I know. It's so early to even be thinking about delivery.... but it's a point of contention in our house right now so I'm looking for some good articles/research to support our decision either way.
DS was induced at 40w- labored 23 hours, ended in an emergency c-section due to the cord being wrapped several times. Pretty much a horrifying and scary situation I would like to avoid at all costs. But I can't help but miss and long for that "typical delivery" for next baby.
Re: VBAC?
Has your doc suggested you aren't a candidate? If that were the only complication, and there's no indicator that it would happen again, I'd certainly push for a VBAC if it were me. There's no medical reason to elect into serious surgery.
DH says no way. I think he's still too scared over what happened last time. I guess I'm not sure of the risks/benefits either way except to not have a major surgery and a newborn.
Obviously i'm no doctor, but what happened in your previous delivery is a chance based situation. It's not medically caused or correlated and there's no indicator it would happen again. I understand being fearful, I delivered at 33 weeks incredibly ill (I was not able to move for 36 hours post birth) and had a baby in the NICU for over a month. If I were a candidate for a VBAC even with all of that, I'd sign up today. If it's important to you, I hope DH is supportive of at least an attempt. If things become risky or your end up with a low HR again, the decision can always be made for the c if medically necessary.
I am hoping for a vbac myself. I was induced due to Eclampsia, and was progressing well until L turned breech when they broke my water. He then got stuck, and had a BM. So emergency C section happened.
My OB told me that I needed to wait at least 15 months from birth to pregnancy, but when I asked the other OBs in his practice they said 15 months from birth - birth.
I have never heard of a vbac being unsafe if you want more children. I have heard that most OBs won't do/recommend more than 3-4 C sections though.
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They have lots of articles and a great support system of women trying and succeeding with VBACs. I'm going for one if I can (delivered emergency section under general anesthesia at 28w due to severe pre-e, lost heartbeat, and BM) and found one of only a few OBs in the area that will do one. So far I qualify as long as I don't have to be induced again.
@DiFazette I guess I should clarify. My OB from my last c-section cleared me to attempt a VBAC but I have not yet seen this OB since I moved out of state. I guess I was assuming she would feel the same but with your response I wonder now. So I guess I will find out when I see her next week!
My original OB's thought process was the pre-e is a bit of crap shoot of if you will get it again, though as I'm sure you are aware, we are at higher risk for how early and severe it came on. Fx!
And FX for you for a safe delivery as well.
on a positive note, my VBAC was successful and the recovery was leaps and bounds better than my CS.
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With my second, I found an amazing Ob (we had moved). When I went in for my 1st prenatal appointment, she told me they don't offer VBACs because of the risk of rupture. So I ended up with repeat cesarean, and was glad, my 2nd daughter was 8lbs 7oz at 39 weeks! Plus I was kind of traumatized from our first labor experience, I swear I had PTSD for years. And then I realized I wasn't going to go through a traumatic labor just to end in a c-section again. 2nd c-section recovery was WAY easier. Maybe because I didn't go through a day of labor before?
But since your labor was actually fairly successful - you dilated like normal, it could be worth a shot! Like I said- make sure your OB offers VBACs, not all do. And good luck on your decision, either way, you will have a cute little baby
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