I have a quick etiquette question.... I was recently thrown a surprise baby shower at work and am completely blown away by everyone's generosity. Everyone chipped in for a wonderful lunch and beautiful gifts for the baby, however some people in addition to chipping in for the group gift, bought their own gift as well which was so incredibly nice. My question... How do I handle thank yous? Even though it was a large group do I write individual thank yous or just write a group thank you with a pastry tray or something of sorts and then give individual thank you notes to those who bought their own gifts on top of chipping in for the group gift???? I want them all to know I really appreciate everything, but want to thank them properly.