waiting game.

askye1212

Oct 18 had a mc. Since then I have no AF yet. I was only 5 weeks and passed it naturally. We have tried but so far behative test. Pretty sure I ovulated the 1st week. Waiting to know if I get AF is killing me. Anyone else?

kmmharrison

That wait was the hardest thing I've ever gone through other than the loss of our baby. I found that charting my fertility signs, including my BBT helped me cope as well as analyze what was going on. I know it's rough! Hang in there!

FireInWonderland

I'm the opposite - I had my loss on Oct 15 and charting and temping was a terrible idea for me. It made me feel terribly insecure - like I wouldn't be able to face doing it only to get a BFN my first cycle after a loss. I'm positive I ovulated based on all the signs and symptoms and from speaking with my doctor, but AF hasn't hit yet. It's tough because I don't know if I will get AF or a BFP. And right now, I'm not even sure which I want, because I feel like I haven't grieved enough. Whichever way your body goes, you have lots of support here and remember to be kind to yourself. It's tough, but you are tougher. And when you're not, we are all here to help you be tough.