Wow. This is really not necessary. You can be real about information and that's still nice. I think what you are asking us to do is sugar coat. That isn't really nice at all in the long run. If everyone sugar coats can you imagine the disappointment that could happen? I would rather someone give it to me straight and give me a chuckle than sugar coat.
To me, sugar coating is not genuine or appreciated. Its also very poor form when pregnant (and never participated in building this community) to a.) gloat about your pregnancy b.) Name call . Really, you aren't even out of first trimester yet. Its no time to gloat or act smug.
Omg, ladies not all July 16 women are rude or condescending. There are several of us that promote science, reality with an decent amount of snark.
Oh don't worry. I'm sure many of them can lurk here and see what a shining example of supportive advice this one is giving. If I were on July 2016 I would be shunning this chick so fast.
I'm such a bitch-- I can't stand myself lol. :P How dare I support a core group of poster for 15 months while trying to conceive #3? Jesus Christ, that makes me so heinous to give love, support and a dose of realism when needed. Guys, I should have been SUGAR COATING then I would get pregnant faster. Dang it, that's the secret!
I'm hoping @BumpAdmin will see the 3 TOU violations here and somebody this callous can head on over to one of the other baby sites.
@MommaDuckett With your atrocious attempts to rub your pregnancy in the face of other women who are TTC, I implore you to apologize. These women are amazing and have help MANY of your fellow BMB members to achieve their BFPs. How did they do it?
It sure would be nice, supportive and make @mommaduckett an upstanding human being to apologize for rubbing her BFP in other's faces. Especially if some of the others have been through miscarriages, infertility and YEARS of trying to get pregnant. I hear a lot of smack talking from @mommaduckett about being "nice and encouraging".
To anyone hurt by this post and this girl rubbing her BFP in our faces: remember its always better to pity the unfeeling than to allow them to enrage you. Its not our fault that she has some serious mental imbalance that causes her to act so atrociously towards women who are still trying to get pregnant. That's not at all an example of a gracious, thankful pregnant woman who is mindful of others' feelings. Instead, let's embrace those like Didi and Pugs who are examples of the kind of pregnant ladies we want to be. Thoughtful, considerate and generally kick-ass.
I'm such a bitch-- I can't stand myself lol. :P How dare I support a core group of poster for 15 months while trying to conceive #3? Jesus Christ, that makes me so heinous to give love, support and a dose of realism when needed. Guys, I should have been SUGAR COATING then I would get pregnant faster. Dang it, that's the secret!
Ok first of all, that gif makes me think of:
Also MORE SUGAR!
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j/k, I can't handle this much sugar....
TTC #1 --- BFP #1 5/15, loss at 5 weeks --- BFP #2 12/15, loss at 4+3 --- RE testing 3/16 normal, still trying for our rainbow
I am so sorry ladies. I didn't mean to rub it in anybodies face. Not only to I apologize for that, I apoligize for jumping the gun and calling all these people I dont know bad names. My emotions got the best of me. If somebody were to act like this when I was TTC I would've been heartbroken.
I am so sorry ladies. I didn't mean to rub it in anybodies face. Not only to I apologize for that, I apoligize for jumping the gun and calling all these people I dont know bad names. My emotions got the best of me. If somebody were to act like this when I was TTC I would've been heartbroken.
Hmmm.... Ok.
ETA: I see you were called out about your behavior on your bmb, I'm pretty sure this apology is just so you can continue posting here and not genuine in the least.
I am so sorry ladies. I didn't mean to rub it in anybodies face. Not only to I apologize for that, I apoligize for jumping the gun and calling all these people I dont know bad names. My emotions got the best of me. If somebody were to act like this when I was TTC I would've been heartbroken.
Actually rubbing your pregnancy in the face of those ttgp was your exact intention. Which is pretty much hitting as far below the belt as possible. You can't just apologize and expect an entire forum of women to just forget what you said. The bump never forgets.
I am so sorry ladies. I didn't mean to rub it in anybodies face. Not only to I apologize for that, I apoligize for jumping the gun and calling all these people I dont know bad names. My emotions got the best of me. If somebody were to act like this when I was TTC I would've been heartbroken.
Yeah so why did you say what you said it if you would have been heartbroken if someone did that to you? There are a lot of us here that are having trouble TTC or had multiple losses and the last thing we want is someone rubbing it in our faces. Your post screamed "teehee I'm pregnant and you're not!" and that really hurt. Not just me but I'm sure there are lots of others. Never mind the careless throwing the word bitches around just because we disagreed with your first post.
We are genuinely happy for others that get their BFP if they ever gave contributions to the TTGP and you will see you pissed off a lot of women in your BMB that were regulars here as well. You get support to receive support, that's just how it works on here.
I seriously doubted you would have apologized if you weren't called out so I guess this is the best we're going to get. Next time try to show some basic compassion.
Re: Spotting?
To me, sugar coating is not genuine or appreciated. Its also very poor form when pregnant (and never participated in building this community) to a.) gloat about your pregnancy b.) Name call . Really, you aren't even out of first trimester yet. Its no time to gloat or act smug.
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I'm such a bitch-- I can't stand myself lol. :P
How dare I support a core group of poster for 15 months while trying to conceive #3? Jesus Christ, that makes me so heinous to give love, support and a dose of realism when needed. Guys, I should have been SUGAR COATING then I would get pregnant faster. Dang it, that's the secret!
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I'm hoping @BumpAdmin will see the 3 TOU violations here and somebody this callous can head on over to one of the other baby sites.
@MommaDuckett With your atrocious attempts to rub your pregnancy in the face of other women who are TTC, I implore you to apologize. These women are amazing and have help MANY of your fellow BMB members to achieve their BFPs. How did they do it?
To anyone hurt by this post and this girl rubbing her BFP in our faces: remember its always better to pity the unfeeling than to allow them to enrage you. Its not our fault that she has some serious mental imbalance that causes her to act so atrociously towards women who are still trying to get pregnant. That's not at all an example of a gracious, thankful pregnant woman who is mindful of others' feelings. Instead, let's embrace those like Didi and Pugs who are examples of the kind of pregnant ladies we want to be. Thoughtful, considerate and generally kick-ass.
Buck up ladies!
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Pps. This damn time difference. I missed the following tou violations
Ok.
ETA: I see you were called out about your behavior on your bmb, I'm pretty sure this apology is just so you can continue posting here and not genuine in the least.
Which is pretty much hitting as far below the belt as possible.
You can't just apologize and expect an entire forum of women to just forget what you said.
The bump never forgets.
We are genuinely happy for others that get their BFP if they ever gave contributions to the TTGP and you will see you pissed off a lot of women in your BMB that were regulars here as well. You get support to receive support, that's just how it works on here.
I seriously doubted you would have apologized if you weren't called out so I guess this is the best we're going to get. Next time try to show some basic compassion.