Let's get caught up and talk about the upcoming week!
@twomommiestobe ;
@vnegron87
@beanie1977
@blakelya
@clairelosc
@angelicac06
@fsbc
@vl2016
@twochickshavinachick
@retropetro
Anyone is free to join in and participate! If anyone you know might want to be active, feel free to tag them as well.
Copy and paste the following questions so we can get to know each other better!
Status: (ttc, waiting/benched, pregnant, parent)What is happening this week? Any lgbt questions, advice, problems, etc? Gtky: What is your favorite TV show currently on TV right now?
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16

Re: Weekly check in 2/15
Ttc- we are nearing the end of our first ivf cycle
What is happening this week?
We will have our beta test 2/19! For some reason, I have gotten off of the optimistic train and just have this feeling it didn't work. Not sure why!
Any lgbt questions, advice, problems, etc?
For those of you who use (or used) sperms from a bank, how do you plan on explaining that to your younger kids?
Gtky: What is your favorite TV show currently on TV right now?
Walking Dead! It isn't my usual genre, but I am hooked lol
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
What is happening this week? We expect V will ovulate this week, and we'll try our second IUI.
Any lgbt questions, advice, problems, etc? @twomommiestobe We have a book called "What Makes A Family." What we like about it is that it celebrates all kinds of families. We think the author does a nice job explaining the "ingredients" needed to create a baby but places more emphasis on the family waiting with love and anticipation for the young reader. Anyone who reads it would be able to relate to it, and V and I think it will make a great conversation-starter about how we created our family.
Gtky: What is your favorite TV show currently on TV right now? Hmmm, this is a toughie, because I like TV a lot. Some of the shows I like are embarrassing, so I'll go with one that isn't. Law & Order: SVU is definitely a weekly favorite in our house!
And I'm going to look for that book!
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
Waiting on results from the PGS/PGD
What is happening this week?
NOTHING and there is nothing worse than just waiting...
Any lgbt questions, advice, problems, etc?
@VL2016 - Would you mind telling me the author of the book? Sounds like something that really might be fun and useful!!
Do you ever get scared of all the things you don't know yet but feel like you should? I never even thought of how we were going to explain a donor to smaller kids and that feels like an obvious one...
Gtky: What is your favorite TV show currently on TV right now?
I'm bingeing on Lie to Me right now. I keep trying to get into The Walking Dead and Game of Thrones but I just can't for some reason. I'm a Sherlock/Doctor Who fan
Ttc- just heading into stimulation/retrieval phase of IVF
What is happening this week?
We stopped in at the RE's office this morning to sign final consents and have a little medication tutorial with our IVF coordinator. Scan on Weds and as long as everything is in order, we'll be starting injections on Thursday!
Any lgbt questions, advice, problems, etc?
@twomommiestobe I'm the open conversation former sex-ed teacher in our house, so I anticipate it will always just be a known thing. Our donor is anonymous, but we'll have what we know about him to share with them as they grow into that curious age.
Gtky: What is your favorite TV show currently on TV right now?
Eeek, that one depends on the day. My work world is pretty intense sometimes, so I like to chill out with some garbage TV a lot. We finally started How to Get Away With Murder on Netflix last night, so I'm sure that'll be the one I'm raving about for a while.
@Blakelya Were you doing a fresh transfer or also doing testing. I forgot
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1609804856/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1455577999&sr=8-1&pi=SX200_QL40&keywords=cory+silverberg
My apologies, it is actually called "What Makes A Baby."
What's happening this week? Another week, another pound down. All that's left on the ttc front is getting myself down to a good starting weight. Little S is doing well, weight wise too. She's been hovering just over the 9th since birth and we've been pulled up on it a couple times. I've told them it's a family pattern - my sister and I were both slow to put on weight and she is very active (she doesn't really crawl at all anymore and likes to live life in the fast lane) But even though I know she's eating well (three meals plus snacks a day and b-fing 3 times a day too!) and she has consistent weight gain, I still feel awful when they make a point of where she is on the "healthy weight" scale. Now she is officially 'almost average' weight
GTKY: Elementary. As a Brit, I feel like I'm letting the team down but I have to admit that the American Sherlock is better.
Hope all is well and everyone having a good week.
Thanks! @VL2016
@Blakelyathe results are usually a little higher for a frozen bc the body has had time to rest from the stims/retrieval. For me, my body was rested and ready!
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
We're going the same route as with S (with the same donor so they will be full siblings)
Because I'm still young (31 in April) and in great health, we're starting out nice and relaxed with at home AI.
@Twochickshavinachick oooh I loved Elementary!
@twomommiestobe If this round isn't successful, will you wait out a cycle or jump into the next immediately?
So I have a question for everyone, who all are using anonymous donors and who all are using ID disclosure donors? Why did you decide to go this route?
We went with anonymous. We are treating this solely as a matter of science, not personal. He is not the father or dad and we will never refer to it as that. He will not be in their life day to day. There is no need for a "relationship" later. We have all of the medical info, so no need to contact. Since we plan on adopting later as well, we will have the family motto of we are family, no matter how we got here. The adopted children will be the exact same to us, because genetics don't matter in our family.
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
Parent
What is happening this week?
My baby girl is a week old today! Adjusting back home has been hard as I had a very difficult delivery and I'm going to be recovering for a while. My stitches burst so it's all very painful and my mobility has been limited.
Any lgbt questions, advice, problems, etc?
We conceived with an open donor (she can meet him when she's 18) using IUI. PM me if you need advice on it! It took us a year to conceive. Also the J16 moms had a same-sex moms thread - there's some other lgbt moms there too.
Gtky: What is your favorite TV show currently on TV right now?
The Magicians on SyFy based on the Lev Grossman novels
ETA @retropetro We wanted her to be able to choose to get the information. We're both pretty curious and figured we would want the information. This way she has options and we support whichever choice she would make.
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
What is happening this week? Today our sweet boy turns 7 months.
Any lgbt questions, advice, problems, etc? Wish we had more LGBT friends
Gtky: What is your favorite TV show currently on TV right now? big bang and the people vs OJ... we dont really watch tv much so we record OJ and watch pieces when we can.
7/22/15 - It's a boy!
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
Has anyone had any success finding local lgbt parenting groups? I'd love to start join one or start one, but not sure how to go about it (i'm in LA).
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
7/22/15 - It's a boy!