Whoever is trying to steal DHs identity. They did stuff on AT&T yesterday, Amazon today and who knows what's next. This is just what we needs deal with right now.
Thats terrible ! My cousin had something similar happen at Christmas. Someone got her SIN number and opened 6 credit cards and then maxed them all out. How do people sleep at night!
@sarahbeara25 we already changed our real email passwords and contacted CC companies. But you know how it is there is this fear that you're forgetting something and now we have to go over everything with a fine tooth comb.
@Monilee1017 I think if you suspect his identity is stolen you need to file a police report so there is a paper trail of you reporting this. Most police departments actually have an identity theft department now.
DH thought it would be a good idea to tramp his dirty wet snow shoes around the carpet this morning just so he could quickly check his game on the computer.
The weather is also a TW. The cold messed up the latch on the car door so we couldn't close it this morning for like half an hour. This was my one morning to have a lie in, but no such luck since DH was repeatedly banging the door to get it to close (I don't blame him for this one).
My boobs are twatwaffles. LO sleeps in 4 hour stretches at night, so by the time he wakes up for food my boobs are so full I can hardly stand it. No, I don't wake him up every 2 hours at night, not going to mess with a good sleeper. He also wakes up on his own every 2 hours from 8am-12am for food. He is a little piggy, but I wish my boobs would get their stuff together.
1. My body- it's bad enough I can't sleep, but now I have a horrible cold AND somehow the few hours of sleep I did get last night resulted in a horrifically strained neck. It's so bad I'm springing for a prenatal massage tomorrow.
2. My mom, for saying "my guess is you won't have progressed at all when they check you today" when she KNOWS I'm praying for enough progression that they'll induce me at 39 weeks. (Without a long explanation I have legitimate reasons why my OB and I want to do it, but it's not medically necessary so he won't do it unless I'm dilated to at least 3 on my own.)
Poop. Poop is a TW. Everyone/everything in my house is pooping... except me. Seriously it wasn't even 10 am and both of my kids had total blowout diapers (they've each pooped at least once since then). The dogs have been farting up a storm, so I let them outside to poop. Me? I'm taking the damn stool softeners twice a day and I still can't poop... my stomach hurts and my house is stinky (maybe my pregnancy nose is lingering?)
MIL is a TW. She called this morning asking us to give (not loan) her $200. Bwahahaha! No. Not our fault that you've chosen to only work p/t and live on alimony (now gone) for the last 5yrs and saved nothing. We told you to get a job b/c we would never give you money.
Adding to my day... My parents. I love them dearly, but really? SO went back to work today, so I'm on my own with a needy, jealous 13 month old and a 1 week old. They have been promising for months that they'll be here to help for the first week or so after SO goes back to work. They've been texting me all day, "we will be there at such and such time." Now I'm getting ready to put DS to bed and my parents text me, "do you need us to come over? We're here if you need us."
...yeah, like 6 hours ago would have been nice. Good thing both babies were, for the most part, cooperative and well-behaved.
ETA: that made me sound like a stuck up bitch. I handled it, life goes on, and I know I'll be on my own with my kids more often than not. It just irritates me to no end when people make promises that they don't intend to keep...
SO is a minor TW. He's making cheeseburger soup (so good!) and is refusing to add bacon. It's already cooked and crumbled damn it! Just put it in the pot! Or at least MY bowl!
MIL. I love her dearly don't get me wrong. I never have a problem with her, she keeps to herself, she isnt pushy, I'm lucky to have her. But I have PUPPP (which is an extremely itchy rash on my stomach, and now arms and legs, for those who arent familiar. Think of having poison ivy on your stomach that wont go away until after labour). Well I told her when she came over how itchy it was if anyone touched it and it was super sore because Ive scratched the crap out of it. What does she do? Walk up to me and rub my belly all over. Seriously. I had a nice moment where I didnt itch and you just did that? I literally looked at her and said "really?"
Adding to my day... My parents. I love them dearly, but really? SO went back to work today, so I'm on my own with a needy, jealous 13 month old and a 1 week old. They have been promising for months that they'll be here to help for the first week or so after SO goes back to work. They've been texting me all day, "we will be there at such and such time." Now I'm getting ready to put DS to bed and my parents text me, "do you need us to come over? We're here if you need us."
...yeah, like 6 hours ago would have been nice. Good thing both babies were, for the most part, cooperative and well-behaved.
ETA: that made me sound like a stuck up bitch. I handled it, life goes on, and I know I'll be on my own with my kids more often than not. It just irritates me to no end when people make promises that they don't intend to keep...
Yup my family did the same.. Mom picked us up from the hospital and literally ran out the front door the second we got in the house. She keeps texting saying "oh if you need me let me know" and when she is here or the ONE time I asked her for help she looked really annoyed to even be at my house.
I just had my cousin post a comment to my fb asking my unborn child to ask her parents (my DH and I) if we could let her know when I'm in labor because she might be in the area soon and would like to meet her. Umm...no. I'm not texting a bunch of people when I'm in labor so they can text me hours on end asking if the baby is here yet. I ended up responding as the baby stating mommy and daddy will announce it on fb when they are ready after she's born so she'll find out just like everyone else. I should also mention I'm not all that close with my cousin so it's extremely annoying for her to all of a sudden be interested.
DH is a TW. He doesn't generally help out much around the house, but he's been even less helpful lately and has barely helped with getting any baby gear put together, etc. and then has the balls to complain to his friends that I created a "honey do" list for him, which just consists of stuff he promised he'd do months ago. Anyway, he got home before me tonight and of course didn't start making dinner so I did. Then I went upstairs to ask him something and he's asleep!! Um, I'm the one that's 39 weeks pregnant and you're the one that's sleeping?! Not to mention the fact that he's still not up and I finished cooking half an hour ago.
My coworkers are also TWs.... I have so many people asking me questions about my pregnancy and the baby as I eat lunch in the work lunchroom that I can barely finish eating in time. Seriously thinking about finding somewhere else to eat lunch for a while, but then they would probably just seek me out to see if I went into labor.
@staahci810 your husband sounds like my boyfriend... drives me absolutely insane.
@carlyhammond it seriously wouldn't be such a big deal if I didn't have my son. He weighs over 30 lbs, which only a week post-baby, I'm absolutely not supposed to be lifting. Obviously, with nobody here, I have no choice.
I am sick of all the gofundme's that are popping up. People think that's the answer to their problems. I only know of one legit one out of 5 that I've seen in the last day. I will be the first to say I haven't looked deeply at gofundme's rules and stuff, but asking for hand outs for a child to get an expensive toy is just crazy to me.
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The weather is also a TW. The cold messed up the latch on the car door so we couldn't close it this morning for like half an hour. This was my one morning to have a lie in, but no such luck since DH was repeatedly banging the door to get it to close (I don't blame him for this one).
1. My body- it's bad enough I can't sleep, but now I have a horrible cold AND somehow the few hours of sleep I did get last night resulted in a horrifically strained neck. It's so bad I'm springing for a prenatal massage tomorrow.
2. My mom, for saying "my guess is you won't have progressed at all when they check you today" when she KNOWS I'm praying for enough progression that they'll induce me at 39 weeks. (Without a long explanation I have legitimate reasons why my OB and I want to do it, but it's not medically necessary so he won't do it unless I'm dilated to at least 3 on my own.)
DS1 01/08/03 DD1 08/11/04 DD2 10/06/08 DS2 09/30/14
SURPRISE! Hannah May born 01/22/16
My parents. I love them dearly, but really? SO went back to work today, so I'm on my own with a needy, jealous 13 month old and a 1 week old. They have been promising for months that they'll be here to help for the first week or so after SO goes back to work. They've been texting me all day, "we will be there at such and such time." Now I'm getting ready to put DS to bed and my parents text me, "do you need us to come over? We're here if you need us."
...yeah, like 6 hours ago would have been nice. Good thing both babies were, for the most part, cooperative and well-behaved.
ETA: that made me sound like a stuck up bitch. I handled it, life goes on, and I know I'll be on my own with my kids more often than not. It just irritates me to no end when people make promises that they don't intend to keep...
DS1 01/08/03 DD1 08/11/04 DD2 10/06/08 DS2 09/30/14
SURPRISE! Hannah May born 01/22/16
Mom picked us up from the hospital and literally ran out the front door the second we got in the house.
She keeps texting saying "oh if you need me let me know" and when she is here or the ONE time I asked her for help she looked really annoyed to even be at my house.
Umm...no. I'm not texting a bunch of people when I'm in labor so they can text me hours on end asking if the baby is here yet. I ended up responding as the baby stating mommy and daddy will announce it on fb when they are ready after she's born so she'll find out just like everyone else.
I should also mention I'm not all that close with my cousin so it's extremely annoying for her to all of a sudden be interested.
After some of the posts today, anyone want to guess who has made my permanent TW list?
To that TW:
DS1 01/08/03 DD1 08/11/04 DD2 10/06/08 DS2 09/30/14
SURPRISE! Hannah May born 01/22/16
My coworkers are also TWs.... I have so many people asking me questions about my pregnancy and the baby as I eat lunch in the work lunchroom that I can barely finish eating in time. Seriously thinking about finding somewhere else to eat lunch for a while, but then they would probably just seek me out to see if I went into labor.
@carlyhammond it seriously wouldn't be such a big deal if I didn't have my son. He weighs over 30 lbs, which only a week post-baby, I'm absolutely not supposed to be lifting. Obviously, with nobody here, I have no choice.
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