venting

Betty965

I'm turning 35 in a few weeks and DH and have been ttc for 8 months. I know. Not long enough to sweat it. DH was traveling during my fertile window so we only got to BD 5 days before I o. Now I'm 6 dpo and I swear I have weirdo implant type cramps. Oh, and my boobs are super sore. In trying not to symptom spot bc I know the likelihood is low that we've conceived this cycle. Trying not to get my hopes up. Again. I was ready to just ride it out until the cramping started and then I was off to Google to see the chances of conceiving 5dpo. My temp is spiking, but it always does that at this point in my cycle. I know y'all know what this is like! It hasn't been long enough after 8 months to freak out, but I do. I need a hobby... other than google! ♡

gigglesgufaw

Distraction is so hard! And it is especially hard if your DH is gone and you are on your own. Have you ever tried meditation?

Betty965

Thanks for replying. I think meditation is a great idea! ♡

rspalding001

Yeah its really hard not to obsess. I don't have any great advise because I do it too but just try to get outside (especially now that's its getting to be nicer weather) and find some distraction. Good luck!