Can we just post like a thread just for us lol I keep trying to think of a name or something where we can just bitch and have a good time. I'm rarely reading most of the board now and responding minimally because the repeat threads are completely out of hand.
In my old BMB, we instituted a daily SPAM thread so as not to clutter the board. It was awesome. It was basically treated like a 'Dear Diary' thread where everyone posted to their heart's content about what was going on with them that day. It was contained in one thread each day. It was also such a great way to get to know each other.
This was also pre-mass exodus. The boards were so much more enjoyable back then when you can speak your mind and not tread on sunshine, puppies, and rainbows.
I've been avoiding this thread because the first two pages gave me major anxiety with all the "boohoo I don't want to use the search function" posts ... and then my little yellow "new post" number got to 82 and I was like
I can't believe I've been missing out on a GIF PARTY. Deng it.
At least you're super sweet in your posts. I don't even bother posting since I'm toeing the line with 2 warnings from last week.
I gave myself a few days break and have tried to come in as a "they don't know better" mindset but it's disappearing quickly!
And 2 warnings!? I don't even know what you said to warrant a warning!
I called someone an idiot and told them to go away, which I didn't know was against the new TOU. It was that chick that were calling people maroons or morons. And then the other was for asking when the crazies will be weeded out. :-<
I swear... I was going to post today about my vanishing twin (seriously)... But I remembered that there had already been at least two posts about it and I could have found 300,000 on twins
@BostonBaby1 I would have understood if you had anyways, a loss to me is an understandable reason to need support. Hugs to you and positive vibes for your LO that is safe and growing. I know it's not the same and will take time.
I swear... I was going to post today about my vanishing twin (seriously)... But I remembered that there had already been at least two posts about it and I could have found 300,000 on twins
Oh mama! Hugs! We are always here for you. Fx for a healthy and happy lo!
@Karawe your post was passive agressive-thanks. Btw I did search-maybe I did it wrong because I didn't see any of that. I thought the purpose of these threads was to be friendly and help one another guess not. Now I guess I might be done. If it's a repeat and it annoys you- Don't read it! Sorry-guess my hormones are making me just plain aggressive.
I swear... I was going to post today about my vanishing twin (seriously)... But I remembered that there had already been at least two posts about it and I could have found 300,000 on twins
Oh I'm so sorry I don't think a loss thread falls under this category. Hugs to you!
@chiboo9@nik6499@Karawe Thank you so much girls! I know I could have posted but all of you that I've really gotten to know are on here anyhow and I'm just processing everything.
If I'm still having a hard time later I'll post about it. Mostly I'm just feeling scared right now. I feel sad but didn't know there was a twin but I'm basically scared because I'm afraid I'm going to lose this one too and it's probably a PGAL thing more than a twin issue.
I'm so grateful to have such wonderful support from all of you!!! You guys are awesome
@BostonBaby1 you're entitled to grieve your child(ren). You had a loss and it requires healing. I can't imagine the emotions you are and will be going through.
Re: Please Use The Search Function
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In my old BMB, we instituted a daily SPAM thread so as not to clutter the board. It was awesome. It was basically treated like a 'Dear Diary' thread where everyone posted to their heart's content about what was going on with them that day. It was contained in one thread each day. It was also such a great way to get to know each other.
This was also pre-mass exodus. The boards were so much more enjoyable back then when you can speak your mind and not tread on sunshine, puppies, and rainbows.
At least you're super sweet in your posts. I don't even bother posting since I'm toeing the line with 2 warnings from last week.
And 2 warnings!? I don't even know what you said to warrant a warning!
I called someone an idiot and told them to go away, which I didn't know was against the new TOU. It was that chick that were calling people maroons or morons. And then the other was for asking when the crazies will be weeded out. :-<
Ok I'm done.
Just pretend there is a really funny gif here
If I'm still having a hard time later I'll post about it. Mostly I'm just feeling scared right now. I feel sad but didn't know there was a twin but I'm basically scared because I'm afraid I'm going to lose this one too and it's probably a PGAL thing more than a twin issue.
I'm so grateful to have such wonderful support from all of you!!! You guys are awesome