Hi I haven't been in this situation and I don't know what your exact situation is either. I feel like if you are going to do reduction then you probably have valid reasons to do so. I am pregnant now with twins, FTM, and I am beyond scared and nervous but I keep thinking there are millions of other people out there that can do it then so can I!!! Whatever your situation is, I am sure you are a strong woman and can handle it...best of luck to you, keep your head up no matter what you decide. Prayers to you!