No flames. Both the 2 weeks pelvic rest to prevent infection and the # of normal periods after to try again?
My sex drive is starting to return, but my body (still experiencing cervical pain any time there is pressure from a full bladder, gas, or BM) and my mind (horny) are still firmly not in agreement. My temps are finally dropping from the 99.4 range, but I can tell when DH is kissing the sides of my neck that my lymph nodes are chock full and super tender. It's been only 5 days since the D&C. I was thinking that provided my temp stays down/keeps going down, my cervical pain is gone, and my lymph nodes feel clear for 48hrs that it might be ok to resume sex/TTC if it happens prior to the two week mark?
I was surprised by how many charts on Fertility Friend showed women having sex within a week of miscarrying. Should I assume those weren't D&Cs? Do those who experienced natural miscarriages get told to wait two weeks to prevent infection too?
I'm planning on taking a series of dollar-store HPTs and OPKs so that at least if there's still a BFP line, I would be able to show the doc when it started progressively getting darker. Yes, I can see how some would think that's assuming a lot, but I've always been the one who gets pregnant the first month trying.