My husband constantly says i am being a bad mother because of the way i take care of our 1 month old son. We cosleep with our son and he started making me feel bad when our son would sleep my chest. Ever since baby was born he has been sleeping on daddy chest. Now he sleeps on his donut for 3-4 hours at night before he gets up again to eat. Now he says im being a bad mom because i hold him to bottle feed him at night when he wakes up. I don't get it this is my first baby he has 3 other kids with his baby momma. I dont judge him but he puts me down for everything i do. I am just trying to be a mom here and i want to cherish the time i have with my son. He is growing up so fast and he won't need me as much the older her gets and learns to do things on his own. Am i beung a bad mom because i like holding my son to feed him? I just hate that he puts me down instead of seeing all the good i am doing taking care of our son. Ive talked to him about this and he just says that he knows better and that i should listen to my husband.