i am 16 weeks pregnant and all anyone can talk about is is finding out the gender of our baby soon. I REALLY would like to wait until the baby is born to find out the gender, boy or girl, it really does not matter to me. On the other hand, my boyfriend needs to know, idky but he's pushing to know. I would like us both to find out together but I know I won't be able to change his mind. He says he could find out and just keep it to himself which I'm sure he could do but it won't be as special for us together. How many of you did not find out the sex of your baby?