Crap! It's a BOY?!?

mommytobof3

I have miscarried before so I do know what it's like, but I also know the world is full of people with no hearts or morals so I don't expect sympathy from everyone. Not everyone is the same and the OP didn't start off by being rude until she was told she shouldn't have kids, this is a forum for pregnant women for support and I saw some pretty rude comments Tbh if it was me that the comments were directed to I would've been just as mean and heartless if not more. I live by a different moral code then most I believe you get back what you give out. Be rude and ugly you get it back

Are you implying that people had losses because they didn't follow your moral code and were ugly and rude?

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mommytobof3

spottedginger said:

mommytobof3 said:

Let's all stop acting fake for a minute! Most of you posters can't say you didn't want a specific gender and were disappointed when you didn't get it! If you say you never had well more then likely you're a liar. You don't need to attack the original poster, GET OVER IT! Do you think that she's the only pregnant woman like this? Hell I've got a bet goin on the sex with my child's father. And she's also not the only person who sees a nasty person and didn't sympathize with them js

I would be equally happy with a daughter or a son and resent you calling me a liar. Name calling is against the bump TOU. I sympathize with anyone who has suffered through a loss or multiple losses because that is a horrible thing to face.

How old are we today? You're upset because I'm saying something that most people don't?

mommytobof3

taysun said:

mommytobof3 said:

I have miscarried before so I do know what it's like, but I also know the world is full of people with no hearts or morals so I don't expect sympathy from everyone. Not everyone is the same and the OP didn't start off by being rude until she was told she shouldn't have kids, this is a forum for pregnant women for support and I saw some pretty rude comments Tbh if it was me that the comments were directed to I would've been just as mean and heartless if not more. I live by a different moral code then most I believe you get back what you give out. Be rude and ugly you get it back

Again, name calling is against TOU. Not to mention, this is not a support group. You might want to read the terms of use if you plan on sticking around.

Oh are you an admin? If not then move on with your idle threats. I'm not gonna get myself all worked up and upset over something someone says behind a computer screen that doesn't even know me. AND yes if it is a place (social or gathering) to discuss issues with people that are going threw the same thing as you that is a type of support. have a good day, k

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