FFFC

PugsandKisses

soberkfell said:

I'm about to drive to DQ for a large blizzard - and I'm going to enjoy all 1,600 calories of that sucker! There will be no eating 1/3 or half and then saving the rest for tomorrow. 

People save it for later?

jenkeale

I had a giant T-bone steak for dinner. No sides, just meat. Now it's time for gelato!
My confession is I planned a getaway for Easter weekend because 1. It was a lot cheaper and 2. I always plan and cook for holidays and I wanted to be pampered instead. 

Nerdchild

jlgriff11 said:

I am so glad I'm not the only one eating everything in sight tho, it means we're all at a normal part in our pregnancies and I'm not alone. I ate pop tarts, milk, chips, 3/4 of a jacks pizza, and now I want more milk.

Are you also eating shit that you would flat-out NEVER eat if you weren't pregnant?  I don't know whether to be ashamed of myself or not.

maddmama

jlgriff11 said:

When people say they eat a whole frozen pizza I'm so excited because I ate almost a whole frozen pizza tonight but then I realize they mean like a personal pan size or a totinos size and I'm like o never mind I ate like a whole large pizza oops.

Don't feel bad. I have eaten a whole large pizza to myself during this pregnancy haha you're not alone 

mamafox14

Damn now I want a whole pizza covered in girl scout cookies that have been turned into ice cream sandwiches. 

stillcozy

My fffc we just got a game restaurant with my husband and his sister. Im in the bathroom having the worst vomit session i have ever had. All i can think is please dont get on my shirt and dont pee your pants.

Also bruschetta my favorite has now been ruined for me. And all i want is dq 

DobbysSock

schaze said:

I'm not sure either of these are entirely FFFC's but to me they feel like it.. 1. (Since it was brought up haha) I was really nervous to introduce myself to this board at first because I feel like on the internet I don't really have a personality. Same went for my online college courses when I was doing those. So hopefully I'm not too irritating to all you fine ladies
and 2. I have this sad need for attention from hubby that I blame on these pregnancy hormones. He just got home from a business trip this afternoon and I was trying to visit with him about it, but he was distracted.. And then I proceeded to get super irritated with him, even though I really missed him all week. I feel like a b!tch. And I confess I don't really care.

@schaze you're not alone in feeling this way - I definitely think I'm wittier and more interesting in person, I just find it easier to interact face to face. The lack of non-verbal cues throws me off my game a little bit. But that said I do think you fit in well here

kcossey528

soberkfell said:

I'm about to drive to DQ for a large blizzard - and I'm going to enjoy all 1,600 calories of that sucker! There will be no eating 1/3 or half and then saving the rest for tomorrow. 

Oh man! That was my plan after dinner. My parents took me and DD out, and as we left the restaurant I whispered in DD's ear "ask Gma Susan if we can go to DQ" because I didn't want to be the one to ask. The line was 10 deep, so my mom said no way. We just got home, and I am very sad now. DH gets off in an hour so I may hit him up. 

rakel88

@schaze I also feel like the worst on the Internet and every time I post (here, past online classes, anything) I feel like a dummy and wish people could just talk to me in real life instead.

@jlgriff11 definitely on the eating everything all the time bandwagon. Completely insatiable all the time, no matter how much I eat.

@lindsayleigh1989 I'm sorry, that sounds horrible  

Kellyj103

DQ sounds amazing! I've never been to DQ/had a blizzard but they look bomb.com on the commercials way better than a mcflurry. They don't have one around here so I'm just gonna have a skinny cow like a loser wishing it was a mcflurry

maddmama

@Lindsayleigh1989 ugh you poor thing!! I hope it ends soon!

Racso12

Today I ate a jimmy johns sandwich and a bag of chips for lunch topped off with some Girl Scout shortbread cookies. Then we went to dinner where I devoured bread and gourmet mac and cheese. And when I got home my husband gave me a coffee cup of what I thought was ice cream but when he handed it to me all I saw was whipped cream. He laughed really hard and said you're going to have to dig really far to get past the whipped cream. 

I feel like this last week I am just eating everything in sight and I don't care. I mean I do care but...I don't. 

mandyjulie

I really want DQ or McFlurry or really any milkshake right now. A malt also sounds good... The midwest people here know about those right? Or at least Wisconsin? DH's cousins live there and the malts are everything. 

I can't even stuff my face with whatever crap is lying around because my mom is staying over. Closet eating will have to resume tomorrow night.

DobbysSock

Kellyj103 said:

DQ sounds amazing! I've never been to DQ/had a blizzard but they look bomb.com on the commercials way better than a mcflurry. They don't have one around here so I'm just gonna have a skinny cow like a loser wishing it was a mcflurry

Definitely better than a mcflurry. DQ has way more options for topping to mix in, and uses more of the mix. They also blend it more evenly, so you get flavour all the way down, whereas I find mcflurries have mostly toppings mixed in just at the top, and it's basically plain ice cream towards the bottom (or I've just had bad mcflurries)

Racso12

@mandyjulie malts are soooo much better than shakes!!! Even better with fries to dip in the malt!!

mamafox14

Psh DQ is a billion times better than a McFlurry. No contest. Also, thanks to this thread I just ordered two pizzas. 

No shame. 

Nerdchild

stellaluna14 said:

Psh DQ is a billion times better than a McFlurry. No contest. Also, thanks to this thread I just ordered two pizzas. 

No shame. 

stillcozy

Thanks ladies my car sickness has flared back up along with my ms. Feeling better now still wishing I had ice cream 

Nerdchild

Lindsayleigh1989 said:

Thanks ladies my car sickness has flared back up along with my ms. Feeling better now still wishing I had ice cream 

Sounds like your husband owes you ice cream.

mnkenned

jlmartinez517 said:

I just ate a whole frozen pizza from Trader Joes 

I did that last night! I ate half of it and was like nope, I'm gonna need more.

stillcozy

FFFC I have no tolerance for When someone pm me looking for support and because I don't agree with them and tell them to confront the person they are upset with and take accountability for their own actions I got told I should " feel like a shitty person for associating with those girls" aka girls who offer huge amounts of support to this board to myself and get told I am a "bully" and and immature. 

It is just so wrong to claim you are innocent and then tell me what an awful person I am for not agreeing with you....

ugh! 

elenabrent

Add me to the "ate a whole pizza" club. It was frozen gf one but still. All of it down the gullet. 

I'm also sick of the Girl Scout cookie talk. It stems from jealousy, but I hate all of you who are eating boxes of them. Especially the shortbread ones. Those are the best. 

SparkySunshine

Definition of bully: a person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker

@lindsayleigh1989 if somebody calls you a bully, it just means they are "weaker" per Oxford Dictionary. Also, even if the name calling is unjustified, you have strength and power! Your not a bully though, your awesome!

pourmeanothermocktail

My FFFC: I am really tired of women who just wanna create drama. This is all over my day here and IRL today. @ashleighhughes Could you just like, stop? This isn't the first or last time hell hath been raised on this board over disappointment over sex of your baby. 

You have been around long enough to see it before, and yes, people go after you because you react so ridiculously strongly for someone who claims not to care what others think of you/your opinions. I am tired of people choosing to abuse @Lindsayleigh1989  when they're feeling pissy. She's been one of the best and most level headed from the beginning and offers the most support to everyone, even if they're being a bit dumb at the time-myself included. So how about you just stop creating drama?

stillcozy

It is just so frustrating! @SparkySunshine thanks for telling me I have strength and power because after a crappy day at work being super sick and having her message me in the midst of vomit fest just to be unkind to me really really sucks. 

I so appreciate the support on this board for those hurting, needing help with basic things or comisersting symptoms. Thanks to all of you for what you bring to this board. And for all the lurkers too scared to join as I am told. Join, what harm do you have in adding insight getting and offering support. 

ashleighhughes

@RideNRunMomma did you even read this thread?? I mentioned nothing about being disappointed in the sex of my baby. Nothing. I mentioned that I hate pregnancy sex and someone created drama with me over that. It's honestly ridiculous. Please don't call me out if you don't know what you are talking about. I created zero drama on this thread. Have a good night.

elenabrent

@Lindsayleigh1989 I am so, so sorry you are still puking. That sucks. That sweet baby of yours owes you so many snuggles for this. 

As as far as the lurkers who don't want to participate- we've continually encouraged people to jump in and become parts of the regular conversation, and from my perspective it seems to have gone really well for the many people who have come out from HDBD into other threads and made connections and conversations (please correct me if I'm wrong, people who recently started posting more frequently). There are a few people who come and shit stir, and there are more who come and get people riled up before leaving, but that's not at the core of this community. Look at some of the support threads and you'll see the true heart of this group of women. 

HMcDade1

@ashleighhughes
Are you delusional? You've created zero drama? 

1. Telling people to get a new attitude
2. Calling people obsessed with you
3. Telling people to get a life 
4. Calling people miserable 
5. Insuinating that people "creep" on your every move. 

All of of the above is dramatic. And frankly the whole board is tired of you. 

Also we're still not over being called snarky bitches, bullies and whatever other name calling you wanna throw around. 

You wont be missed when you GBCB. 

elenabrent

Pregnancy sex is something that comes up in EVERY FFFC and I agree that I'm tired of hearing about it. I'm still farting a lot but we talked about that last week during FFFC so I didn't repeat. 

pourmeanothermocktail

@ashleighhughes Oops, my bad. I did screw up. However, I own up to my mistakes. My apologies for being incorrect about what your original comment was. That being said, I still think you do little but cause drama. Maybe @ButterMyBiscuit didn't make her point the nicest way, but ya know what, it still stands. I still love her. And, actually it's morning now, so maybe I'll just start my day with this.

Sorry you think everyone is out to get you. But nope, it's mostly we just don't like you or your style much. And I seriously despise the embarrassing you've been doing to @Lindsayleigh1989 via PMs. That's freaking ridiculous.

Please stop sucking the fun out of this board.

ashleighhughes

@HMcDade1 you seem to have not read the thread either. I was told to get a new personality by her before I EVER told her to get a life. Sooo who started the drama? And yes, she does creep on my posts and starts drama with me all the time. Sorry you can't see that. I'm also sorry you feel the need to insert yourself into someone else's "drama". And again- never called anyone a snarky bit** but you just keep thinking that. Also, don't know what GBCB means but either way, I won't miss you either because you've never spoken to me?

SparkySunshine

ashleighhughes said:

Also, don't know what GBCB means but either way, I won't miss you either because you've never spoken to me?


-----------------------qbf-----------------------------

I'm going to take this to mean you and your name calling are leaving

pourmeanothermocktail

@ashleighhughes

Yeah, nope. She reads everyone's posts equally.

You make comments. She makes comments. You explode in the same manner my bipolar teenage sister does - out of nowhere.

We laugh.

But now that you've sent a crap ton of super rude harassing PMs to our friend, we're very unhappy with your attitude.

But everything is not about you, and I'm sure Butters is not obsessed with you and your doings.

ashleighhughes

Dear god, I am tired of getting ganged up on and yes BULLIED by a handful of you women on this board. So you don't like me or my style @RideNRunMomma ? You mean when I post to give advice and support?? Because I do that almost daily. You don't even know me! And who the hell would have known that me posting a FFFC about pregnancy sex was so bad.. Ok it's been done before. So has Girl Scout cookies. Every week. But wait- no one gets called out over that! It's just petty bullsh**. If no one liked my pregnancy sex confession why didn't they just ignore it? Oh that's right, because a certain handful of you just love to start stuff! Yes I am leaving this board. It's a shame that I am number 717481 that has left this community because of this. I hope you all feel proud that you've turned what is supposed to be a welcoming/supportive community into a hostile/unwelcoming environment for so many people. 
To all the ladies who are going through a hard time with a high risk pregnancy- I've enjoyed reading your stories and offering you my prayers and support. I hope everything continues to go well for you and that you have healthy babies! God bless. 
(Commence the "bye Felicia" gifs) so predictable. 

HMcDade1

ashleighhughes said:

@HMcDade1 you seem to have not read the thread either. I was told to get a new personality by her before I EVER told her to get a life. Sooo who started the drama? And yes, she does creep on my posts and starts drama with me all the time. Sorry you can't see that. I'm also sorry you feel the need to insert yourself into someone else's "drama". And again- never called anyone a snarky bit** but you just keep thinking that. Also, don't know what GBCB means but either way, I won't miss you either because you've never spoken to me?

See the thing about the Internet @ashleighhughes is that it comes back to haunt you. But because your comment about us being rude snarky bitches got removed doesn't mean it didn't happen. 

And just like you seem to think I haven't called you out before for your nonsense- yeah that happened too. Maybe you've offended too many people to remember everyone? 

Point being - you aren't free from continuing the drama, regardless of if you started it or not. So stop trying to pretend like you aren't escalating the situation. 

And I'm inserting myself into your arguments because the Internet is a public place where people can respond as they choose and you can't dictate it, remember that one?

GBCB means you're deleting the app and no longer participating here. Which is what all of us regulars have been waiting for you to do for weeks. Especially when you consistently insult people and think that every negative post has something to do with you. 

pourmeanothermocktail

@ashleighhughes Thanks for leaving!

FYI - You don't even know any of us either

ashleighhughes

@HMcDade1 the thing about your screenshots there is that you can't see my original post. I did not call anyone a snarky bitch. 
As for referring to yourself as a "regular"- I think I qualify there too. I've been posting here since November. 
And as for the 2 times people have posted something about me without @ing me- I stuck up for myself and they were 100% about me. I don't consistently insult people.. I stick up for myself when people consistently insult me. There's a difference. 

ashleighhughes

@RideNRunMomma I never claimed to know any of you. Honestly- by the way you act on here, you're not somebody that I would want to know. I have been a part of this board since November to give/get support. Which I have. Belittling someone for posting an innocent confession on this thread is not what the bump is about. It's sad that its turned into that.
As I said before, the gifs are so predictable.

stillcozy

@ashleighhughes you don't just stick up for yourself as you claim. you pm'd me to support you and I suggested you let it go because your reactions were what was causing half of it from my opinion and you were equally rude back. 

Because I didn't immediately back you up and suggested that you take it to her directly instead of myself you attacked me and insulted me and then threatened to get me banned if I posted what you wrote to me on here to show everyone how unkind you were. That is not supportive or kind. 

you should know I don't take threats lightly and have emailed bump admin all of the screen shots of the messages. The ignore button is great use it if you don't like certain ladies or leave if you dislike it here. 

pourmeanothermocktail

@ashleighhughes but instead of having a nice polite disagreement discussion, you start name calling and freak the hell out, and then insult people. Not very helpful or productive. And just because your original post was removed as a TOU violation doesn't mean that you didn't call people rude snarky bitches. You did. They just took it down before anyone got a screen shot. That doesn't mean it never happened.

And I thought you were leaving?