The cervix secrets

calfherder

Can I release the hounds now? The internet safety thing is good advice. You don't want some crazy trolling your FB friends or emailing your employer etc. And there are some crazies out there!

Good luck with your cervix!

sunnysideup7300

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

Litterateur

sunnysideup7300 said:

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

LadyMillil

sunnysideup7300 said:

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

1. The only person I saw being nasty on this thread was you.

2. Give support to get support. You haven't given support to anyone. Why should we give support to you. And, FTR, they were a lot of supportive answers to your question

3. Internet safety and privacy is a thing everyone should be aware of. You have no idea who is on the other side of the screen and what they could do with your information.

SMA1211

sunnysideup7300 said:

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

Maybe it was the way your phrased your OP. Not one person here has been mean or nasty, you have gotten solid advice and some extra advice on the side. You have taken everything people are saying out of context and being rude. It's like you came here looking for a fight?

sunnysideup7300

SMA1211 said:

sunnysideup7300 said:

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

Maybe it was the way your phrased your OP. Not one person here has been mean or nasty, you have gotten solid advice and some extra advice on the side. You have taken everything people are saying out of context and being rude. It's like you came here looking for a fight?

The only thing I came here for is support and some helpful information on my specific topic. I am over this and sick of defending myself to strangers who clearly have no compassion or care for a stranger unless they have directly improved their life somehow. What a way to be supportive. And for the poster who insist I rethink trying to conceive, I hope no one ever says that to you.

SMA1211

sunnysideup7300 said:

SMA1211 said:

sunnysideup7300 said:

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

Maybe it was the way your phrased your OP. Not one person here has been mean or nasty, you have gotten solid advice and some extra advice on the side. You have taken everything people are saying out of context and being rude. It's like you came here looking for a fight?

The only thing I came here for is support and some helpful information on my specific topic. I am over this and sick of defending myself to strangers who clearly have no compassion or care for a stranger unless they have directly improved their life somehow. What a way to be supportive. And for the poster who insist I rethink trying to conceive, I hope no one ever says that to you.

But that's the way a PUBLIC forum goes you can't ask for people to say some things and not others you got support and advice. No one said to rethink trying to consieve all together they said it as in if you are having this hard a time maybe take a break from it. Or that's how it came off to me. Take a second go back and re read the things you have said and you will see the only one being nasty is you. If you want to stick around and lurk and give support to get support then no problem. That's how this group works you give a little to get a little like most things in life.

Litterateur

SMA1211 said:

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

Maybe it was the way your phrased your OP. Not one person here has been mean or nasty, you have gotten solid advice and some extra advice on the side. You have taken everything people are saying out of context and being rude. It's like you came here looking for a fight?

The only thing I came here for is support and some helpful information on my specific topic. I am over this and sick of defending myself to strangers who clearly have no compassion or care for a stranger unless they have directly improved their life somehow. What a way to be supportive. And for the poster who insist I rethink trying to conceive, I hope no one ever says that to you.

But that's the way a PUBLIC forum goes you can't ask for people to say some things and not others you got support and advice. No one said to rethink trying to consieve all together they said it as in if you are having this hard a time maybe take a break from it. Or that's how it came off to me. Take a second go back and re read the things you have said and you will see the only one being nasty is you. If you want to stick around and lurk and give support to get support then no problem. That's how this group works you give a little to get a little like most things in life.

Look at @SMA1211 being such a sweetheart! 

Lulucooks

sunnysideup7300 said:

SMA1211 said:

sunnysideup7300 said:

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

Maybe it was the way your phrased your OP. Not one person here has been mean or nasty, you have gotten solid advice and some extra advice on the side. You have taken everything people are saying out of context and being rude. It's like you came here looking for a fight?

The only thing I came here for is support and some helpful information on my specific topic. I am over this and sick of defending myself to strangers who clearly have no compassion or care for a stranger unless they have directly improved their life somehow. What a way to be supportive. And for the poster who insist I rethink trying to conceive, I hope no one ever says that to you.

Erm.... you were rude first. It's like you walked into a party and said "Hey you bitches, now don't be bitches to me, cause we all know you're super bitches. I need someone's help to tell me how to do something. No bitching!"

Does not go over well.....

bettertogether27

sunnysideup7300 said:

...Before the hounds get all over me...Thank you in advance for your input and please no put downs, I've had a rough few months and seem to be "snappy" lately lol

1. By thanking in advance for the input, you're implying that you would like input, which you refused to acknowledge once you received it. Did you really want anyone to respond?

2. You imply the members use put downs against others, however, you feel entitled to refer to us as hounds. We have more class than that.

3. We all feel a bit snappy sometimes. Rough week? Rough month? Yeah, we can relate. We're here for support. Your post implies we aren't also experiencing tribulations. You don't get to set yourself apart by saying you're having a rough time. That belittles our troubles.

Maybe, try being polite next time.

blackgirlmagic

Right now you are like our brother girlfriend that no one likes. You have to make your way into this crazy loving family of ours. Like someone said before you have to give support to get support. You just cannot come in here and tell people how to respond to your post. There are plenty of other websites that might put up with that crap but we are not one of them.

MEA0320

sunnysideup7300 said:

So what I'm gathering here so far is that if you make a post, expect mart ass remarks unrelated to your post, after specifically asking that if you can't find anything supportive to say then just keep it to yourself. Oh and do expect fly bys of people JUST here to say something negative. But, heaven forbid you match their nastiness with some of your own. I don't a appreciate the things that have been said to me, starting off with someone suggesting I rethink trying to conceive due to my rough week, as if I'm unfit to be a parent. Not ONE person in this "sooo supportive" group came to my defense.... So pardon my respect for this group and their outfield advice on my social appearance but yeah it has made me into a rude person.

Maybe it was the way your phrased your OP. Not one person here has been mean or nasty, you have gotten solid advice and some extra advice on the side. You have taken everything people are saying out of context and being rude. It's like you came here looking for a fight?

The only thing I came here for is support and some helpful information on my specific topic. I am over this and sick of defending myself to strangers who clearly have no compassion or care for a stranger unless they have directly improved their life somehow. What a way to be supportive. And for the poster who insist I rethink trying to conceive, I hope no one ever says that to you.

Just a suggestion -  if you ONLY want answers to a specific topic, then try Google or call your dr. 

You received great answers at the beginning of your thread and honestly, if I saw this yesterday, I would have gave you the same links. You received additional advice as we do all try to lookout for one another in this group. Feel free to participate if you want, but based on the tone of your responses I'm guessing you'll be leaving. If you do decide to stick around, then take a step back and take a deep breath before diving back in with guns drawn. 

fitlady21

Anyone else find it funny what the OPs name is now? Oh the irony...

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Litterateur

Chloepenelopecat said:

Ummm... She did that to Someone on my board and called them at their house and left a threatening message. The girl she called is a lawyer or something and the girl she threatened is suing her. I think she said the papers are going to her work early next week. She told us about it in our FB group. Honestly, @Litterateur , that's kind of stalking/crazy. I didn't believe her at first, but I've seen you say this same thing to two other people on TB.

I've seen too much crazy not to warn people.  I just want people to be safe.  Even if they don't like me, I'm ok with it as long as I can do something to help!

sorarose

Chloepenelopecat said:

Ummm... She did that to Someone on my board and called them at their house and left a threatening message. The girl she called is a lawyer or something and the girl she threatened is suing her. I think she said the papers are going to her work early next week. She told us about it in our FB group. Honestly, @Litterateur , that's kind of stalking/crazy. I didn't believe her at first, but I've seen you say this same thing to two other people on TB.

QFP. Huh?

Litterateur

Deeny14 said:

Chloepenelopecat said:

Ummm... She did that to Someone on my board and called them at their house and left a threatening message. The girl she called is a lawyer or something and the girl she threatened is suing her. I think she said the papers are going to her work early next week. She told us about it in our FB group. Honestly, @Litterateur , that's kind of stalking/crazy. I didn't believe her at first, but I've seen you say this same thing to two other people on TB.

QFP. Huh?

I don't think she meant me.  At least I didn't take it that way.

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SMA1211

Litterateur said:

Deeny14 said:

Chloepenelopecat said:

Ummm... She did that to
Someone on my board and called them at their house and left a threatening message. The girl she called is a lawyer or something and the girl she threatened is suing her. I think she said the papers are going to her work early next week. She told us about it in our FB group.

Honestly, @Litterateur , that's kind of stalking/crazy. I didn't believe her at first, but I've seen you say this same thing to two other people on TB.

QFP. Huh?

I don't think she meant me.  At least I didn't take it that way.



It sounds like she's saying that you called that person at her house or something?

Litterateur

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I'm sorry, but I am not those people.  

PugsandKisses

Can some one please explain what is going on?

aquamarinelimbo

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I think we are all legit confused here.  So you mean to tell me that you listened to a voicemail that some rando on the internet posted to facebook and attributed to a member here on the bump and you believe them?  What did @Litterateur supposed do? Say "Hi, this is Litterateur on the bump and I just wanted you to know that I am calling to harass you"?  Or perhaps you are some sort of voice recognition guru?

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Litterateur

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I honestly have no idea what you're talking about.  All the internet safety stuff comes from when I was on TB last year and from reading one too many catfish threads.

bumptara

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