New - Loss Mentioned/New Pregnancy

lilliekidd

I had a loss of twins in march 2014, As of Dec 2014 I am pregnant again and very excited about it however I am a little saddened and disappointed that the baby will be a single birth.  don't get me wrong I am excited to have my baby and relieved that it is a single pregnancy because I have more confidence in everything going well.  I feel like a terrible person because I have the disappointment in me.  It has been a harder transition than it should be.

Mom2anAngel2

I am very sorry for the loss of your twins. Congratulations on your new pregnancy.

Don't feel disappointed in yourself. All of those feelings are part of the grieving process. Being PgAL is very difficult and full of crazy emotions.

I'm not sure how many people are still around on this board (if any). You are definitely welcome here, but you may want to check out the pregnant after loss board, I think there are still some members active over there. And you should be able to find some great support over there, I know I always have.

anxiousmommy85

Perfectly normal for your situation. You might even feel it if you were carrying twins. Take it one day at a time and just give yourself room to deal with the emotions as they come up. So sorry for your loss and many blessings with your rainbow.

lilliekidd

Thank you I moved this post to the other board and will see what happens.   I appreciate the support.