to work for the milk. So I'd be careful about doing this too much.