Im a mother of 2, a 4.5 year old who is autistic and a 6 week old. My 4 year old is non-verbal so it is really hard for me to understand what he needs/wants. When he wants something he points to what he needs. My husband is very impatient with both kids. I usually have to ask him a couple times to help me with one of them. When he does "help", he's upset because he has to do something.
For example if the baby cries, I have to stop what I'm doing and attend to the baby (I don't mind). Today I was in the restroom, he starts to cuss me out because I'm taking a long time. She was crying and he couldn't calm her down and it was all my fault. At night he won't even get up to help me with her. (He says he has to sleep because he works in the morning. I'm on disability now, so he says I have to get up because I don't do anything and stay home all day). I also work and I'm back to work on Monday. I know he will not help me. All he does is play games on his phone. I just feel like running away. Help me please. Thank you.