i keep reading how against everyone is on having a second shower for your second child. What i don't get is why? who cares? you feed and entertain the guests, they are not obligated to come, unless they want to so why is it such a big "no no". Are you not supposed to celebrate your second child?
I went a more than a few "second baby" showers and didn't see anything wrong with it.
I will probably do one myself when it's time.
p.s. is there a way to do a poll on these boards??