I think all the bumpies' well wishes helped get things going! Finally got moved to an antepartum room and got cervadil placed. It will definitely be a long road from here but I am so happy to finally get started.
I think all the bumpies' well wishes helped get things going! Finally got moved to an antepartum room and got cervadil placed. It will definitely be a long road from here but I am so happy to finally get started.
Good to hear! You handled that mess like a champ!!!
Tomorow is my original due date. Dr changed it to May 8th after the first ultrasound (so long ago now lol). I have an appt tomorow for a non stress test see how my little guy is doing in there. Sort of hoping I just go into labor tonight and don't have to do all this NST and discussion on inducing ect ....ect.... earlier I felt more...."laborious" but now....nothing. Sorry just venting. I know I shouldn't complain about NOT feeling miserable when I'm this pregnant . But I want to feel like SOMETHING is about to happen....
Well today's my due date. Although I feel like I'm stuck between two EDD's...my official one of 5/13 based on my first u/s & my unofficial one of 5/16 based on my O date.
My dilemma is that my doc will only let me go a week over (next Friday in her files), but what if my true EDD is closer to 5/16? I feel like I could be jipped of 3 extra days that I could go into labor naturally. I'm hoping my doc will allow me to schedule my induction on Monday the 23rd instead of next Friday. We'll see how that discussion goes. They can't FORCE you to be induced on a specific date even though they say 41w max, right?
Ugh...I had insomnia last night and woke up early this morning. At first I didn't mind him being late as I still had stuff to do, but yesterday I got my last big work-related project off my desk. I kind of thought my body would respond to that feeling of relief by going into labor, but no such luck so far...
@hellogoodbye2 I'm curious about this too! My OB also says 41 weeks max and will have me schedule to be induced early next week.
She says this is because LO is measuring ahead and is concerned that he'll be too big by 41 1/2 weeks to deliver vaginally. From what I've read, this is a BS reason, as they don't grow by more than a few ounces per week after 40 weeks. Really not sure what to do.
Also, I found out that my OB sent someone directly to L&D after their final prenatal appointment, as the lady was 7 cm dilated. While I doubt I'm that far, I wouldn't be surprised if I'm a 5-6 at today's appointment and I'm not sure where the line is between must be done today and can wait a few more. Totally NOT feeling ready to go into induced labor today!
She says this is because LO is measuring ahead and is concerned that he'll be too big by 41 1/2 weeks to deliver vaginally. From what I've read, this is a BS reason, as they don't grow by more than a few ounces per week after 40 weeks. Really not sure what to do.
I was just reading up on this too. I heard the same thing. I have a fluid/growth u/s on Monday and I'm really hoping they don't use baby's size as an excuse to induce me earlier. But I'm pretty good at standing my ground with my OB so we'll see.
I think the couple things in my favor are that most doc's don't like scheduling inductions on Friday AND the next full moon is next Saturday which would bump back my induction date anyways with how full hospitals usually are around full moons.
Only 39+2 and still pretty calm, but I have to share what my mom just told me. With my brother she had her EDD on March 30 and after her doctor tried to talk her into inducing after seven days she just didn't go to see him any more! She delivered my brother on April 17 (18 days past EDD!), and he was a healthy boy. But man, I would have freaked! Not only about the ffing 18 days waiting time, but also about the condition of my baby. Definitely couldn't do it, even though I would want to wait up to 10 days past EDD, but for sure with my doctor's agreement.
I don't doubt that you all are being safe and at least taking your midwives/ OBs advice into consideration. I'm paranoid about allowing my pregnancy to go too far because I've had two friends in the last year face complications because they choose to wait. The placenta for one friend started breaking down leading to an emergency CS and another friend had a giant baby that caused some injury to mom's hips on his vaginal attempt out. This birth also resulted in a CS. Just be careful waiting ladies. I'm hopeful you all have happy L&D stories and that you and baby are healthy on the other end if they come at 40 wks, 41, or 42.
So, I was kinda hoping this wouldn't be my fate...but here I am 40+1 and absolutely miserable. Induction being considered if I don't go by the 17th Glad I'm not alone tho. Hope things progress for everyone.
@Charla1224 this is a concern of mine too. I will be asking to push back my date so long as the u/s and NST look good. If not, I have no problem sticking with an earlier induction date.
Well, looks like I am joining the club today. 40 +1 today. Arg. I know my doc would like to induce at 41 weeks, and I'm hoping to avoid being induced at all, so hopefully the little guy just makes his appearance in the next few days so I don't have to think about it. (Doc will let me go to 42, which is what I originally wanted to do, but now my anxiety about baby being ok might make that hard for me to handle)
My official DD is 5/15 based on my first u/s, although I've been going on 5/11 based on O date. So I'm either 40+2 or 39+5. I have an induction date of 5/25, but I'm really hopeful LO comes on her own. Not least because the idea of being this pregnant for almost 2 more weeks makes me want to punch myself in the face.
LO measured 7lbs 8oz on Wed, which is average, and my Dr admitted that may not even be accurate. Fluid levels are still fine. But I've been 1.5cm dilated for almost a month with no change (no effacement number or station given). I know that doesn't really mean anything and I could still start labor any time, but man, I really, really wanted to hear that SOMETHING was changing. I feel like I'm caught in some Twilight Zone/Groundhog Day limbo where I'm always on the verge but nothing ever actually changes. So frustrating!
Wait..41 weeks is max?! My OB said 42! I was originally 5/16 but was bumped up to 5/8. No baby for me on Mothers Day. However, the hospital will only accept my original EDD of 5/16 for induction purposes. I'd much rather go into labor naturally but considering my lack of progress over the past 3 weeks I'm not getting my hopes up anymore...
@hellogoodbye2 I'm in that same situation. They want to induce sunday and today is my original due date which I feel is more accurate. I have a NST this morning. If he's fine in there I'm telling them no. It's my body and they can't make me induce. HOWEVER! If my little guy is in any stress at all I'm getting him out!
I am 40+4 today and oddly relaxed. I'm napping, organizing and generally enjoying the time to myself to "get ready." Maybe I'm weird, I don't know. I work A LOT, so I never had the chance to really nest, and it's nice, being in a quiet house, not worrying about what work stuff I have to do, or feeling guilty about work while I do baby stuff.
U/S on Monday at 41W to decide next steps. Haven't been told a cutoff date. I think they continue to evaluate all the data and make a decision based on the individual person.
@babyfmama - I would be LIVID. I would also make sure you are NOT charged for either of those visits, because you were given false information and discharged. Seriously, fight that!
@folamij - My doctor induces after 41 weeks because there is increased risk in stillbirth apparently, and DH has a history of one in his family (a cousin, but still).
I'm getting nervous the sooner we get to the date (7pm on Sunday). Having an end date in sight is incredibly nerve wracking. I find myself overthinking the packing of the bag, decisions to be made, cleaning the house, etc.
@babyfmama - I would be LIVID. I would also make sure you are NOT charged for either of those visits, because you were given false information and discharged. Seriously, fight that!
@folamij - My doctor induces after 41 weeks because there is increased risk in stillbirth apparently, and DH has a history of one in his family (a cousin, but still).
I'm getting nervous the sooner we get to the date (7pm on Sunday). Having an end date in sight is incredibly nerve wracking. I find myself overthinking the packing of the bag, decisions to be made, cleaning the house, etc.
I am in the same boat! Having an end date is making me anxious. I also am overthinking what's in my bag, cleaning things that I've already cleaned, etc.
My induction is 12:45am Monday, so not long after you! Good luck!
I'm 10 days overdue today and am on a waiting list at the hospital to be induced. I called the hospital today and asked how things were looking and the nurse told me all their beds are completely full and to not expect a call today.
I wish I could relax but I'm just so nervous. I told the nurse I'm worried the baby isn't moving as much over the past couple days and she said to do a kick count and make sure I get 6 kicks in two hours. I got that pretty easily but am still just so unbelievably stressed about the baby I don't even know what to do. I really didn't want to be induced and would love to go into labor on my own but nothing is working and I just keep thinking of all the scary information my OB gave me about going too far overdue. This is really not fun!
Well... Today I'm 41+3, I'm super cranky. They won't even talk to me about induction until next Wednesday (42 weeks). I had all the signs of labour two nights ago, went to sleep and everything stopped. Had an NST yesterday and babe is super happy in there. I'm just so sick of talking to people and answering countless questions that I sort of lost it on Facebook this morning (after 6 different people wrote on mine or SO's Facebook wall about the baby) I put this super cranky status up:
"Just forewarning that I am a super cranky pregnant lady. So let me just answer all of your questions now so everyone can stop asking:
No, he isn't here yet.
No, I'm not in labour yet.
Yes, he is late.
Yes, I was in early labour for a little bit the other day, and it stopped, obviously because there's still no baby.
No, I don't feel good.
Yes, I am uncomfortable.
Yes, 'any time now'.
No, I don't know how dilated I am, and if I did I don't want to share that with you. Or anything else about my vagina so just don't ask.
Yes, we have tried EVERY old wives tale so stop suggesting we have sex or go for a walk or drink this or that... Just stop.
Please stop telling me to enjoy him being in there because "everything changes when he comes out" no kidding, I had no idea a baby coming out of me was life changing.
I understand everyone is excited and just wants to meet him, I guarantee no one is more excited than Josh and I, but 9 million questions from literally everyone we know is just stressful at this point. You will know the baby is here when there is an announcement about a baby arriving.
Thanks."
Luckily most people on my friends list just thought I was funny instead of bitchy. Haha.
Anyone else sleeping a lot? I'm a FTM, so I have this "luxury," (I.e. No other kids to take care of atm) but I'm also kind of worried that I can nap at a drop of a hat. Where is everyone's energy level?
My DD is tomorrow so I'm not a member quite yet but I might as well be. My energy level is in the negative but I feel too anxious to sleep. I've been really stable this pregnancy but today I've felt so emotionally off the charts. Just irritable and nothing can satisfy me. I don't feel overly anxious about going overdue so not sure what is causing the emotional issues other than the standard hormones of pregnancy. I don't feel rushed to have the baby but I want to see him and see that's he's healthy - I think that is the source of my worries lately. We have a fun family day planned tomorrow so I'm looking forward to that.
Anyone else sleeping a lot? I'm a FTM, so I have this "luxury," (I.e. No other kids to take care of atm) but I'm also kind of worried that I can nap at a drop of a hat. Where is everyone's energy level?
40W5D
yes!!! so tired all the time even after feeling like I got a good night sleep. I just give into the naps
Anyone else sleeping a lot? I'm a FTM, so I have this "luxury," (I.e. No other kids to take care of atm) but I'm also kind of worried that I can nap at a drop of a hat. Where is everyone's energy level?
40W5D
I would sleep more if I could! Between needing to go to the bathroom frequently, aches and pains, and ever increasingly restless legs, I'm pretty happy when I can get 5 hours of sleep a night (not at one go, of course). Worst part is that my symptoms are worse when I'm tired, so it all spirals down hill pretty fast. Thankfully my energy level is somehow pretty good all day (although with the restless legs, I sorta have to keep moving).
I was doing all right until 39 1/2 weeks, but at 40 1/2 it sucks.
@blaisdew had to be induced. My LO is 3 days old so bear with me while I'm on duty. Just wanted to say I read your post and I know how you're feeling. It sucks. But I promise it will be over soon nd you'll be holding your beautiful bundle. Hang in there. Thinking of you and sending Positive thoughts.
Boy oh boy...40W6D for me today. The waiting game is getting to me mentally. I have too much time on my hands and I can't stop thinking about how woefully underprepared I am. I know nothing about infant care, and I'm seriously wondering how I am going to handle this. I need to get the positive energy flowing, because my mind is my worst enemy right now...
Also, several friends texted me today and advised me to resist induction tomorrow if given the choice. (I have an appt. for an u/s tomorrow). I have no clue what I'm going to do if there is no clear benefit to waiting or induction.
Also--anyone overdue with no signs of labor? I feel like at the rate I'm going, the only way I'll ever know what a MP looks like is to google it. (I refuse to do that, btw!!)
Also--anyone overdue with no signs of labor? I feel like at the rate I'm going, the only way I'll ever know what a MP looks like is to google it. (I refuse to do that, btw!!)
I have not had one single sign of labor whatsoever. I will be induced Tuesday or Wednesday of this week if the baby doesn't come before but mainly because I have high fluid levels again. It's weird to think how long my body might go on its own.
We decided to wait on being medically induced. 2nd NST on tues. But my husband has that look in his eye. He wants this baby and he wants him now! I wonder if I should be scared.... lol. He's busting out all the moves! Super spicy bloody (virgin) mary, very strong leg "massage" , sex and now he's making me walk! And for dinner he's ordering the preggo pizza
I'm going to ask for a membrane sweep tomorrow because, from what little I can tell (it is surprisingly hard to find good stats on this), there's a pretty decent chance it should work for us. I'm partially dilated, partially effaced, baby's at a low station, and all these things have been true for weeks, PLUS I'm having a ton of contractions (both painless BH and garbage false labor) that just don't go anywhere, so it seems like there's a reasonable probability that a sweep might get things moving.
If it doesn't, though, then we might have to start thinking about induction, and in that case... well, I don't know. I feel pretty ambivalent about that too. On the one hand, an induction means that I probably won't be able to skip out on having an epidural (I'd still want to give it a try, but I'm not optimistic in that scenario) and is something I'd rather avoid if possible. On the other hand, I don't want to go so long that the baby becomes too large to deliver easily, since that's exactly what happened to my mom when she had me, and that was a very bad experience for her. So family history would probably push me toward an induction, personally, if the sweep isn't sufficient to push things along and I don't go into labor spontaneously beforehand.
@Merciel I'm in a similar situation. Dont really want the induction, but if the pro outweighs the cons it's gonna happen. I agree, not too positive i can avoid an epidural if im medically induced and i really want to avoid that epi! Good luck with the sweep, I've heard some great outcomes with it. If you're already close it can really push your body over the edge and go into labor! *GOOD LUCK!*
Not sure if I officially go here. In five hours I will be past my due date, so I'm going to go for it. I am just dealing with some mind games similar to above posters. Sweeping my membranes has been completely not successful for me, in my last pregnancy and I've had it done once at my last apt. I guess I'll give it another go tomorrow. I just feel done in the dumps and completely exhausted. Also, I'm pretty concerned about the baby's position.
I was in a horrible mood today. I'm really excited for tomorrow's check-up, but I know I'll be even more upset if I haven't made any progress. We'll see. It'll be a long week ahead for me.
Re: Overdue Club
Sorry just venting. I know I shouldn't complain about NOT feeling miserable when I'm this pregnant . But I want to feel like SOMETHING is about to happen....
My dilemma is that my doc will only let me go a week over (next Friday in her files), but what if my true EDD is closer to 5/16? I feel like I could be jipped of 3 extra days that I could go into labor naturally. I'm hoping my doc will allow me to schedule my induction on Monday the 23rd instead of next Friday. We'll see how that discussion goes. They can't FORCE you to be induced on a specific date even though they say 41w max, right?
DS: Born 5-17-16
I'm 6 days past due date today. Sigh. NST this morning.
She says this is because LO is measuring ahead and is concerned that he'll be too big by 41 1/2 weeks to deliver vaginally. From what I've read, this is a BS reason, as they don't grow by more than a few ounces per week after 40 weeks. Really not sure what to do.
Also, I found out that my OB sent someone directly to L&D after their final prenatal appointment, as the lady was 7 cm dilated. While I doubt I'm that far, I wouldn't be surprised if I'm a 5-6 at today's appointment and I'm not sure where the line is between must be done today and can wait a few more. Totally NOT feeling ready to go into induced labor today!
I think the couple things in my favor are that most doc's don't like scheduling inductions on Friday AND the next full moon is next Saturday which would bump back my induction date anyways with how full hospitals usually are around full moons.
Just be careful waiting ladies. I'm hopeful you all have happy L&D stories and that you and baby are healthy on the other end if they come at 40 wks, 41, or 42.
DD: 05/14/16
Edited: brainfart
LO measured 7lbs 8oz on Wed, which is average, and my Dr admitted that may not even be accurate. Fluid levels are still fine. But I've been 1.5cm dilated for almost a month with no change (no effacement number or station given). I know that doesn't really mean anything and I could still start labor any time, but man, I really, really wanted to hear that SOMETHING was changing. I feel like I'm caught in some Twilight Zone/Groundhog Day limbo where I'm always on the verge but nothing ever actually changes. So frustrating!
U/S on Monday at 41W to decide next steps. Haven't been told a cutoff date. I think they continue to evaluate all the data and make a decision based on the individual person.
DS: Born 5-17-16
@babyfmama - I would be LIVID. I would also make sure you are NOT charged for either of those visits, because you were given false information and discharged. Seriously, fight that!
@folamij - My doctor induces after 41 weeks because there is increased risk in stillbirth apparently, and DH has a history of one in his family (a cousin, but still).
I'm getting nervous the sooner we get to the date (7pm on Sunday). Having an end date in sight is incredibly nerve wracking. I find myself overthinking the packing of the bag, decisions to be made, cleaning the house, etc.
My induction is 12:45am Monday, so not long after you! Good luck!
I wish I could relax but I'm just so nervous. I told the nurse I'm worried the baby isn't moving as much over the past couple days and she said to do a kick count and make sure I get 6 kicks in two hours. I got that pretty easily but am still just so unbelievably stressed about the baby I don't even know what to do. I really didn't want to be induced and would love to go into labor on my own but nothing is working and I just keep thinking of all the scary information my OB gave me about going too far overdue. This is really not fun!
"Just forewarning that I am a super cranky pregnant lady. So let me just answer all of your questions now so everyone can stop asking:
Luckily most people on my friends list just thought I was funny instead of bitchy. Haha.
40W5D
DS: Born 5-17-16
I was doing all right until 39 1/2 weeks, but at 40 1/2 it sucks.
Enjoy the sleep! Totally wish I could too!
Also, several friends texted me today and advised me to resist induction tomorrow if given the choice. (I have an appt. for an u/s tomorrow). I have no clue what I'm going to do if there is no clear benefit to waiting or induction.
DS: Born 5-17-16
DS: Born 5-17-16
He's busting out all the moves!
Super spicy bloody (virgin) mary, very strong leg "massage" , sex and now he's making me walk! And for dinner he's ordering the preggo pizza
If it doesn't, though, then we might have to start thinking about induction, and in that case... well, I don't know. I feel pretty ambivalent about that too. On the one hand, an induction means that I probably won't be able to skip out on having an epidural (I'd still want to give it a try, but I'm not optimistic in that scenario) and is something I'd rather avoid if possible. On the other hand, I don't want to go so long that the baby becomes too large to deliver easily, since that's exactly what happened to my mom when she had me, and that was a very bad experience for her. So family history would probably push me toward an induction, personally, if the sweep isn't sufficient to push things along and I don't go into labor spontaneously beforehand.
I am just dealing with some mind games similar to above posters. Sweeping my membranes has been completely not successful for me, in my last pregnancy and I've had it done once at my last apt. I guess I'll give it another go tomorrow.
I just feel done in the dumps and completely exhausted. Also, I'm pretty concerned about the baby's position.