Hi ladies. I am 21 weeks pregnant with our first, and DH and I are super excited. Only thing is, it feels like nothing has changed for him, while everything is different for me. Yesterday we had a friend's birthday celebration at a wine estate. I was the only sober one there, and believe me, I even got offered a drink a few times, even with my bump showing! I don't mind DH enjoying himself, but is it so much to ask that he considers me too? The party became an afterparty, and then, after telling him I have a bad headache and want to rest, his friends rock up at our home and party till 2am. Naturally, I didn't sleep much. I used to party with them before the pregnancy, but surely he can understand that things have changed? I'm not sure how to address this without sounding like a nagging wife.