I remember on my last BMB thinking it was crazy and strange that some husbands were planning to go home at night while mom was in the hospital.
This time around, I'm thinking I'd like to have H go home and stay with DD (who will be 2.5) at night instead of at the hospital. There really isn't any reason he needs to stay there, and it would be nice if one of us was getting some sleep (because it sure as heck won't be me!). Also, DD has never slept over anywhere else, and I'd like to keep a little normalcy if I can.
H is undecided, I think he feels guilty for leaving me/us there alone, but we'll be just fine. Honestly, I'd love to be able to go right home after delivery, but I know that's not an option.
So, what are your plans?