I had lunch with my mom today, and she let me know that she had talked with my mother-in-law about my baby shower (they're co-hosting it) and that my MIL would like to have it at her house (which I'm fine with, of course). But then she also mentioned that my MIL was thinking of having it sometime in January - after Christmas. My due date is February 3rd, and having the shower so close makes me a little nervous - I worry about going into labor early, or not having the energy to put together/put away baby things if I'm 35+ weeks pregnant. I was thinking that having it sometime in early December makes more sense.
Anyway, would it rude or presumptuous of me to let my MIL know that I would prefer to have my shower a little earlier? I know that "planning" your own shower is seen as tacky, so I wanted to make sure that I'm not stepping on toes.
Thanks for any replies!