Pregnant Again

bryannatutcher

Wow. So we are pregnant again. My husband and I are absolutely freaking out. We are excited and scared and well HELLO I don't want to be pregnant again right now.
(I know babies are a blessing and this is meant to be) but ahhhhhh. Help? Just needing some moral support.

dec2018mom

Um. Really? You're freaking out and don't want to be pregnant again? Should have used something to...you know...prevent pregnancy?

Amber Woods

Yeah it's easy to say ooo you should have used something. For 1. Birth control kills your milk supply if you breastfeed and 2. Condoms suck... I am being extra careful and would freak out too if I was pregnant. Obviously it's a blessing and I would love another baby but it is a bit soon. Hope that you have people that you can count on to help

chrissyl-2

Congratulations! You will be fine people have babies close together all the time. Your kids will be great friends being so close in age. I would be thrilled to be prego again, but I don't seem to be ovulating while breatfeeding. You can't plan everything, people still get pregnant while on birth control. Enjoy and congrats again!!

MacDonald5

This is a place for support and help not degrading. If that's what you're here for feel free to go elsewhere.

kristierw

Congratulations!! I completely agree with pp:) You're kids will be close and they will have each other. We plan to have our next to close together! Ignore the negative people, those opinions do not matter. You got this mama!

cherindi

*Removed due to TOU violation*

tdart14

Not cool ^ [-X. What's to say her birth control didn't fail?

OP - it is unfortunate that you are pregnant when you didn't necessarily want to be. You right, all babies are a blessing, and I'm sure your kids will enjoy growing up close in age.

I have a friend who found out she was pregnant 3 months post partum. . She became a single mom by her choice during that pregnancy and her and the kids are doing well! I know you can do just as well too!

danibii

@bryannatutcher - feel free to come
Over to the FB group where there's support and kindness, stay away from some of these nasties
(Some of the comments have been kind too)

cambam7

My sister and I are 15 months apart. I love it. We went to same school , had mutual friends. No bullies messed with me bc I had my sister there. Yea we had disagreements and sharing stuff sucked but all that still comes with sibling whether 1 year or 6 years apart in age. My nieces are 6 years apart. Idt birth spacing really matters. Maybe talk to your doc to see if ur body can handle another pregnancy. My mom did it and many others too. You will be fine. The babies will be thriving, successful adults like me.

twodreamers

People have babies close together ALL the time. You'll be fine, I promise. It DOESN'T suck to be you. I think it's AWESOME. There are lots of women out there that can't have babies so be grateful and celebrate this life. It will be a JOY for the whole family!!

Ignore the trolls and haters that are OH SO INCREDIBLY brave hiding behind their keyboard. Just know, their negativity has nothing to do with you.

LadyBlood

Amber Woods said:

Yeah it's easy to say ooo you should have used something. For 1. Birth control kills your milk supply if you breastfeed and 2. Condoms suck... I am being extra careful and would freak out too if I was pregnant. Obviously it's a blessing and I would love another baby but it is a bit soon. Hope that you have people that you can count on to help

Being pregnant can kill your supply as well. So, not really a good excuse. Not my life though, so I don't care!

mars8k

Negative people go home no one likes you,

Congratulations on your pregnancy! It will all work out just fine, god gave you the second baby, god will help you with the second baby. Enjoy your beautiful journy!

Chichi93

I'm also pregnant again. I was on birth control so it's not like it doesn't fail sometimes. Geez people. If you're going to be negative just close the post. It's not hard. (: 

I'm due April 2016. haha. What about you?? @bryannatutcher (don't know how to tag people dang it.)

                                                 Congrats on your pregnancy (: 

Chichi93

Also...

My brother is 23

I'm about to be 22

My sister is going to be 21 in March

Stair step babies all the way (: 

samstone0814

I'm not pregnant, but when I did get pregnant with my son I had an IUD in. There's no such thing as 100% bc.

jam4542

I'm just shocked at how rude some of these comments are....

Congrats to you and your family @bryannatutcher ....